Women's Sexual Past

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Crank,

Hors have 'hang-ups' as virgins do, and hors will always wonder about other guys as well, especially fantasize of their past pimps.

Hors are more likely to cheat on you than virgins - a hors loyalty is to her own sexual lusts and has little respect for herself and her mate.

Older women who are virgins have strong principles and are more apt to be loyal to their mate!

A hor that stays with you is not complimenting your worth, rather every hor knows her days of youth and beauty are numbered and she will eventually decide to settle with a chump that accepts her horish past and present!!

If you think that it is the size of your penis that keeps a woman and not your worthy masculine attributes, then you are in deep trouble.

Do you want a woman who judges and determines which man she'll stay with based on the size of his penis? There is always someone bigger and stronger.

Real men don't compare themselves to other men (competition) based on penis size! A man's worth in a woman's eyes is based on what value he has that is brought about through his thinking and actions!

The virgin mindset is much different than the 'hor mindset' - see my view on the hor mindset on page 2!

 

[dietzcoi]

PRL is right again!

If a woman with many sex partners stays with you, it is most likely NOT because you are the ultimate lover... (Could be, but do you really think you are the best of her 200+ lovers??? The odds are NOT in your favor)....

She is staying with you because she finally found a CHUMP who would ignore her past and take her...

I have seen this with a chump friend of mine.. but the ho has dumped him for a richer chump!

Dietzcoi

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Hors have 'hang-ups' as virgins do, and hors will always wonder about other guys as well, especially fantasize of their past pimps.

Hors are more likely to cheat on you than virgins - a hors loyalty is to her own sexual lusts and has little respect for herself and her mate.

Older women who are virgins have strong principles and are more apt to be loyal to their mate!

A hor that stays with you is not complimenting your worth, rather every hor knows her days of youth and beauty are numbered and she will eventually decide to settle with a chump that accepts her horish past and present!!

If you think that it is the size of your penis that keeps a woman and not your worthy masculine attributes, then you are in deep trouble.

Do you want a woman who judges and determines which man she'll stay with based on the size of his penis? There is always someone bigger and stronger.

Real men don't compare themselves to other men (competition) based on penis size! A man's worth in a woman's eyes is based on what value he has that is brought about through his thinking and actions!

The virgin mindset is much different than the 'hor mindset' - see my view on the hor mindset on page 2!

PRL, I realize that you need a virgin, but I do not. I'm secure in my masculinity and not the least bit worried about my girl cheating on me, and if she wants somebody else, she can dump me if that's her choice. I like a strong, bold, outgoing, self confident, woman that's a challenge to me... anything else would just be too boring. But that's my personal choice.

What you need to feel like a man is an inexperienced, meek, quite, sedate, robot, that takes orders like Pavlov's dog. This makes you feel safe. No problem, but that's your personal choice, not mine.

No, I don't think that women stay with their man based on penis size, but most men are deathly afraid of how they measure up to the competition. The fear that they won't stack up to previous lovers is simply too much for some to bear.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Cranky,

I want and need a woman who is true to her nature - hors and feminists are not in sync with their femininity and their true natures as women. I need and want a woman, that is all!

It has nothing to do with "security" in my masculinity, rather I want someone who is complementary to my masculinity - a strong independent promiscuos hardened bitter female is far away from what a woman should be in her relation to a man!

Neither do I want a woman who makes me feel 'safe' - it is the man's job to make a woman feel safe. Each man wants different things from a woman, but at the core of this want is her femininity and how she complements him as a man.

If you are with a hor or a feminist expect a power struggle within the relationship and an inevitable split. No guarantees with any woman, just a much greater likelihood for problems if she acts outside her role as a woman!

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Dr. P, there's no slowing you down, is there? I think you're spot on with alot of points.

I remember an earlier post which said that man and woman's emotions cannot be broken down by mathematics; past sexual experiences determining future sexual experiences.

True, very true indeed.

HOWEVER, a human being's future exploits can be based on habbits.

