Would you have casual sex or a relationship with a girl that has an OnlyFans?

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

hell yeah why do you care ? you not gon efall in love and wife her and try to start a family ?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Good question but I don't think my decision would be based on her being on OnlyFans but rather her mindset and attitude. She could clearly understand the benefits and limitations of that platform and only see it as a form of income but can see past it and have an entrepreneurial mindset. Also, how she portrays herself on such a platform. I would def say no to any rachet portrayal. If she keeps it "classy" and sensual then again depends on her mindset.

So it comes down to character rather than a vocation. A porn star or prostitute, that's a whole different level I wouldn't even consider.

Modern Man Advice

It's definitely a character flaw. The fact a woman thinks being a cam *****s is OK is telling. I imagine gang bangs and abortions are second nature.

Fellas want to get laid but the fact fellas tolerate trash isn't improving the dumpster fire smp.

What sort of skeletons would a only fans and prostitute would HAVE? modern women have no shame and herein lies the problem. Fellas willingly tolerate trash and then wonder why divorce rape or cucked later. Absolutely disgusting. My troll cannon is charged up.

Would troll into oblivion.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

It's definitely a character flaw. The fact a woman thinks being a cam *****s is OK is telling. I imagine gang bangs and abortions are second nature.

Fellas want to get laid but the fact fellas tolerate trash isn't improving the dumpster fire smp.

What sort of skeletons would a only fans and prostitute would HAVE? modern women have no shame and herein lies the problem. Fellas willingly tolerate trash and then wonder why divorce rape or cucked later. Absolutely disgusting. My troll cannon is charged up.

Would troll into oblivion.

I tend to agree with you, just the fact being on OnlyFans and exposing yourself like that feels trashy, I agree. But I learned in life not to be so black and white to better myself and have a better understanding of things. It might serve you to see the grey areas and understand your reality and perspective isn't the absolute truth. And certainly, hypothetically speaking, at one point someone being racist doesn't label them trash for the rest of their life. Everyone is living their own reality and reasons for their actions, so my point stands. Character and mindset are much deeper than perception.

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[BPH]

I'm super disappointed with how popular OnlyFans is because of how "down bad" so many guys are, apparently.

That said, I wouldn't have any problem dating somebody who has one.

 

[bat soup]

Say you meet a hottie doing daygame or out one night at a bar.. you get chatting/flirting and it comes up in conversation she has an OnlyFans account!

Would you still be open to a one night stand/having regular casual sex with her?

would you ever consider getting into a relationship with a girl that has an OnlyFans?

Or do you think OnlyFans girls should be avoided completely (casual sex or relationship) and if she told you she has an OnlyFans, it would be an instant turn off/red flag for you and you would just walk away and leave the interaction with the girl?

A woman that is working in the sex industry is not relationship material. That goes for strippers, prostitutes, porn actresses and online camwhoares or whatever she is.

You can bang if you want, but don't get emotionally involved.

 

[lost_blackbird]

No way!

 

[TheCharmingGuy]

I would but only if she has an actual job other than onlyfans. If she is doing it because she was unable to get a real job because she is uneducated or has no ambition, that is a problem.

 

[corrector]

I dont understand what the problem is you guys have with onlyfans. Yes, i wouldnt encourage my daughter to do it before she became 18, but that's it. Other than that she is making money out of thirsty guys who dont even touch her, which is the key difference between that and prostitution. Good on her i say.

Hell, if she makes some money from it and she likes you, she might buy you two vacations or open air rave tickets or whatever and treat you like a pimp. I wouldnt care about the gifts themselves so much as i think the role dynamic of that would be gratifying for both of you. Attack formation the pimp daddy.... id be fine with that.

You have a daughter? Just one kid?

 

[corrector]

I'd never turn down an attractive woman with a steady income stream based on it being an Onlyfans situation. Now if she was on there getting gangbanged then that would be an issue but most of those girls aren't doing anything like that. If you'd date a Hooters waitress you shouldn't have a problem with most Onlyfans performers.

No, but these days allot of sugar babies meet their sugar daddies online through ONLYFANS. Its easy to get to know someone like that through video-chat or pics, and then one thing can lead to another. Before I totally quit porn last month, I saw ONLYFANS of very young girls that wanted to meet their prospective clients through ONLYFANS and get to know them online before an actual encounter. They even put that on their escort ad profile. So you never know if it's a front for prostitution.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Id have sex with an only fans girl but wouldn't date. I wouldn't stick my dvck in a single mom at all.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why not? It's nothing serious.

 

[metalwater]

How is only fans worse than Tinder? Or the other good example someone made of Hooters girl. Or just a hottie from the large social circle. Or any girl that is dressed to catch.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

It's because they don't want to validate single moms. I don't see the big deal if you just pump and dump or make a plate. Once she demands a relationship, move on.

Or you can just not date a single mom from the get go

 

[B80]

Wouldn't be my preference for anything other than casual and even thst would be pushing it as I don't like spending time around trashy women beyond sex and thats only if drunk.

Depending on what you want could work OK as at least you know you're dealing with someone who's likely to be f**ed up, so any extreme behaviour shouldn't come as a surprise.

 

[AttackFormation]

You have a daughter? Just one kid?

Haha no, was just speaking hypothetically

 

[TheKid]

Few of my mates have done this and the aftermath of the break up is not worth it.
Insecurities will consume you during and after. Leading with your head = winning leading with your other head = losing.
Choose your battles.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It's because they don't want to validate single moms. I don't see the big deal if you just pump and dump or make a plate. Once she demands a relationship, move on.

Not sure what people's anti single Mom obsession is. Most people have never dated one or else only dated one and then made snap judgments about them based on a single relationship.

2 of my best long term relationships of my life were with single Mom's and the sex was off the charts good with both.

People need to expand their horizons and stop believing stuff just cause a bunch of other people say stuff... it's like group speak. Must be true because everyone else says it

 

[B80]

Not sure what people's anti single Mom obsession is. Most people have never dated one or else only dated one and then made snap judgments about them based on a single relationship.

2 of my best relationships of my life were with single Mom's and the sex was off the charts good with both.

People need to expand their horizons and stop believing stuff just cause a hunch of other people say stuff... it's like group speak. Must be true because everyone else says it

yeah exactly that, or people in their 20's who haven't been through divorce, had kids themselves etc. I think I was the same back then 10 years or so back.

I've also had relationship/fwb's with one fairly recently and sex was great. almost like they appreciate it more after being in stale, sexless marriage for years. same with married women I used to mess around with on nights out back then.

plus they tend to be busy so don't expect you to spend your life around them, which suits my lifestyle fine

 

[BackInTheGame78]

yeah exactly that, or people in their 20's who haven't been through divorce, had kids themselves etc.

I'm in my 40s and have kids. I thinks it's really weird when women I date DON'T have kids.

 

[B80]

I'm in my 40s and have kids. I thinks it's really weird when women I date DON'T have kids.

I know what you mean. Plus I don;t want more kids, so chances are that if dating childless 30's women, there will be pressure to have kids quickly, or as also suggested on here, a woman not wanting kids could indicate undesirable character traits...