Women don't want sex

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
You touch a womans emotions and she will let you touch whatever else you want!
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best advice i've ever seen in my life!
 

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It always comes down to our masculine nature ... and how wretchedly out of touch we are with it.
 

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it's nothing to do with bragging, i never said i see myself as a 10, i said "if a woman sees you".

if a woman sees you the way you see a HB9-10, she will wonder and daydream about what it would be like to f*ck you. I've lived in a house with girls before, and you'd be surprised how graphic and perverted their minds can get when they're infatuated with someone.

some women get turned on by outfits you wear (i.e. a classy suit, uniform, etc) and start thinking of f*cking you. there were many times in a relationship where i'd be picking out clothes to wear tonight, and i'd hear something like "i remember the first time you wore that shirt at ????? and i just wanted to rip it off you and jump you" etc etc.

some women get turned on by thinking back to the last time they had sex. if you have fully satisfied her the last time you met, she will be thinking about it and this will make her horny.

some women get turned on by dominant personalities and whenever they think about that person, they get horny.

some women get turned on by your reputation. if you had ever lived in a dorm and made a few girls happy at night, word will get around, and other girls will start wondering what it's like to f*ck you. one of my old gfs used to talk about our sex life to her friends all the time, and after the relationship ended and we slowly lost touch, one of her friends kept pursuing me for a LONG while, even tho I wasn't interested in her.

i think of it every 2 min.

they dont.
and again, i say, you are full of sh!t. how do you know what a girl is thinking? you can only go by what she tells you, and what she tells you is up to her.

You touch a womans emotions and she will let you touch whatever else you want!
That right there is the biggest myth. That women need to be "emotionally connected" to their man in order to enjoy sex or want sex from him. It's bullsh!t. Women have just as many urges as guys do, and are just as capable of having no strings attached sex WITH the right person. whether that person is someone who she is physically attracted to, or someone with a dominant personality who pushes her buttons, or someone she just heard is a good f*ck, she doesn't need to be emotionally attached in order to be horny and want to have sex with them.

and likewise, you can emotionally trigger a woman, but if you don't push the other buttons, she wont think about sex with you that much but she will be emotionally fulfilled. if she calls you and says she misses you more often then she calls and says she's horny and wants you right away, chances are you're not pushing her sexual buttons. she'll still love you and stay with you, but eventually one day if you're still together or are even married, she may run into a man who will push her buttons, and she may explore her sexual side with him.

You can hate on me all you want, but i'm looking out for you. Don't be ignorant and think women are not sexual, or that it's all abotu emotions and nothing else. And don't think that just because women have a sexual side they're wh*res, that's the best way of killing a sexual connection with your girl.
 

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you have a great way of mis-understand what we are saying.

we never said they wernet horny..not as horny as a male..its PROVEN.

we just said women can be stimulated by her emotions as well as being horny...

you dont think sexually stimulating a women isnt a emotional repsonse as well as physical?

you take everything I say or someone like and talk like im being the biggest pyssy on earth...when im being real...its real to think women can be turned on in an emotional way.

why do you think they say even fat girls get laid.

because so many guys would fyck like rabbits..where as a women wont.

dont say its options..because if women were as horny as men..no man would need to come here to get laid.
 

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. That women need to be "emotionally connected" to their man in order to enjoy sex or want sex from him. It's bullsh!t.
never said they had to be.....just saying if they are...its guarenteed.
 

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you also keep pointing references to women that you have previously slept with.


considering when you meet a women or date her and havent fycked..thats irrevelent.

unless you look like brad pitt....if you make a sexual and EMOTIONAL connection with her.she will be more willing to sleep with u
 

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Women do want sex, but as RE put it, WITH A PARTNER.


There are some women bold enough to buy sex toys w/out the companionship of a guy. And then there are other girls who DO IT FOR a guy because THAT is what makes them Sexy.


A girl has no looks until a MAN is there to confirm those looks. Just like a tree falling in the forest doesn't make a sound unless something is there to hear it. So too does a woman possess no sexuality until a man is there to confirm or deny it.


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The "better" girls are those whom you meet who are less experienced but willing because you can grow and experience with them. They gain trust with you and learn to experiment on their own. This only serves to multiply the sexual pleasure you feel because it's like an AIR or AURA of sexuality surrounding you.


I always disliked walking into women who had some prior experience with guys and said "I like this, I don't like this, I hate that." WTF...?? :confused:


Women preach relationship mantra b.s., yet they have a laundry list of sexual delights already on their headboard. How fun is that??


