Women don’t know what beautiful women look like

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In my experience, all the women I’ve been around have no idea what beautiful women look like. Invariably they select string featured, slightly masculine or powerful women as what they think of female beauty. Either that or a very rich looking woman.

the kind of feminine, delicate beauty I like, my wife sneers at and says “there are tons of women out there like that”

Margot Robbie is one like this. I really think she’s average and she looked middle aged in Barbie. The women on Reddit were raging about that, “how can these incels criticise Margot Fkin Robbie”? Yeah, she’s not all that and never was. She has that Hollywood face,just kind of bland and boring.

plus her mouth looks kind of too big for her face, I notice this a lot in terms of American beauty, the US pin ups seem to have a very pronounced teethy smile
Yeah, I can see that. Just like some men think that the ideal of male beauty is some roided up gorilla, while most women drool over guys who look like Justin Bieber.
 

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I dunno guys, I think if a woman is even just moderately self-aware, observant of the world around her and pays attention to how a man (or men) react and respond to her at various times and wearing various modes of attire, she knows what he will like.
You are forgetting self-delusion, a powerful tool that some women use to maximum extent to protect their ego.
 

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In my experience, all the women I’ve been around have no idea what beautiful women look like. Invariably they select string featured, slightly masculine or powerful women as what they think of female beauty. Either that or a very rich looking woman.

the kind of feminine, delicate beauty I like, my wife sneers at and says “there are tons of women out there like that”

Margot Robbie is one like this. I really think she’s average and she looked middle aged in Barbie. The women on Reddit were raging about that, “how can these incels criticise Margot Fkin Robbie”? Yeah, she’s not all that and never was. She has that Hollywood face,just kind of bland and boring.

plus her mouth looks kind of too big for her face, I notice this a lot in terms of American beauty, the US pin ups seem to have a very pronounced teethy smile
OBW Margot Robbie is an Australian actress. She is not from the USA. I find her a beautiful woman, strikingly so.
 

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You are forgetting self-delusion, a powerful tool that some women use to maximum extent to protect their ego.
Well yes. Men also have self-delusion. Men have egos to protect also.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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No worries @JoyDivision1990 about all that. Like you I grew up accustomed to that environment. So like you I understand these things.

Many people however have no idea. So I was explaining it for those who don't know.

So yes, I understand what a beautiful woman is, I understand what appeals to men, and I am cognizant of the environment I find myself in.....as a beautiful woman....
 

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Fair enough.

Great quote I find quite apropo:

"Money talks, wealth whispers."

Pretty much says it all imo. :)
Correct. Old money is quiet money. New money? Not so much, lol. Think Rodney Dangerfield in Caddyshack. His character was that irreverent about country club culture for a reason. The whole movie pokes fun at "the establishment."
 
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Correct. Old money is quiet money. New money? Not so much, lol. Think Rodney Dangerfield in Caddyshack. His character was that irreverent about country club culture for a reason. The whole movie pokes fun at "the establishment."
We're getting off the original topic but where I'm from and what I was taught (from my dad) was that true wealth (not necessary old money) was quiet not loud.

From Linkedin:

>>Money often talks loudly when it comes to extravagant lifestyles and conspicuous consumption. People with substantial resources can easily flaunt their wealth by driving luxury cars, living in extravagant mansions, and indulging in ostentatious hobbies. While these displays may garner attention and envy, they don't necessarily reflect true wealth. True wealth, which whispers, can be seen in a lifestyle that is comfortable and fulfilling without the need for constant extravagance. It prioritizes financial security, investments, and experiences over material possessions. It's quiet, it whispers.<<

This is how I choose to live. Unpretentiously but comfortably. And I gravitate to those same qualities in men. Since I am attracted to ambition, I tend to attract successful men, but again they're quiet and unpretentious about it.

Same with beauty. Just like true wealth, it's quiet, it whispers. I have no need to talk about it or even mention it. Including who designed my dress or shoes or the handbag I carry. It doesn't add to my value as a human being, so there is no need to, imo.

I am not judging women who do, to each her own. In fact I have a friend who, every time we get together, she asks what designer am I wearing. I often don't even know honestly, and she will actually check the label! It's not who I am but she's been a good friend for years so I just chuckle.

No wrong or right, just different.

Anyway, sorry guys, back to topic.....
 
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I've definitely experienced this phenomenon where women will praise another women's looks, and I will wonder what the heck it is she's thinking. Some of it is simply different taste. If we looked at a woman, some of us will most likely find her attractive, and others will will less impressed. So it's the same with women looking at other women. Another thing is maybe they will be focusing on one particular thing that they like, like maybe they like their hairdo, or their earrings, or their dress, or their eye shadow, or wish they had nicer legs like them, or whatever.
 

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I've noticed women I have dated tend to find other women similar to their own appearance most attractive.
 

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OBW Margot Robbie is an Australian actress. She is not from the USA. I find her a beautiful woman, strikingly so.
She looks American. Her mouth is too big for her face and her teeth look like they’re made of the space shuttle
 

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In my experience, all the women I’ve been around have no idea what beautiful women look like. Invariably they select string featured, slightly masculine or powerful women as what they think of female beauty. Either that or a very rich looking woman.

the kind of feminine, delicate beauty I like, my wife sneers at and says “there are tons of women out there like that”

Margot Robbie is one like this. I really think she’s average and she looked middle aged in Barbie. The women on Reddit were raging about that, “how can these incels criticise Margot Fkin Robbie”? Yeah, she’s not all that and never was. She has that Hollywood face,just kind of bland and boring.

plus her mouth looks kind of too big for her face, I notice this a lot in terms of American beauty, the US pin ups seem to have a very pronounced teethy smile
Oh they know. Point out a beautiful woman and they typically will find something to criticize, disqualify or ignore her. They have to find a way to get your attention away from them. The baseline is her own self perceived level of attractiveness. Chics fatter than her, not a problem. Thinner chics with tighter bodies and nice clothes, problem.

If @BeExcellent rolled up in that yellow dress it would be something like, “oh look at her, she looks trashy…”. Not trashy, but hotter than you so the disqualications come flying out.
 

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In my experience, all the women I’ve been around have no idea what beautiful women look like. Invariably they select string featured, slightly masculine or powerful women as what they think of female beauty. Either that or a very rich looking woman.

the kind of feminine, delicate beauty I like, my wife sneers at and says “there are tons of women out there like that”

Margot Robbie is one like this. I really think she’s average and she looked middle aged in Barbie. The women on Reddit were raging about that, “how can these incels criticise Margot Fkin Robbie”? Yeah, she’s not all that and never was. She has that Hollywood face,just kind of bland and boring.

plus her mouth looks kind of too big for her face, I notice this a lot in terms of American beauty, the US pin ups seem to have a very pronounced teethy smile
Agree with you on Robbie. Objectively she's very pretty but not my cup of tea physically.

That said I think people were trolling on Robbie. Most women I know can tell a beautiful woman when they see one. They are guiltier of checking out women than are men.
 

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So who do you think is a 10?
I like Asian chicks. And girl next door types



That mouth is from a much larger woman.

different strokes I guess but she looks more like an apex predator with biting equipment that large.
 

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Agree with you on Robbie. Objectively she's very pretty but not my cup of tea physically.

That said I think people were trolling on Robbie. Most women I know can tell a beautiful woman when they see one. They are guiltier of checking out women than are men.
she’s OK but I don’t think I’d even crack one out over her. Kinda pleasant enough but not some sex symbol .
 
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