Women want it all, don't deserve any of it lol

[backbreaker]

Women being as superficial as they are is hurting every male's bottom line.


Maybe it's just me. Maybe I've just got ADD or some **** where I can't half do anything. I either go to the gym or I don't. I either eat clean or I eat like **** there is no middle man for me on anything.


But if women were not as superficial as they are i would probably only go to the gym 1-2 times a week. I probably would not waste as much time as I do cooking really healthy foods.


But alais.. the red pill has taught me, correctly that they are in fact, ARE that superfical. If I settled down / in and was 5'8 185 with a little chub on my my wife would think i was cute but probably would not be as attracted to me as she is now and that's when the hamster starts spinning. And ****, it's the same thing for her. If my wife got a gut i would not think she was as hot lol.

But the thing is, that's .. i don't want to say that's all i care about with my wife is how she looks I care more about her than that but i mean, that's why she's at the table lol. She's hot. I don't' care how much money she does or does not have I don't care what she does for a living I don't care what car she drives, I care what she looks like in a mini skirt and pumps. she's hot and she has a great personality but if she had a great personality but was not hot she would not be my wife.


But for a guy, you have to be hot, AND...


The last month for me has been hell. Money wise my business, this one has never made more money. We are right there where I set out to be 5-6 years ago with the company, within 6-8 months I can actually see me achieving the goal I originally set out. The problem is that while we are making more money, **** comes up. Now when I wake up in the morning, instead of talking to my assistant while I'm on the way to the gym I'm spending 1-2 hours putting out this fire or doing that or doing this. Then I miss a gym workout or go late and it ****s up e everything.


I'm in shape, I'm not going to die if i miss a week or 4 in the gym. But what gets me what about the guy that is... let's take warrior for example. Let's say he starts making the money he wants to make and he has to spend time at work and while he wants to get to the gym, **** comes up with work and he can't get to the gym like he really really wants to. yet women will despite all their bemoaning about a good man, will constantly overlook him for the dude that doesn't have jack **** for responsiblity that is able to go to the gym 2 times a day lol.



Zekko said the other day in one of his posts, he stopped caring about women so much and besides my wife who I adore, i'm right behind him. Women, really aren't worth all this ****. they really aren't. Getting a ****ing date should not be level 5 of metal gear solid type **** lol. "okay dude first you got to unlock the money code then you got to unlock the game code then you got to go to the end of the level and get the status code, then you got to.." man **** all that **** lol.


I'm kina rambling as I'm having a pretty **** day as I missed the gym entirely becuase of some work realted **** and I promised my son I would pick him up from school and take him to get ice cream.



I love my wife to death but this is a concept she does not understand. She thinks I just wake up in shape. She's like "just stop talking to people and go to the gym".



I'm coming up with some solutions. Maybe I will plop a few thousand for a serious home workout solution so that when I can't get to the gym I can still workout. We have a treadmill but that's really it. But then I got to put it somewhere and i don't know where we have cars in the garage and we kinda need the spare bedroom, etc. Anyway I think I will hire a cook as well my wife is too iffy when it comes to cooking she's never home in the day time for lunch and stuff.

 

[Married Buried]

They think they can have it all.. thats why when they disrespect you they are told to bugoff because you found someone better. They wont be able to comprehend it..

 

[sharkbeat]

This is why women want to fck power. They crave power. Power is sexy. They want a piece of it. To obtain one, is one tough ****. That's not all, you could lose it too at a moment's notice, and that's when they dump you.

Oh when you talk to them, or when they talk to their girlfriends, she'd come up with all these excuses, like "he's doing nothing, not a good X, Y, Z, not romantic anymore" and whatever bullcrap she's feeling, but the gist of it is that you have lost your power, lost your frame.

backbreaker, you are at the brink of losing your frame. Slap your face several times, boots on the ground, and plow through it. ****ty moments like this is what makes men tougher.

 

[soden]

You definitely need a homegym. Powerrack incl. bench and barbell. Thats all you need.

 

[In2theGame]

I think this explains what i feel like deep down. I just dont feel like being in a relationship anymore because of sh*t like this. Ive done it twice with very long LTRs ranging from 4-5Years and just thinking about everything you have to do is just exhausting to do it all over again. They just arent happy with whatever the fvck you do and i guess im a MGTOW without even realizing it. I love meeting women and of course having sex with them but after a while Women are so exhausting. Early in relationships everything seems great but after a while its impossible to make them truly happy.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Buried Marriage,
"They think they can have it all"....Think?....While they are young and beautiful they do,and why,because WE give it to them,yeah me too!

