I posted on the topic of sex on this forum a long time and I got the most "likes" I ever got on here to this day.
I'm a man of quality, not quantity...at most I've probably fvcked a maximum of 8 girls in a year. But these girls are some of the best and they don't give me much problems and most importantly...they stick around.
I'll point a few things out from the comments here...
Seriously though few men have any idea what they are doing based on my rather limited experience.
While men are pretty simple (y'all climax when you bust your nut) with stimulation, women are much more complex. Sexuality and climax have to do with intimacy, trust, emotional closeness and bonding in addition to technique....Emotionally healthy women are going to take a bit to warm up (the tea kettle is a good analogy) but once you learn how to drive the car, enjoying the performance gets good.
Many women climax more reliably from oral or digital stimulation than from penetration. But women are much more individual than men in this regard. My ex and I used to discuss this quite a bit, he was an experienced man and I found it fascinating since I only know myself.
If you as a man can truly give her a powerful orgasm, she is going to think twice about letting you go. And now you know why I stayed with my ex for so many years.
I'm glad there's a woman here who can back me up, so what I say here shouldn't be dismissed.
As men, we need to shift our paradigm when it comes to sex and I honestly think pornography is the
biggest reason why the average man is so clueless.
Pornography was made for
men, most women don't watch because they aren't interested and clearly know it's fake...most women don't care about the size of your d!ck.
I've read the comments here and though I agree with some of them, I'll say this:
We're thinking about sex the wrong way here, It's not so much about about techniques, it's about how you make them
feel.
I try to tell this to every man I find: Men usually go through three stages in their beliefs about women when it comes to sex (at least it was the case for me).
1) Women don't like sex.
2) Women like sex the same way we do.
3) Women like sex, but in a
different way to us.
I'll probably say 80% of the worlds population think sex is when a man and woman are naked and there is physical penetration, but this is only
one facet of sex.
Sex happens the moment you meet a woman you're sexually interested in and it
continues to happen on
every interaction you have with her. Because sex is always happening on three levels:
Emotionally,
mentally and
physically.
Most guys...and I might even say most women too (on a conscious level at least) are paying too much attention to the
physical aspect.
If you can fvck her on
all levels...and I don't mean to say this derogatorily, she will be your slave.
How do fvck her on all levels? I'll be honest with you all, I'm no master, but I'll tell you where to start.
Fvck her emotionally and mentally the
same way you fvck her physically.
When it comes to sex, in my experience, while we prefer sex now, women prefer sex later. In the last few years I've become convinced that women like the anticipation of sex almost as much as they like the sex itself. Women
love anticipation.
As an example, here's what I do:
On a
physical level, when you're naked with her
don't touch her breasts or her pvssy or her ass until later...make her anticipate it.
On an
emotional level, when you go out with her, keep where you're taking her a
secret...make her anticipate it.
On a
mental level, hold crucial details about yourself from her and you will always be on her mind.
Another example is women
love is men who are in control of themselves.
On an
mental level, when you go out with her
don't ask her when she is available,
don't ask her where to go and as I said keep it a
secret where you decide to take her.
Most women would rather go somewhere they
don't like, when you don't ask for her permission, than somewhere they like when you do.
An example of the
physical equivalent is like fvcking her doggy-style and pulling hair
without asking for permission. Even if she
doesn't like having her hair pulled, she would rather have you do it
without asking for permission than her telling you to or you asking for permission to do it.
I can't really think of mental equivalent to this right now because I'm busy, but I can go deeper at another time. This is just the gist.