Women like dad bods?

Dash Riprock

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I think modern women are insecure and would rather settle down with an average guy because he's more likely to be more "faithful" and nurturing.
This.

This is a super-simple Man-Woman 101 topic:

Women are just not generically programmed to be attracted to soft, dad bod guys. It's simple biology. She is attracted (which you cannot choose) to the fit, muscular, "hunky" guy because her primordial brain is telling her this man is a very good breeding partner with strong genetics to enable the survival of my offspring. The fact he's strong and in shape also means he's able to protect me from predators or marauders, thus enabling the survival of me and my offspring.

Any woman who says they prefer a dad bod guy is all-out lying due to her insecurity about the options "fit" guy has and the fact he has a greater chance of cheating and leaving her.
 

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Being in shape,will NEVER hinder you with women. Often,but not always,the argument against comes from people putting their excuses in early because they cant be bothered to make the effort to train or get in shape themselves
This is a fact and let's face it, achieving that body is very difficult. Not because it's complicated but because it requires serious commitment, discipline and strict regimen. Life has so many distractions that it's easy to fall off track. This is why prison inmates get super muscular because that's all they can do. Eat, train and sleep without outside world distractions (Obviously it's more complicated than that because being IN prison comes with a lot of troubles on its own but you get what I'm trying to say)

When I achieved that body, I was in a period in my life where I had just got out of a 5 year relationship, no friends around and I was broke as a joke. I wasn't working a full time job either just little small jobs here and there for few hundred bucks.

The only thing I did was train, eat right and sleep. I won't bullsh*t anyone, I was on prohormones and I built lean mass pretty fast and my bodyfat dropped a lot but either way, my results were primarily because I was sleeping right and had no outside distractions.

No Alcohol, No Partying, No Friends to hang out with... Nothing. Just me alone.

It wasn't until right after I achieved that physique that I met a guy through a mutual casual friend that I started hitting the dating and nightlife scene. Him and I later became best friends and we hit the night life almost every weekend and the rest was history.

Again, at my peak physique, hooking up with sexy Women was a walk in the damn park on a bright clear sunny day. EASY.
 

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I could see where they might actually like them...I have dated some women who don't have perfect bodies and might have a little extra fat versus having a perfect bikini body(but were in no way fat or even chubby) and I still got rock hard seeing them naked...

IMO, if you fvck them better than anyone else ever has it doesn't matter. Great sex causes them to overlook quite a lot.

It's actually funny...right now I probably have a very muscular Dad Bod, as I have some extra fat and am in the 210s weight wise, but because of my wide shoulders and frame, I carry it very well...

A plate who is a nurse that weighs people all day at the doctor's office and I were having a Convo and she said she wanted to drop some weight and used to weigh 125 and didn't want to say how much she weighed now and I laughed and told her I used to weigh less too and didn't want to say how much I weigh...and she said you look really good, and that I shouldn't be worried about it...so I asked how much she thought I weighed and she said she was probably going to guess too high and said 185. I laughed and said not even close and she was like lower? And I was like no...way higher and she said well you can't be over 200 and I laughed and she said there is no way...and I told her I was like 217 and she was stunned.

Have also noticed I have seen very little differences in terms of ability to attract women at 185 and in peak shape versus 215 or even 220. I still appear muscular even with some extra fat.
 
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Rollo addressed this on Access Vegas last week. Short answer: dad bod = boyfriend material, ripped bod = ONS material.

 

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Women are not attracted to Dad bods and do not prefer them. A male with a dad bod can get laid however due to other attributes.
That same guy, had he shed his dad bod in favor of a slimmer physique would get laid even more.
 

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IMO, if you fvck them better than anyone else ever has it doesn't matter. Great sex causes them to overlook quite a lot.
How does one have "great sex"? Can an "ugly dude" who doesn't have a job or any "prospects" make a woman happy in bed? If so, why don't we see more ugly dudes with beautiful women? Is there a manual or book that "ugly", out of shape men can use so they can be appealing to super models (or even just above average chicks)?

In life, hot people seem to get together with other hot people. Does this mean "having great sex" is just a function of being "hot" and ugly people can't really do it? Or is your supposition just wrong? Perhaps having great sex is a function of being also attractive?
 

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I present to you their definition of "dad bod."
Basically a guy still in healthy bodyfat percentage. Media would have you thinking they like men with a belly.
Women may want to date someone with dad bods, and I'm not sure I even believe that, but they want to get ####ed by someone who is fit and muscular.
 
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