 

[evan12]

@backbreaker: when I read your post it seem it is from a single man in dating stage , but surprised it is married man for a couple of years, you are very insecure that your wife might hate you if you lost a little from your shape , but if your wife is good as you always mention , that should not be big issue .

But also come to my mind that many women choose black guys only because they have this masculine lean body. so maybe that is why you still think why else your wife will love you if you lost it.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Soden,
You are quite right in your observation and advice....But coming from someone who has been exercising consistently for more than 55 years, to avoid boredom,just like Women,you need VARIETY....So in addition to the free weights and benches have springs or cables...hooks on your wall...a weight stack if you have room...In the time that most guys take travelling to the Gym,getting changed etc I have done my daily exercise,after a couple of years saved membership fees and travel expenses you have it payed for too...can watch your favourite TV shows on DVD's or learn a language...It's a means to an end,not the end in itself...Never lose sight of this,there are better less ephemeral things to be doing!

 

[backbreaker]

@backbreaker: when I read your post it seem it is from a single man in dating stage , but surprised it is married man for a couple of years, you are very insecure that your wife might hate you if you lost a little from your shape , but if your wife is good as you always mention , that should not be big issue .

But also come to my mind that many women choose black guys only because they have this masculine lean body. so maybe that is why you still think why else your wife will love you if you lost it.

dont' forget our big ass d!cks bro. you forgot that too

 

[backbreaker]

You definitely need a homegym. Powerrack incl. bench and barbell. Thats all you need.

yeah that's going to end up having to happen. i am just dredding it beucase our gragage is packed and my wife likes to park her car in the garage she'sjust going ot have to get used to it.


i mean the last few years i've just gotten into a routine and while my business is growing the routine is breaking and i don't like it at all.


i've been overweight and the biggest fear i have is going back to that guy. i remember what it's like still and i don't wish that **** on anyone. so i get overly sensitive about **** like this. if you told me to make a choice between my business and being overweight or being in shape the rest of my life making 55k a year i'd take the 55k a year as long as i have my horse racing and would not think twice about it. **** being fat

 

[dasein]

If OP is true, and these days I tend to agree, in 50 years we will have the equivalent of a bunch of superhero men running around with (or without)average fat worthless women declining in SMV and general value yearly, a near 0 marriage rate, women more and more in the role of govt baby factories and Peter Principle cases funded by suckers and sucker companies, more and more women leeching unearned resources in ever more creative ways.

Two things that keep me going:

1. What does not kill us makes us stronger. Nietzsche paraphrase.

2. For every nasty tendency or trait associated with men or maleness, violence and aggression, criminality, emotional retardation, whatever, there is an equal nasty female tendency and trait associated with women. Chief among these are disturbing tendencies towards self-absorption, lack of honor, character, consistency and honesty generally. Acknowledging that women are no better than men, but manage somehow to have it much better culturally in the present day, is just realism, not bitterness or misogyny. It is just a given reality we have to work with.

All said and done, I'd rather have the life I have as a man today than the life of my grandfather. Doesn't mean that understanding and pointing out realities today isn't a necessary part of learning and growing.

 

[backbreaker]

i thnk we live in a hyper reality right now. I think you will see a shift back over the next 20-30 years.

 

[sodbuster]

Unfortunately, the game only begins with marriage.... you have to stay attractive to OTHER women, so your wife will feel the need to keep competing for your attention by being in shape, nice, etc.... When you slack, you lose.

It's easy to game a girl for 4 hours at a time, it's harder to game her 24/7

 

[jimmy18]

Familiarity breeds contempt, and in marriage the stakes are much higher.

 

[Boilermaker]

In the time it took you to write this post you could probably have gone to the gym, had a session, come back and then prepared a post workout meal.

But that's none of my business.

Yeah it isn't. Yet, you feel obliged to write this post, don't you?

In the time that you formed that thought and acted on it, you could have planned some thing productive yourself.

But that's not only none of my business, but not anything that is in my interests either.

Do you get the difference/?

 

[Warrior74]

Women being as superficial as they are is hurting every male's bottom line.


