Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
This.I think modern women are insecure and would rather settle down with an average guy because he's more likely to be more "faithful" and nurturing.
This is a super-simple Man-Woman 101 topic:
Women are just not generically programmed to be attracted to soft, dad bod guys. It's simple biology. She is attracted (which you cannot choose) to the fit, muscular, "hunky" guy because her primordial brain is telling her this man is a very good breeding partner with strong genetics to enable the survival of my offspring. The fact he's strong and in shape also means he's able to protect me from predators or marauders, thus enabling the survival of me and my offspring.
Any woman who says they prefer a dad bod guy is all-out lying due to her insecurity about the options "fit" guy has and the fact he has a greater chance of cheating and leaving her.