On the Brad Pitt thing...You guys should give him a break, man. The guy is a married man. As a married man, there are different rules to you deal with to be a great husband and father.
I was a married man for over a decade and a half. I know exactly the rules to be a great husband and father are. And let remind you of one thing: he was already married once too. And he is not 29. He is 42 years old. He should know better. She adopted those kids when she was with another MEN. It should be THEIR and HER responsibility...not his.
To go back to your original point. There are women out there that are great for wife. Others that are great to be mothers. Others that are great to have for several years KNOWING well you would never marry her (e.g. fun women that are great for fun and sex - but are not great for motherhood ). And so on.
The question in here is this...why do you need to marry a woman that cannot be satisfy by a man to the point that she needs to get herself off by another woman?
Do you know how Latino men from countries in the Caribbean (not the ones that were born and raised in the U.S.) view this kind of thing? Some of us (not all) are very masculine in nature. I for one never understood the fascination of men in the U.S. and Western Europe for "bisexual" women.
In fact, we (I) like threesomes...but the way we view threesomes is like this: men having sex with BOTH women.
We don't view it like this: two women having sex with each other.
I personally find this a "nick" to masculinity. A man should be able to satisfy his woman 100%. To the point that she has no sexual desire for other woman or man. The only one unsatiable should be the man...to the point that he and only he (thanks to testosterenes) should be able (if he was moraly inclined) to have a "wife" and a "mistress". This is how Men were in our society. We don't have many of those in today's society. Today we have "m"en that needs "outside help".
Think about that from a non-bias point of view.
It comes down to this...who cares about Francisco or your buddy's relationship with bi-sexual woman? At the end...it is YOUR decision. YOU and only YOU pick who would be your wife and who would carry your last name. You know? The same name that your dad, grand dad, great grand dad, and your children will be carrying. Is she worth of such honor?
