Would you have casual sex or a relationship with a girl that has an OnlyFans?

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Say you meet a hottie doing daygame or out one night at a bar.. you get chatting/flirting and it comes up in conversation she has an OnlyFans account!

Would you still be open to a one night stand/having regular casual sex with her?

would you ever consider getting into a relationship with a girl that has an OnlyFans?

Or do you think OnlyFans girls should be avoided completely (casual sex or relationship) and if she told you she has an OnlyFans, it would be an instant turn off/red flag for you and you would just walk away and leave the interaction with the girl?
 

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I dont understand what the problem is you guys have with onlyfans. Yes, i wouldnt encourage my daughter to do it before she became 18, but that's it. Other than that she is making money out of thirsty guys who dont even touch her, which is the key difference between that and prostitution. Good on her i say.

Hell, if she makes some money from it and she likes you, she might buy you two vacations or open air rave tickets or whatever and treat you like a pimp. I wouldnt care about the gifts themselves so much as i think the role dynamic of that would be gratifying for both of you. Attack formation the pimp daddy.... id be fine with that.
 
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I dont understand what the problem is that you guys have with onlyfans. Yes, i wouldnt encourage my daughter to do it before she became 18, but that's it. Other than that she is making money out of thirsty guys who dont even touch her, which is the key difference between that and prostitution. Good on her i say.

Hell, if she makes some money from it and she likes you, she might buy you two vacations or open air rave tickets or whatever and treat you like a pimp. I wouldnt care about the gifts themselves so much as i think the role dynamic of that would be gratifying for both of you. Attack formation the pimp daddy.... id be fine with that.
The problem is........ she is showing her ass to the internet and most people will see her as a slvt, which she to a certain degree is. This wouldnt bother me as long i only bang her now and then.

Now, imagine your colleagues, neighbours, customers, random guys at the shopping mall, whoever call you out on your wife being the inspiration for their daily nutting while your kids stand by. This is not what comes to mind when you think of "high quality women".

Let alone sending your daughter into life with a job like that.

Only fans is just another sign of decline of a western society that rewards low value women for behaving like a *****.
 

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I'd never turn down an attractive woman with a steady income stream based on it being an Onlyfans situation. Now if she was on there getting gangbanged then that would be an issue but most of those girls aren't doing anything like that. If you'd date a Hooters waitress you shouldn't have a problem with most Onlyfans performers.
 

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The problem is........ she is showing her ass to the internet and most people will see her as a slvt, which she to a certain degree is. This wouldnt bother me as long i only bang her now and then.

Now, imagine your colleagues, neighbours, customers, random guys at the shopping mall, whoever call you out on your wife being the inspiration for their daily nutting while your kids stand by. This is not what comes to mind when you think of "high quality women".

Let alone sending your daughter into life with a job like that.

Only fans is just another sign of decline of a western society that rewards low value women for behaving like a *****.
After i made my post, it occurred to me that it would indeed feel strange to have kids with a woman who works with onlyfans, specifically because of what kind of role model she would be for any daughter. Is the daughter gonna come into the living room and look up to mom stripping and performing virtual sex with random men? eh..... i also didnt think your imaginary example was much of a problem, until you added "while your kids stand by". Then this gut feeling hits you.

So i got more mixed feelings about it for commitment with kids, but casually, no problem.
 

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After i made my post, it occurred to me that it would indeed feel strange to have kids with a woman who works with onlyfans, specifically because of what kind of role model she would be for any daughter. Is the daughter gonna come into the living room and look up to mom performing virtual sex with random men? eh..... i also didnt think your imaginary example was much of a problem, until you added "while your kids stand by". Then this gut feeling hits you.

So i got more mixed feelings about it for commitment with kids, but casually, no problem.
Yeah it’s one thing just sleeping with a girl casually but a whole different ballgame to get into a serious relationship and have children with.
 

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I was fvckin a girl before that worked on stripchat.com. O didn't mind. Plus side is I could fvck her ass basically every day because she was already doing it anyways.

She was slightly unstable though, which I attribute to simply coming from an unstable background. I could never comit to being faithful to her, which she couldn't handle, ironically, which is why we broke it off.

Now I am interested in a girl who I suspect works in literal prostitution. What I find appealing about her is that she does know what it is guys want. I was also pretty hurt when I ran into her and she seemed quite easygoing. A girl that works in prostitution will need confirmation that you don't just want her for sex though because they are constantly objectified, which I found relieving.

So regarding the OnlyFans thing: I wouldn't mind. She just needs to be stable and mature.

If she is a prostitute: I am inclined to say no.
 

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Say you meet a hottie doing daygame or out one night at a bar.. you get chatting/flirting and it comes up in conversation she has an OnlyFans account!

Would you still be open to a one night stand/having regular casual sex with her?

would you ever consider getting into a relationship with a girl that has an OnlyFans?

Or do you think OnlyFans girls should be avoided completely (casual sex or relationship) and if she told you she has an OnlyFans, it would be an instant turn off/red flag for you and you would just walk away and leave the interaction with the girl?
Just for the sex.There’d be no real relationship on the horizon.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Sex only.. These girls are usually pretty damaged
Casually dating an OnlyFans model now. And yes, she is has a lot of emotional baggage... abusive father, raped once, I like her, but there is no way I would get involved which her in a serious relationship... but then again I avoid relationships. My advice to any man that wants to date a model like this (Instagram, Patrion, OnlyFans et. al. ad infinitum) and you do not have emotional self control you should avoid this. They're extremely gifted at emotional manipulation, and if you can't deal with it you should stay away.
 

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Why the fvck not? Sex is fun, I love sex.

The truth is, the most damaged girls are the ones that can offer you the most eye-rolling sex ever. Because they are basically crazy.

But anything more than sex (i.e "relationship")??? Hell no.
 

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Would I bang a chick with an OnlyFans? Yes.
Would I get into any kind of relationship with her otherwise? Absolutely not. I'll agree that any woman who stoops to this level to make income is damaged
 

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One night unless she paid for drinks.

Fake "relationship" if I can pimp her out and have her buy me dinners and fancy things.
 

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Say you meet a hottie doing daygame or out one night at a bar.. you get chatting/flirting and it comes up in conversation she has an OnlyFans account!

Would you still be open to a one night stand/having regular casual sex with her?

would you ever consider getting into a relationship with a girl that has an OnlyFans?

Or do you think OnlyFans girls should be avoided completely (casual sex or relationship) and if she told you she has an OnlyFans, it would be an instant turn off/red flag for you and you would just walk away and leave the interaction with the girl?
Good question but I don't think my decision would be based on her being on OnlyFans but rather her mindset and attitude. She could clearly understand the benefits and limitations of that platform and only see it as a form of income but can see past it and have an entrepreneurial mindset. Also, how she portrays herself on such a platform. I would def say no to any rachet portrayal. If she keeps it "classy" and sensual then again depends on her mindset.

So it comes down to character rather than a vocation. A porn star or prostitute, that's a whole different level I wouldn't even consider.

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Online there is a meme that a woman who does OnlyFans is "our girlfriend" not "your girlfriend", I think it's hilarious, this content creator named Idubbbz is a great example, the memes are so good.

 

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The last girl I was with did chaturbate in it's early years. It was kind of a turn on knowing that I was having sex with a female that simps were paying to look at.
 

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