Maybe it's just me. Maybe I've just got ADD or some **** where I can't half do anything. I either go to the gym or I don't. I either eat clean or I eat like **** there is no middle man for me on anything.


But if women were not as superficial as they are i would probably only go to the gym 1-2 times a week. I probably would not waste as much time as I do cooking really healthy foods.


But alais.. the red pill has taught me, correctly that they are in fact, ARE that superfical. If I settled down / in and was 5'8 185 with a little chub on my my wife would think i was cute but probably would not be as attracted to me as she is now and that's when the hamster starts spinning. And ****, it's the same thing for her. If my wife got a gut i would not think she was as hot lol.

But the thing is, that's .. i don't want to say that's all i care about with my wife is how she looks I care more about her than that but i mean, that's why she's at the table lol. She's hot. I don't' care how much money she does or does not have I don't care what she does for a living I don't care what car she drives, I care what she looks like in a mini skirt and pumps. she's hot and she has a great personality but if she had a great personality but was not hot she would not be my wife.


But for a guy, you have to be hot, AND...


The last month for me has been hell. Money wise my business, this one has never made more money. We are right there where I set out to be 5-6 years ago with the company, within 6-8 months I can actually see me achieving the goal I originally set out. The problem is that while we are making more money, **** comes up. Now when I wake up in the morning, instead of talking to my assistant while I'm on the way to the gym I'm spending 1-2 hours putting out this fire or doing that or doing this. Then I miss a gym workout or go late and it ****s up e everything.


I'm in shape, I'm not going to die if i miss a week or 4 in the gym. But what gets me what about the guy that is... let's take warrior for example. Let's say he starts making the money he wants to make and he has to spend time at work and while he wants to get to the gym, **** comes up with work and he can't get to the gym like he really really wants to. yet women will despite all their bemoaning about a good man, will constantly overlook him for the dude that doesn't have jack **** for responsiblity that is able to go to the gym 2 times a day lol.



Zekko said the other day in one of his posts, he stopped caring about women so much and besides my wife who I adore, i'm right behind him. Women, really aren't worth all this ****. they really aren't. Getting a ****ing date should not be level 5 of metal gear solid type **** lol. "okay dude first you got to unlock the money code then you got to unlock the game code then you got to go to the end of the level and get the status code, then you got to.." man **** all that **** lol.


I'm kina rambling as I'm having a pretty **** day as I missed the gym entirely becuase of some work realted **** and I promised my son I would pick him up from school and take him to get ice cream.



I love my wife to death but this is a concept she does not understand. She thinks I just wake up in shape. She's like "just stop talking to people and go to the gym".



I'm coming up with some solutions. Maybe I will plop a few thousand for a serious home workout solution so that when I can't get to the gym I can still workout. We have a treadmill but that's really it. But then I got to put it somewhere and i don't know where we have cars in the garage and we kinda need the spare bedroom, etc. Anyway I think I will hire a cook as well my wife is too iffy when it comes to cooking she's never home in the day time for lunch and stuff.

You do know the day is coming when your wife will not be hot. Whatcha gonna do when the Old age, sagging tits and wrinkles start to run wild brother? Gonna trade to a younger model? Are you trying to subconsciously sabotage yourself to get out before the wall?

 

[Tenacity]

Wow BB is black lol, I thought I was the only black guy here .

But back on the topic, I obviously don't know everything, but the following I believe I'm pretty much RIGHT on about:

1.) Women of today have the worse overall value in the HISTORY of mankind, but yet, the "costs and risks" to be with them are the highest it's EVER been in the history of mankind. In that case they are like a liberal arts degree, horrible quality but the costs of the degree is the highest on record.

2.) The only "true value" of a woman is sex and companionship, that's the only thing you can reasonably EXPECT out of a woman. Love, care, nurture, support? You "might" get this depending upon how she "feels" that day, but how long would that last?

3.) If you are a man that makes decent money and you get married, you are basically committing suicide. If you want to kill yourself, just jump off a building.

4.) If you are a man that WANTS to be a Father today, you have a high chance that the woman will do everything in her power to KEEP you from the children while MAXIMIZING the child support payments.

5.) If you are in beef with a woman on ANYTHING, as a default, Society will side with the woman until the woman has been proven guilty. Which means, you are automatically GUILTY until you find a way to prove HER guilty, which will be like pulling elephant teeth because everything "bad" that a woman does is brushed under the rug.