Why is this so???


Because if a girl has a bad initial experience in ANYTHING, she is likely to ALWAYS remember it THAT way FOREVER. BUT, if you are there to guide her to a GOOD emotional, initial experience, then she is likely to enjoy it and build upon it. I'm never one for first impressions but for women and sexy THIS is a biggy.


I recall one night I brought my girl to the local watering hole that I used to frequent with my crew. Before going, we'd had an arguement. While we were there, I got smashed. And afterwards, we had a fight. Now, everytime we cruise by, she's very negative on ever going there again as it "anchored" the memory of what that place meant.


When you don't have a "definition" in your memory bank for something, how it goes will tell you your level of interest going forward. And people who have negative definitions in their mind of experiences will relate to things in this manner and always fear that until they change the meaning of it in their mind. This is how society has achieved its control over women's emotions and marriage.


A woman has a home life. It goes sour or sweet depending on her parent's marriage. Her relationships are bad or good throughout school. Perhaps she is cheated, perhaps not. Then she views Cosmo, MTV, the Real World, Desperate Housewives, etc. She's her friends around her doing poorly in relationships. Her own success is minimal at best. How can she be positive unless she is tremendously strong??? All her definitions of relationships and marriages are bad, and this is why some girls who hail from broken homes will never change, because their mind says "at some point this gets all fvcked up, so don't get your hopes up, girl."


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Becoming her partner is not ABOUT goals, it's not about saying..."ok, i want to be her partner to get sex." Your goal is still sex. Or your goal is being her friend/sex buddy, which is still a goal that is empty. Which means you will bend your will to that goal and supplicate. It's the only thing you can do. To get things, we sacrifice. Usually we sacrifice time to create wealth. To get a goal like sex, men used to sacrifice all other women for the sake of sex with 1 woman. Sacrificing anything to get something is a net loss in terms of life. You gave something to get something, that most likely the other person didn't want to do. But because psychologically deep inside of us we have a guilt/sacrifice gene, we all cave, the majority of the time.


Touching or becoming a partner is about being genuine. Being yourself. But being your MALE SELF. Too many guys are not themselves but are AFC pvssies ready to supplicate and pander like a true beta. You can be who you are if you are true to yourself. Even the guy who is masculine and veral will still lose things, he will still fail, he will lose hot girls, but he is true to himself AND loses not because of him changing, but because HE DOES NOT CHANGE.


There's no tactics. In fact, the opposite of tactics is genuineness. A genuine guy does what he wants, when he wants, by no tactical routine, that way she knows what kind of guy he is.


If you're dating a girl and she's washing your dishes or her's, and she's bending over the sink in a cute skirt, lift it up. Wrap your arms around her and kiss her neck. Help her wash those dishes while standing close behind her. There's no signal there, and you shouldn't look for one. And if she was somewhat cross, fvck her. Laugh about it. Be playful. Life is short for certain and too short to deal with all this uptightness especially with someone you're dating/seeing. Doing such things gives you a glimpse of the future. If she's so uptight, how will a longer relationship unfold?? And if it's not a LTR, then why are you dating the prude anyways when there's more open, and sexual women waiting???


Your time is fixed. It is your currency to give out and invest. It is more valuable than money. And investing 1 hour of time our of your 24 better be used properly otherwise it is gone and lost forever. Think in these terms, so you are not wasting dates or money on girls not worth your time. An hour lost to a bad girl could have been invested in yourself, your family, or a better one.



A-Unit
 

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because so many guys would fyck like rabbits..where as a women wont.

dont say its options..because if women were as horny as men..no man would need to come here to get laid.
I was in futureshop the other day with a buddy, was gonna buy a universal remote, and they had this poster of lil kim. on it, she was wearing a shirt that said "got d!ck?". the first thing my friend says is "what a sl*t". now, i'm not saying lil kim is not a sl*t, but think about that reaction. that was his first response, to label her a sl*t.

