Yup.... it was... i didnt chase either.. did that far too much with my wife of 25yrs b4 we split. From now on if its too hard or complicated.. its not worth my effort. My new lady makes it so easy... is full of gratitude and i dont hardly do fuk all compared to the suplication i did to try and keep my nuclear family together.... which failed of course but 25yrs was a good run.It was a **** test to see:
If you would freak out
or
If you would chase, like a man with no options
or
If you would shrug it off, like a man with options