Wow, Aaron Clarey drops brutal black pill on short, bald guy asking for advice for getting women

[Hamurabimbi]

I have 1 point of 3 based on your evaluation. I’m not balding & not gray. Height & income are neutral.

I don’t think it is over either but certainly more challenging.

The Big 3 are height, hair and $.

Unfortunately this guy is 0 out of 3.

I have hair & money (2 points). But, i can proxy my face for height.

 

[Mike32ct]

I have hair & money (2 points). But, i can proxy my face for height.

Yes, definitely.

Face is a wildcard.

 

[Epicwinguy]

If you are under 6 feet make under 6 figures and have a body fat percentage over 6% it’s over

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I try to give guys a positive mindset to work with here but man, I've got to say that short bald dudes I've known tend to fall into one of two categories.

1. Obviously bitter incels. Self-explanatory, no need for me to dig in much here.

2. The guys who do try, are in good physical shape, are actively trying to learn game, and put in the work. However, these guys seem to come off as way too overcompensating and it is laughable because they are usually the loudest and most outspoken guys in the room. I have found that women get turned off by this sort of stuff and the guy is often unbearable without even realizing it.

These are the types of dudes who will go all out with game, spam approach like crazy, preach game theory, be borderline black pill, and have an ego to boot.

I know that being short and bald are setbacks but you gotta own it somehow. I've noticed that black and Latino (brown Latinos) seem to own it well and have less problems. Somehow, baldness hits white guys differently.

 

[RBK]

All we can do is be the best version of ourselves, for the short bald dudes what is worrying about this going to solve?

The funny thing is I talk to tall guys and they said they don't have an advantage over women.

 

[Mike32ct]

The funny thing is I talk to tall guys and they said they don't have an advantage over women.

I knew a 6’3” guy who insisted up and down that his height wasn’t a factor for attracting women. He said it’s “How he carries himself.” Whatever that BS means.

And I knew a 26 yo guy that hooked up with lots of cougars. He kept telling them that he “aged well” lol.

At least guy #2 was funny.

 

[Solomon]

I love Aaron clarey but his hatred of the left seeps in to literally everything he says. We get it, you hate sjws, California, and states with state income taxes.

Yet the guy lives in one of the top leftist state (Minnesota) not sure why people still getting advice from Clarey
The guy has been out the field for over a decade and has no clue what is even going on in his own city with the dating scene

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I remember being out one night earlier this year and there was this short and older white dude who my wing seemed to know. To his credit, the guy was in good shape and he was going around approaching every set at the bar while being blown out. One set of his seemed to go alright but I think the girls just seemed nice tbh. A few minutes in, this taller ethnic looking dude who was built like a rugby player comes in immediately starts talking to the set.

The girls take their eyes off the short guy and immediately start focusing on the tall dude. Short guy is trying to get back into the convo but one of the girls has her eyes on the taller dude and her friend is whispering something in her ear. Now short guy is trying to talk to the taller dude and go after the friend of the girl who is just ignoring him the whole way.

Wing and I watched because these girls were the only approachable set. I asked wing how he knew the guy and apparently the guy had been doing a whole lot of game in Miami and was a part of another chat the wing was a part of.

We see the girls visibly trying to take their attention off of the short dude until the tall dude grabs the girl into him and literally pulls her away to the side as her friend walks around to get next to her, smiling. The three formed a circle and the short dude was on the outside trying to break in.

I thought that maybe the girls knew the tall dude but my wing tells me that the dude is actually a daygamer who occasionally comes to the bar. Shorter dude later approaches the wing and I, very frustrated over what had happened.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Balding should bother every man. I'm amazed how they don't take it seriously or don't do any kind of treatments. Women care about hair, a lot.

Not really...I shave my head and/or wear hats and it's never been an issue.

People spend a lot of time worrying about things that don't really matter in the grand scheme of things

 

[MatureDJ]

What we need to do is divide men into their clear roles in society. Breeding Men and Working Men. There are Men for Working. And there are Men for Breeding.

Problem is that someone has to do the difficult decision making and stick their neck out. I am willing to nominate myself as Captain of the Breeding Men

Our primate cousins show how quickly the out-group could get angry:

 

[MatureDJ]

I remember being out one night earlier this year and there was this short and older white dude who my wing seemed to know. To his credit, the guy was in good shape and he was going around approaching every set at the bar while being blown out. One set of his seemed to go alright but I think the girls just seemed nice tbh. A few minutes in, this taller ethnic looking dude who was built like a rugby player comes in immediately starts talking to the set.

The girls take their eyes off the short guy and immediately start focusing on the tall dude. Short guy is trying to get back into the convo but one of the girls has her eyes on the taller dude and her friend is whispering something in her ear. Now short guy is trying to talk to the taller dude and go after the friend of the girl who is just ignoring him the whole way.

Wing and I watched because these girls were the only approachable set. I asked wing how he knew the guy and apparently the guy had been doing a whole lot of game in Miami and was a part of another chat the wing was a part of.

We see the girls visibly trying to take their attention off of the short dude until the tall dude grabs the girl into him and literally pulls her away to the side as her friend walks around to get next to her, smiling. The three formed a circle and the short dude was on the outside trying to break in.

I thought that maybe the girls knew the tall dude but my wing tells me that the dude is actually a daygamer who occasionally comes to the bar. Shorter dude later approaches the wing and I, very frustrated over what had happened.

Been there, done that.