My point being, if a girl expresses her hornyness, or her sexual side out loud, guys (and society in general) is quick to label her a sl*t. because of this, women will never display their horny side as blatantly as guys do, unless she knows you wont judge her. if you embrace this side, you'll be surprised how often she expresses it.

never said they had to be.....just saying if they are...its guarenteed
If that was the case, all those afcs who make girls cry with their sweet poems, love notes, flowers and songs would be getting more pvssy then anyone. as is the case, most of them get LJBF'ed while the girl pursues someone she is actually attracted to, and who pushes her sexual buttons. just because you bring out an emotional reaction in a girl doesn't mean sexual attraction will come with it.

you also keep pointing references to women that you have previously slept with.
No, I've lived with several female friends, and eventually when they saw I wasn't judging them, they became really relaxed around me and would say all sorts of sh!t. You'd be surprised how horny girls can get. One of my friends was infatuated with this dude on the university swim team, and would go every night when he was doing laps and wear all these sexy outfits to get his attention, and she said numerous times how when she saw him getting out of that pool she'd get wet, etc. She never even knew this guy, but she was borderline stalking him and wanted to f*ck his brains out. Physical attraction goes a long way.
 

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If that was the case, all those afcs who make girls cry with their sweet poems, love notes, flowers and songs would be getting more pvssy then anyone. as is the case, most of them get LJBF'ed while the girl pursues someone she is actually attracted to, and who pushes her sexual buttons. just because you bring out an emotional reaction in a girl doesn't mean sexual attraction will come with it.
when I say emotionally attached...I mean like or love...actually feelngs for the person.

not sympathy.

No, I've lived with several female friends, and eventually when they saw I wasn't judging them, they became really relaxed around me and would say all sorts of sh!t. You'd be surprised how horny girls can get. One of my friends was infatuated with this dude on the university swim team, and would go every night when he was doing laps and wear all these sexy outfits to get his attention, and she said numerous times how when she saw him getting out of that pool she'd get wet, etc. She never even knew this guy, but she was borderline stalking him and wanted to f*ck his brains out. Physical attraction goes a long way.

I agree with you....it does go a long way....but NO man would ever fyck a girl because he cares for her...well he would..but he would only care for her if she is physically good looking enuf to fyck...where as the girl would fall for and sleep with a guy she might not of been initally attracted enuf to..to think wow I wanna fyck him.

the only thing I can say about it is...women may not think your the hottest guy on earth..but if u push her buttons..as well as emotional buttons..she will want you.
when I say emotional I mean attachement, care, love..those feelings will get her turned on for a guy she may not of got wet for at the start.
 

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unless she knows you wont judge her. if you embrace this side, you'll be surprised how often she expresses it.

I agree with this as well..I can recall many a times..where they start with...dont judge me but...

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friv the whole point of that roomate story was to tell you that girls do get just as horny as guys, sometimes even more often, but they may not express it outside of their circle. if i didn't live with them, i would have never heard this stuff, because this isn't a side that they show to guys. however, me living with them for so long made them get used to my presence and eventually they learned to be open around me. that's when i'd hear all sorts of f*cked up sh!t. saying women don't want sex the way guys want it is an understatement. they can get very very horny over the most ridiculous things man, they just don't talk about it openly in front of the opposite gender like we can.

that roomate who was infatuated with the swim team guy. she never once made a direct move on him. she'd go swim laps the same time he did, she'd buy sexy bikinis just so he'd notice, etc. meanwhile she never approached him and always waited for him to make the move. if that guy had simply come up to her and said hi, talked for a few mins and then asked her if she wanted to come over to his place, she would have gone all the way that night.
 

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I understand what is being said here but there's still a big difference in how we view sex. A guy can get horny to the point where he'd have sex with a girl who isn't really attractive (he could do a lot better) just to get his rocks off because she was convenient at the time.

Women don't seem to do this, they don't desire sex in the same capacity as a man. If the guy isn't attractive to her she isn't going to lower her standards just to have sex. Why don't women watch porn like guys? They can hide it just as well as anyone else but most of them don't get into it.

I agree that they can be as horny as guys, but they have many more "requirements" to get to that state. What requirements do guys have? Simple, is she fvckable (she doesn't have to be super hot)? We also don't have fluctuating hormones and PMS that alter our sex drive.
 

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Originally posted by Tazman
I understand what is being said here but there's still a big difference in how we view sex. A guy can get horny to the point where he'd have sex with a girl who isn't really attractive (he could do a lot better) just to get his rocks off because she was convenient at the time.
Generalization. Speak for yourself, I'd never f*ck a girl I didn't find attractive, no matter how horny I was.

Why don't women watch porn like guys? They can hide it just as well as anyone else but most of them don't get into it.
Hehe, women do watch porn man. It may differ from what guys watch. Whereas guys are very visual and prefer movies or photos in mags, women can be aroused by something as simple as a softcore romantic story. Why do you think they read all those books with Fabio on the cover? A simple verbal sex scene is enough to arouse them. Likewise, women do watch porn movies, but they're a lot more soft core, and have more storyline etc to them, lol. My best friend works in a sex shop and most of his customers are actually female. Women aren't as sexually repressed as you think man. Just because she hides the dildo/vibrator before you come over doesn't mean she doesn't use it.