If you're used to a certain lifestyle, you become attatched to it and you're comfortable living in a certain way. Thus, if there's no shame in giving yourself away to anyone you find attractive, this old relic of an attitude COULD possibly resurface itself when you don't want it to. (i.e. big fight with a partner and you storm out for relief. Or mild flirting at the office escalating into something bigger)


It's all familiar territory. "Remember how good it felt? Remember how easy it was just to...let go? "

You don't hold sex in high regard if you've slept with so many people in a certain amount of time compared to a person who is a virgin or a person who was in a LTR and has slept with only one person. You just DON'T. *shrugs* If you did, you wouldn't be letting it go so easily.

And MW is right- for a good amount of men, the more they sleep with many different women, the more disrespect and contempt they have for women grow. Men are also no exception to this, I think. When ANY gender gives themselves away, they lose a piece of what they've had hidden inside themselves. Something precious and pure.

It's innocence. It's self-respect. It's respect for ones who are the closest. It's love. It's DEFINETLY love.

Ah. That's how I feel anyways. I'm not stating facts. I'm just drawing conclusions of what I've seen loved ones go through and what I myself have been though.

I almost lost my virginity to 2 sluts within the past year. ;


My balls are the size of grapefruits, but I'm still hanging on.


Urgh...It hurts.

 

[Nightspark]

hrrm, for this topic there is no 'RIGHT' answer... really it's up to you to let the PAST affect you. Yes it does give a great insight to ones character, but people change (who knows how dramatically), into a better person (hopefully) or unfortunantly to a worse off person.

All you people out there throwing your OWN opinion about this, is sufficient for your OWN self. What i mean is, it's up to you to let her past affect you or not, brings about the zero carefactor.

Anyways different people have different upbringings, teachings and well leading into different morality issues, however no one is perfect [Seriously get that one out of your head]!! But then again you dont want someone in your life that has some serious 'Past' issues...

When your deciding your future with someone, definantly when LTRn, consider the past, ask if this will affect the future that much that you have to end it now! You can always just not ask about her sexual past you know...well not in so much detail...

 

[adude]

A ***** is a ***** nothing more nothing less, shes not fit to be ur wife, not fit to bear ur kids, and for godsakes if she cheats on u as she very likely will cos of her upbringing "MTV", "Girlsgonewild" which has polluted her brain which such nasty things, she would leave u in a hole, i personally am better off with a girl who can be a good wife to me and a good mother to my kids even if shes not that good looking,rather than those feminist independant types aka *****s and sluts who sleep with any man walking down the street.
And there seems to be abundance of them in America and growing, thank you "MTV", "Girlsgonewild", "Man show","porn", "Oprah" and other satanic shows that have turned mothers and daughters into FUKING LESBIANS AND SLUTS.....

 

[adude]

"PRL, I realize that you need a virgin, but I do not. I'm secure in my masculinity and not the least bit worried about my girl cheating on me, and if she wants somebody else, she can dump me if that's her choice. I like a strong, bold, outgoing, self confident, woman that's a challenge to me... anything else would just be too boring. But that's my personal choice. "

u don't need a virgin, don't worry u won't find any in America they became extinct in the 70's when sex out of wedlock and drugs were on the rise, ultimately the downfall of American society culturally and as a whole. u don't need a virgin u need a *****, in that case u can marry a prostitue u will find them on street corners she is experienced with many men, and she will make u look good in front of ur friends cos of her sexual past i am sure other ppl will congratulate u on finding such a worthy women, and it fits ur description of strong independant women u seem to like so much. No wonder above 75% of all marriages in America end in divorce, cos of of ur strong and independant women that u like very much wouldn't take orders from u wouldn't treat u like a man, would walk all over u, cheat on u, treat u like ****, her job will be more important to her than her marriage, such a women in my opinion is not worthy of being a wife, cos a wife is someone who loves her man, not these *****s who ur very fond off, and as u put it wouldn't care if she sleeps with any man and cheats on u. Ur thinking is messed up years of feminism has turned u into a ***** taking orders from women.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

adude, you need to clarify to whom your previous post is directed towards.

 

[adude]

in response to crankys comments.

 

[Last Man Standing]

If you want to get serious about a girl for a lifetime commitment then seek a virgin and do not even consider a hor -- for reasons outlined throughout this thread!

 

[SamePendo]

Well, this shouldn't matter to 99% of the posters since I'm guessing that that percentage isn't in a stage of his life to be actually looking for marriage. Go for the kleenex analogy.