 

[MatureDJ]

Yet the guy lives in one of the top leftist state (Minnesota) not sure why people still getting advice from Clarey
The guy has been out the field for over a decade and has no clue what is even going on in his own city with the dating scene

I think Clarey now lives in South Dakota, Las Vegas & St. Petersburg (FL), moving around as per the weather.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I think Clarey now lives in South Dakota, Las Vegas & St. Petersburg (FL), moving around as per the weather.

Thats the black pillers grumpy oldies dream, no sarcarsm intended.

Where you can hate people freely but live comfortable.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Not really...I shave my head and/or wear hats and it's never been an issue.

People spend a lot of time worrying about things that don't really matter in the grand scheme of things

You can still look good without hair, certainly. It does matter. It's just a fact man. Get transplants, they're pretty damn good at it now.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You can still look good without hair, certainly. It does matter. It's just a fact man. Get transplants, they're pretty damn good at it now.

I just don't care enough about it, tbh. I have no issues getting women without it

 

[eli77]

Despite what you look like you should always be working on yourself to become the best possible version your genetics will allow. Life is unfair. Work harder.

Nice

 

[devilkingx2]

Not telling men that they have "limits" is simply a way to keep them within the rat race.

Imagine if sub 5 men due to genetic reasons knew they were out of the game no matter their efforts..society could say good bye to any effort, commitment and taxation from them.

Instead we bullsh1t them into trying even harder against their own best interest.

Every man knows that if he is of average height and weight with an average sized d1ck he cant win a strong men competition nor be an adult movie star...yet if a short bald guy ask for suggestions for women of fertile age, he gets told that it depends on his insecurity or personality.

"You gotta work on your game buddy, it's all about skills and humor".

It's all about playing the hand we are dealt. To some extent life isn't fair and we all have different capabilities and limitations, but lamenting that none of us were born as Kanye West or Drake isn't going to get you anywhere. Most things that make a person less attractive can be fixed.

Although I do agree that the 9 to 5 rat race is bullsh!t for each individual person's quality of life, despite being necessary for the function of society as a whole.

Very astute. This is the matrix.

The horrible realisation (is it horrible?) that Men are not equal is a fact that must be faced. Some men are born with brains that develop into amazing minds. How is that fair? I’m pretty sure if you’re Rockefeller/Rothschild-level genius you could be short, bald, poor and still weave magik on women. Ultimate frame.

By the way, have you tried working on your Game, buddy?

Intelligence is probably a detriment to picking up women actually, the thing you would want to be born with to be a short fat natural with women is Charisma.

High intelligence = socially awkward introvert with high grades who eventually becomes a software engineer.

It's related to the body positivity/ "differently-abled" / no one is cut from a different cloth leftist mentality. The idea that everyone is a blank slate and have equal ability to do whatever they want. Total nonsense and complete and utter bullsh!t.

Intelligence alone is huge factor that no one ever wants to address. Anytime someone says they're not intelligent enough to do x, people attack them for having self-limiting beliefs. Dunning kruger effect in full force.

Name me one self-made, highly succesful man who isn't intelligent. I'll wait.

This is all part of the same picture. If you have significant disadvantages in any given domain, the game may not be worth the candle.

There's many different kinds of intelligence, the trick is finding out which one you have and making it work for you. Both in terms of money and making friends/getting girls.

Building a bridge and painting a masterpiece require very different skillsets. But both can make you money and get you a hot wife.

 

[devilkingx2]

Intelligence when it comes to communication with women and Game is a different form of intelligence to a form that causes a guy to be socially awkward.

Intelligence with women actually requires a man to be able to think like a woman. Whereas engineering intelligence is logic-based and mathematical. That’s not really needed with Game. What’s needed is an ability to spike women’s emotions and turn them on. This falls into the realms of creative and social intelligence I think.

I've heard that math and science is done with the left side of your brain, and then things like art and writing are done with your right brain. And people are generally more dominant with one side or the other which leads to talents in art or math.

I wonder if things like social skills are also right brain abilities, they would fit right in.

 

[allergictobs]

I'm short and bald, but have never had trouble getting looks or attention from women. I take excellent care of myself and wear fitting clothes. I've been a natural bodybuilder since my 20s and keep my body fat in the 10-15% range.

No doubt I would get more attention if I were taller, but I'm not so sure about the hair. The thing is, if you are masculine-looking (with muscles, confidence, style) then hair doesn't really matter in my opinion - If you are balding, you just need to shave it off completely.

My theory regarding attraction is that both men and women select partners who are healthy. Male pattern baldness is not a sign of any disease, why would it be considered unattractive?

 

[allergictobs]

Another thing about Clarey - I've watched many of his videos - I think he is too bitter. I like his straightforward style but he is quite extreme.

Based on what he's said on videos, he does not seem to have a very good background with women, career or life in general - why should one take advice from a guy like that? Could it be that his own problems are due to his character or temperament?


About the "black pill", here's what I agree with:
If you are clearly below average in looks/intelligence/social skills, then yeah, maybe it's best to accept that you are not going to hook up with women and just try to live a comfortable life otherwise.


Here's what I don't agree with:
The black pillers are saying that basically, if you are not a male model, you should quit trying. I strongly disagree with that.

I know many men with the most beautiful wives or girlfriends with nice personalities. Are all of these guys male models? None of them. They may be a bit above average in looks, but that doesn't seem to be the main factor. The thing that all of them have though is that they have their **** together - they are intelligent, have a positive outlook on life, they are friendly, they have a good career, and they take care of their health.