I agree that they can be as horny as guys, but they have many more "requirements" to get to that state.
Again I disagree. What you see as requirements, is simply a matter of opinion on what they consider f*ckable. Each guy has their type of women that turn them on more then the others, but it doesn't mean we don't date other types. It's the same with girls. A girl that's into big dominant men may date a scrawny submissive guy, but it wont last, and if it does she usually cheats on him.

Most of these requirements are just as simple as ours. Nice face, hot body, sexy voice, ability to project sexual desire, specific attitude, etc. If a girl meets these, you will get turned on. If you meet these, she will get turned on very fast, it's natural. The whole lightswitch / volume knob theory is flawed. If you can read her, and find out her personality, you can discover what buttons to push.

This is why I say P_S has by far the best advice on these forums, if you read his sh!t carefully, you will find out how to get inside a woman's head and find information you can use. It's about proper conversation and knowing what questions to ask.

Asking her how her day was will give you little info you can use. Asking her about her traveling experiance, where she's been, what it was like, etc will tell you more. Asking her to describe her ideal vacation will let you know whether she's a visual or audial person. If it's a visual, she will be more turned on by your looks (whether it's height, face, or body), clothes, the location. If she's an audial type, she may be more turned on by what you say to her, your voice, your tone, dirty talk, etc. Once you figure out what buttons to push, it's really easy for her to go from OFF to ON.
 

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Well this thread is a pointless circle jerk.

Let me guess Royal Elite, are you a chick?
 

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^yeah, i see this going nowhere too

I don't exactly agree with you, Royal

I recently posted a tip regarding getting a life...and I've noticed that once I've done so...or other times that I've been busy and had a girl chase me...

...that the girl thinks about sex a ton more than me. Lots more sexual innuendos from her, and pushing for sex. Twice so far, I've had a girl call me several times and when I didn't pick up she just showed up at my door to fcuk

I think MoM is right, in that, it's happened when the girl finds me a lot more attractive/sexy than I find her attractive ...I only go for Hb6-8s anyway, and I'd rather be with a girl who wants me, than go after her...it's a lot easier anyway

Dude, have you just noticed how many times per day girls check you out...or if they hit on you? Well, if none, too bad...but seriously, be a bit more observant when girls talk to or about you ...get out more often ...I am not bragging, and by no means have the amazing body that MoM has (and I don't mean to be gay, y'all know what I mean)...but I noticed 4 hot girls checking me out today ...1 Hb8 or so eye-fcuking me, 1 Hb6 approached me, 2 Hb7s (when I was in the near vicinity whispered, commenting on how hot I was)

Get out more often, it's all about visibility...

...yeah, you may be thinking 'dude...did you read his post?' Yeah, I did, and I concluded that it's theory mostly. Sure, if you don't spend much time around (or meet) many girls it's a nice thought you have there...but if you're around girls on a daily basis, I don't see how you could say that

I don't nearly have as much sexual experience as many of you, but seriously, if you are thinking about sex 24/7 you are a loser...get a life

Actually, leave that to girls...their lives are usually not nearly as interesting as ours ...ask her hobbies to hear her say "shopping, reading Cosmopolitan, and watching TV" ...if that's what my life consisted of, of course I would be thinking of sex all the time

Be more interesting
 

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I don't nearly have as much sexual experience as many of you, but seriously, if you are thinking about sex 24/7 you are a loser...get a life


dude...sorry .I love sex :)


and no one thinks of it 24/7 and you admit you havent done it much..you get a life :p IM JK..I dont care about how much youuve done it. but dont tell people to get a life who love sex.

again I KNOW WOMEN LOVE SEX!

but there is more then 1 way to get in a womens pants..there is ONLY 1 way to get in a mans pants..
your NOT going to STIMULATE a MAN emotionally and get him to fyck you!

but a man can do that to a women..as well as turn her on..or be HOt..its doenst matter which it is..but there are more outlets for it.




My thoughts exactly, Looks like frivoulous has some competition .

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did you visit your local prison yet for that ALPHA male **** you LOVE so much u hard as you! :cheer:
 

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did you visit your local prison yet for that ALPHA male
I usually dont take much notice of what chicks say but I'm curious because youve said this a couple of times now, whats with the prison and Alpha theme you keep bringing up? I dont get it.
 
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