 

[00Kevin]

If you want to get serious about a girl for a lifetime commitment then seek a virgin and do not even consider a hor -- for reasons outlined throughout this thread!

I agree with this.

and after reading it. Please FREE PRL!

 

[ZEUS 83]

It's not wholly unreasonable to consider someone's sexual past when they are under consideration for a LTR. Indeed, it would be naive to ingore it. But some of you guys are being both unfair and unrealistic in your expectations. I can see how it could be a turn-off if the girl your dating has had 15 partners in the last three years. I can see how a sexual promiscious or unfaithful past when combined with of other activities, could make up a pattern of negative bahavior or emotional fragility. But don't be so foolish as to dismiss someone simply because her sexual history may not be what you think it "should" be.

Why are you asking her about her history? Do you REALLY want to know? How do you know she's telling you the truth, anyhow? Because she uses the same voice when she tells you your the best lover she's ever had?
Are to going to punish her because she had a couple boyfriends or flings while you were sitting at home jerking off during your AFC days?

Sexy Malibu makes a good point about a somewhat experienced women being more ready to settle with one man than a girl who may wonder if she is missing out on something. I see evidence of it all the time, in my own life and on postings on this board. I see so many girls dump their boyfriends when they go to college, move out of their parent's house, or get their first real job. They're just discovering what they want out of life, and they're curious if the opposite sex has the same opportunities as everything else. I don't want a slut or woman of weak moral fiber, but I'm not going to automatically eject because she spent a year or two single and played the field.

Well, let me ask u dude, do u have a girlfriend?, if yes were u curious abt her sexual past?, trust me all guys feel the same if they r with more experienced women. its men nature....

 

[DonGorgon]

A woman's sexual past is something you will never really know , in many cases she has lost track and forgotten who she did and when... and does it really matter? can you change it? can you prove either way? Just be happy being her next, get all you can then move on to the next one... she will

 

[DoctorLW]

My thoughts on this are:

If she is STD free, who the fvck cares?

I know my girl had a really slvtty past, doesn't bother me. I had one too. Play fair.

 

[DonGorgon]

Yup one mans slut is another mans wife.... That is life.

 

[meitenesrigas]

My thoughts on this are:

If she is STD free, who the fvck cares?

I know my girl had a really slvtty past, doesn't bother me. I had one too. Play fair.

This is the type of thought that makes American men really good lap dogs. Males do not equal females. I sure as hell don't want the spitting image of myself in a girl. I find girls who help smooth out some of my rougher and less desirable characteristics.

I don't buy used underwear and I don't touch girls who have been ruined by some other creature. I like things to be be clean, fresh, and pure. You guy do as well. Only problem is if you are stuck in America you had better give up on finding a virgin. Either that or become a religious Muslim.

 

[ILikeGirls<3]

Good thread, I am not a freak for wanting a girl not to be a slut, and I am glad that the word slut exists because it reminds everyone of values that may not exist years from now, if people don't keep something called standards.

I don't think that just because a girl has had few sexual partners she isn't a *****, a 16 year old girl swallowing cvm is disgusting, no matter how many times they give the "relationship" excuse. Relationships come and go and just because cosmo says that being in a "relationship" means that its time to be a ***** doesn't make it true. Its too often that the word is used as a label to excuse the sluts.

I mention it because a close friend of mine is dating a girl who had 7 relationships at 20 yrs old, between a 7 months and 2 years for each one so its "legit" by cosmo standards, and she was sexually active with all, and I know for a fact she is a controlling selfish *****.

 

[DoctorLW]

You guys are crazy.

If she hasn't had kids, hasn't gotten an STD... tell me what is the difference between a girl thats slept with 3 guys and one that's slept with 60?

I can't think of any. Sounds like mental issues to me, and that's your problem; not hers.

Now do I WANT to know my girls sexual history? That's another matter entirely. I'd say you are better off just not knowing, as it's completely irrelevant to your relationship.

I'll tell you one thing, I have never met a virgin or girl who slept with a small number of guys that was interesting at all. If a girl is fun to be around, chances are she isn't a virgin. Now if you want some wallflower girlfriend that just sits there drinking wine and watching tv with you every day, go ahead and be my guest... go date those girls. Personally, I like girls that are exciting like me... pretty much none of them have commendable sexual pasts.