6.) Feminism was a plot from the far left, to go along with the total plan of the left which is to DESTROY the current system and replace it with something else (socialism). What better way to destroy the current system than to destroy the family unit? That's exactly what Feminism and Women's Liberation did, it was a grassroots that went against patriarchy along with capitalism, to replace it with a matriarchy and socialism.

7.) Your homeboys (unless they are out of the matrix) are ONLY your home boys until a woman is involved. They will turn on you in 5 seconds just for a chance to SNIFF a woman's a.ss.

8.) When women say they want a "real man," they aren't talking about what you THINK they are talking about (a guy that takes care of business, financially set, looks good, great personality)....instead what they mean is that they want a man to be their human "Rosie The Robot." All she has to do is push a button or instruct you to pay this, pay that, rub her here, rub her there, fight for this, die for that, etc. etc., and you DO IT without any QUESTIONS ASKED. And oh yeah, if she has 5 kids from 5 deadbeats, then "a real man" (according to her) is one that "steps up to the plate" and takes care of those 5 kids.

In a nutshell, and maybe I'm wrong...but in my opinion if you are seeking ANYTHING ELSE from a woman other than to FVCK HER as fast as possible and as cheaply as possible, all you are doing is spinning wheels and opening yourself to some financial, personal, and spiritual trouble.

Women of today....are not our friends. They are pretty much Snake Oil Salesmen, it looks like the product they have is the BEST THING ever, but when you actually look beyond the surface you realize that the product is the worse thing ever.

 

[backbreaker]

Damn bro

 

[In2theGame]

Wow BB is black lol, I thought I was the only black guy here .

But back on the topic, I obviously don't know everything, but the following I believe I'm pretty much RIGHT on about:

1.) Women of today have the worse overall value in the HISTORY of mankind, but yet, the "costs and risks" to be with them are the highest it's EVER been in the history of mankind. In that case they are like a liberal arts degree, horrible quality but the costs of the degree is the highest on record.

2.) The only "true value" of a woman is sex and companionship, that's the only thing you can reasonably EXPECT out of a woman. Love, care, nurture, support? You "might" get this depending upon how she "feels" that day, but how long would that last?

3.) If you are a man that makes decent money and you get married, you are basically committing suicide. If you want to kill yourself, just jump off a building.

4.) If you are a man that WANTS to be a Father today, you have a high chance that the woman will do everything in her power to KEEP you from the children while MAXIMIZING the child support payments.

5.) If you are in beef with a woman on ANYTHING, as a default, Society will side with the woman until the woman has been proven guilty. Which means, you are automatically GUILTY until you find a way to prove HER guilty, which will be like pulling elephant teeth because everything "bad" that a woman does is brushed under the rug.

6.) Feminism was a plot from the far left, to go along with the total plan of the left which is to DESTROY the current system and replace it with something else (socialism). What better way to destroy the current system than to destroy the family unit? That's exactly what Feminism and Women's Liberation did, it was a grassroots that went against patriarchy along with capitalism, to replace it with a matriarchy and socialism.

7.) Your homeboys (unless they are out of the matrix) are ONLY your home boys until a woman is involved. They will turn on you in 5 seconds just for a chance to SNIFF a woman's a.ss.

8.) When women say they want a "real man," they aren't talking about what you THINK they are talking about (a guy that takes care of business, financially set, looks good, great personality)....instead what they mean is that they want a man to be their human "Rosie The Robot." All she has to do is push a button or instruct you to pay this, pay that, rub her here, rub her there, fight for this, die for that, etc. etc., and you DO IT without any QUESTIONS ASKED. And oh yeah, if she has 5 kids from 5 deadbeats, then "a real man" (according to her) is one that "steps up to the plate" and takes care of those 5 kids.

In a nutshell, and maybe I'm wrong...but in my opinion if you are seeking ANYTHING ELSE from a woman other than to FVCK HER as fast as possible and as cheaply as possible, all you are doing is spinning wheels and opening yourself to some financial, personal, and spiritual trouble.

Women of today....are not our friends. They are pretty much Snake Oil Salesmen, it looks like the product they have is the BEST THING ever, but when you actually look beyond the surface you realize that the product is the worse thing ever.

Probably, One of the best posts I have seen on this site.

 

[Stugots26]

Case in point to prove Tenacity's excellent post:

http://elitedaily.com/humor/bachelorette-party-dwarf-stripper/793376/