Wow, Aaron Clarey drops brutal black pill on short, bald guy asking for advice for getting women

[eli77]

Despite what you look like you should always be working on yourself to become the best possible version your genetics will allow. Life is unfair. Work harder.

Nice

 

[devilkingx2]

Not telling men that they have "limits" is simply a way to keep them within the rat race.

Imagine if sub 5 men due to genetic reasons knew they were out of the game no matter their efforts..society could say good bye to any effort, commitment and taxation from them.

Instead we bullsh1t them into trying even harder against their own best interest.

Every man knows that if he is of average height and weight with an average sized d1ck he cant win a strong men competition nor be an adult movie star...yet if a short bald guy ask for suggestions for women of fertile age, he gets told that it depends on his insecurity or personality.

"You gotta work on your game buddy, it's all about skills and humor".

It's all about playing the hand we are dealt. To some extent life isn't fair and we all have different capabilities and limitations, but lamenting that none of us were born as Kanye West or Drake isn't going to get you anywhere. Most things that make a person less attractive can be fixed.

Although I do agree that the 9 to 5 rat race is bullsh!t for each individual person's quality of life, despite being necessary for the function of society as a whole.

Very astute. This is the matrix.

The horrible realisation (is it horrible?) that Men are not equal is a fact that must be faced. Some men are born with brains that develop into amazing minds. How is that fair? I’m pretty sure if you’re Rockefeller/Rothschild-level genius you could be short, bald, poor and still weave magik on women. Ultimate frame.

By the way, have you tried working on your Game, buddy?

Intelligence is probably a detriment to picking up women actually, the thing you would want to be born with to be a short fat natural with women is Charisma.

High intelligence = socially awkward introvert with high grades who eventually becomes a software engineer.

It's related to the body positivity/ "differently-abled" / no one is cut from a different cloth leftist mentality. The idea that everyone is a blank slate and have equal ability to do whatever they want. Total nonsense and complete and utter bullsh!t.

Intelligence alone is huge factor that no one ever wants to address. Anytime someone says they're not intelligent enough to do x, people attack them for having self-limiting beliefs. Dunning kruger effect in full force.

Name me one self-made, highly succesful man who isn't intelligent. I'll wait.

This is all part of the same picture. If you have significant disadvantages in any given domain, the game may not be worth the candle.

There's many different kinds of intelligence, the trick is finding out which one you have and making it work for you. Both in terms of money and making friends/getting girls.

Building a bridge and painting a masterpiece require very different skillsets. But both can make you money and get you a hot wife.

 

[devilkingx2]

Intelligence when it comes to communication with women and Game is a different form of intelligence to a form that causes a guy to be socially awkward.

Intelligence with women actually requires a man to be able to think like a woman. Whereas engineering intelligence is logic-based and mathematical. That’s not really needed with Game. What’s needed is an ability to spike women’s emotions and turn them on. This falls into the realms of creative and social intelligence I think.

I've heard that math and science is done with the left side of your brain, and then things like art and writing are done with your right brain. And people are generally more dominant with one side or the other which leads to talents in art or math.

I wonder if things like social skills are also right brain abilities, they would fit right in.

 

[allergictobs]

I'm short and bald, but have never had trouble getting looks or attention from women. I take excellent care of myself and wear fitting clothes. I've been a natural bodybuilder since my 20s and keep my body fat in the 10-15% range.

No doubt I would get more attention if I were taller, but I'm not so sure about the hair. The thing is, if you are masculine-looking (with muscles, confidence, style) then hair doesn't really matter in my opinion - If you are balding, you just need to shave it off completely.

My theory regarding attraction is that both men and women select partners who are healthy. Male pattern baldness is not a sign of any disease, why would it be considered unattractive?

 

[allergictobs]

Another thing about Clarey - I've watched many of his videos - I think he is too bitter. I like his straightforward style but he is quite extreme.

Based on what he's said on videos, he does not seem to have a very good background with women, career or life in general - why should one take advice from a guy like that? Could it be that his own problems are due to his character or temperament?


About the "black pill", here's what I agree with:
If you are clearly below average in looks/intelligence/social skills, then yeah, maybe it's best to accept that you are not going to hook up with women and just try to live a comfortable life otherwise.


Here's what I don't agree with:
The black pillers are saying that basically, if you are not a male model, you should quit trying. I strongly disagree with that.

I know many men with the most beautiful wives or girlfriends with nice personalities. Are all of these guys male models? None of them. They may be a bit above average in looks, but that doesn't seem to be the main factor. The thing that all of them have though is that they have their **** together - they are intelligent, have a positive outlook on life, they are friendly, they have a good career, and they take care of their health.

 

[eli77]

It's all about playing the hand we are dealt. To some extent life isn't fair and we all have different capabilities and limitations, but lamenting that none of us were born as Kanye West or Drake isn't going to get you anywhere. Most things that make a person less attractive can be fixed.

Although I do agree that the 9 to 5 rat race is bullsh!t for each individual person's quality of life, despite being necessary for the function of society as a whole.


Intelligence is probably a detriment to picking up women actually, the thing you would want to be born with to be a short fat natural with women is Charisma.

High intelligence = socially awkward introvert with high grades who eventually becomes a software engineer.



There's many different kinds of intelligence, the trick is finding out which one you have and making it work for you. Both in terms of money and making friends/getting girls.

Building a bridge and painting a masterpiece require very different skillsets. But both can make you money and get you a hot wife.

Emotional intelligence over high IQ any day