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About five years ago, I was seeing this girl who had a gorgeous, tall, whitewashed Indian friend. The Indian woman had just gotten out of a relationship with an Indian guy who worked in the logistics industry. She left him because he was depressed, hated his job, and spent a lot of time in bed.She's not dumpy. I'm saying that as a man who is mostly into White and Hispanic women.
She's from India originally and likely living in the United States now. In general, I am rarely attracted to Indian and Indian-American women.
She's average to cute range. She's likely 24, so she has age on her side right now. Individual men will rate her differently. If I saw her at a bar, I'd be somewhat interested and I might even start an interaction with her depending on her competition at that bar that night. If she were in a fitness class I attended, it's possible I'd even talk to her after class, though it's more probable there'd be a White woman in class that would interest me more. I would then focus on that White woman.
Her income standard at $60,000 annual salary isn't unreasonable. She's likely 24 (she mentions looking for 24-28 year old men). Base salaries for men with bachelor's degrees have gone up recently if men can actually get white collar jobs now. I don't think it's that difficult to find a 27-28 year old man with a $60,000 salary. If she expanded her criteria slightly to 24-32, it would be even easier for men to get into her income threshold.
I think this street interview was done in New Haven, Connecticut. There's a geographic New Haven pin in it. New Haven is home to Yale University. She could find a recent Yale grad in New Haven making $60,000+. She might also be in New Haven for the weekend and she might live closer to New York City (only 80-85 miles from New Haven).
Yale grads come from families with money in a lot of cases. Additionally, having a bachelor's degree from Yale will help with getting employment above the $60,000 annual salary threshold. Yale graduate level degrees will help even more.
She's looking more for White men than Indian/Indian-American men. That's going to make it more challenging for her to get a commitment. She can get short term sex from White men.
If she only will accept interactions from White men 6'0"+, then she is going to be rejecting most of her suitors. There are White men under 6'0" who would be interested. She'd probably get more interest for shorter term sex from 5'9"-5'11" White men, but it is possible she'd get some commitment interest. Indian/Indian-American men are going to be most interested in her for a longer term relationship.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Those are the types who can afford to travel to a Western country in the first place, so it's more likely that would be the case.10 bucks says the chick is an *upper caste* Indian who thinks her privileges back on the subcontinent should translate to the USA.
It's a phenomenon with most foreigners emigrating to the USA, but perhaps more pronounced with dealing with someone coming from a country with a caste system.Those are the types who can afford to travel to a Western country in the first place, so it's more likely that would be the case.