It was fun imagining the conversation.
Women have this weird games... she probably found another guy she was more attracted too... I explain it here.So... last Thursday I went on a date with a HB7.5 aprox.. shes my age... we bantered back and forth for a week cuz we both been busy.. and played 20 questions and a few phone calls up until our date..
We agreed to get together over dinner ..... and we had good time... some laughs.. some situational humor... and a couple drinks.. It was gettin late for her cuz she had to work next day and she gets up at 3am to go to work... so we part... we hug..
Next day... we have some more banter via text at work... but then she says "i dont think we have a connection, i wish you luck".... so i shrug it off and thank her for meeting up with me and i let her know i thought she was pretty cute.
Five days later.. she texts me... she says "hey how ya doing" .... asks me if i have done any new recipes (i mentioned to her previously about my meal planning which is pretty much always the same so she negged me on it playfully) I mentioned to her that no.. im just meal planning with the supplies i have.. and this weekend i will try making somthing new and that id think of her when i did it...
Today.. she texts me and tells me about her day and asks if id like to go on a hike with her maybe this weekend... lol... so im like... well, ill have to see.. leme get back to you.. so i left her hanging for a few hours and got back to her at the end of the day and said yeah i think that sounds good id love to join ya.
Why would she tell me she didnt feel a connection... wish me good luck.. but then ask if i wana go on a hike with her like 7 days later.. lol??
The woods is more my element anyways...kinda stoked.. but ill play it cool. Shes a cool chick... i enjoyed her banter and company ..so... will see how it goes.
Interesting perspective.... i may not go with her.... and just take a couple guy friends.
I edited your question to make it clearer what happened. I think you get the picture.So... last Thursday I went on a date with [irrelevant]
[I provided her with a free dinner ..... entertainment... and a couple of free drinks.. she made an excuse about getting up at 3am the next day... then she left.. and she didn't want to touch or kiss..
Next day... I wasted all day texting her at work... and then she said "i dont find you attractive, but thanks for the free food and drink, sucker".... so i thanked her for wasting two days of my life and I gave her another compliment
Five days later.. she hit me up for attention and I wasted more time texting her.
Today.. I wasted more time texting her and she invited me to spend time with her as a platonic harmless guy without a **** this weekend... lol... so im like... well, ill have to see.. so I pretended not to be desperate for a few hours and then admitted I was desperate at the end the day by saying yeah i think that sounds good id love to join ya.
Why would she tell me she didn't find me the slightest bit attractive but the liked the free attention and then hit me up for more free attention and food lol??
I'll rationalise that she likes me anyway...
Buahhahaha i loled.... that was an entertaining edit
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I see the edit "i dont find you attractive, but thanks for the free food and drink, sucker"...
He should thank his lucky stars that’s ALL he lost. Could have been much worse “thanks for a few years of a loveless marriage, have your stuff out of your house by the end of the day. And leave the car. I’ve cleaned out the bank accounts and maxed out the credit cards. Sucker!”
Did you get rid of old girl? You must be talking to a few others now who bend more your way, swing thru for sex, take you out occasionally, invite you to things?
That's cold. Think about how many millions of men, that this was their actual REALITY. They had been marked as a "sucker" from the get go. She came in to have a host to live off of.
I'm not sure if OP is active still on the forums. Bat Soup is on a rampage digging up posts from Jan and now hes onto the Feb months. LOL
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That's true, it's actually better to get rejected quickly rather than waste your time. He wasted a few days but it would be worse to waste years of your life, so in that respect he got off lightly. Although we don't really know how it ended as he still seemed to believe he had a chance. I think she pegged him as a sucker when he kept on texting her after she totally fobbed him off and figured that she could probably continue to use him for free attention, food and drink. Women play stupid and pretend they don't know the deal, but orbiters are useful to them.
Okay. That rewrite makes it very clear what really was going on and I appreciate seeing it.I'm not sure if OP is active still on the forums. Bat Soup is on a rampage digging up posts from Jan and now hes onto the Feb months. LOL
I'm sure soon he'll catch up to June.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I'm glad there was a light at the end of the tunnel for you.
Wise men learn from others mistakes.
That's true.
