Women cancelling after the confirmation?

[wifehunter]

BINGO!
you guys tend to want to engage in discussions to find the 'perfect algorithm' for a behavior.

What you seem to fail to absorb is that each one is you ARE attracting a different TYPE of woman. This type is based on who you are, what you attract, and the dynamics if your childhood.

The only real discussion is to allow everyone to disclose their pre date texting style without challenging anyone and telling them "you are wrong".

As has been correctly suggested, the reader then needs to absorb the information and TEST what works for him - because (most likely) he's working with a different type of female.

There is no one size fits all solution, there never will be.

Sometimes the bickering here can get just ridiculous

Carry on

Yep, dating sucks, each situation is a different smelling turd. Not all turds smell the same.

 

[RangerMIke]

Invite chicks to things you are planning anyway... if she doesn't show... no problem, go solo or ring up a friend and go anyway. No need to confirm. If a chick flakes she's out unless she puts effort into meeting up again.

Flaking happens.. chicks flake... There are a lot of reasons why this might happen, but the one common denominator is that if she flakes on you, it is because you are not a priority. In my 30 plus years of dating I have heard it all... it might be fun to start up a thread posting all the flaky excuses chicks have given over the years just so that we can laugh about this ridiculous feminine behavior.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Invite chicks to things you are planning anyway... if she doesn't show... no problem, go solo or ring up a friend and go anyway. No need to confirm. If a chick flakes she's out unless she puts effort into meeting up again.

This is another great strategy.

I hit up an event near this chick that LJBF me almost 4 years ago. She hit me up about a month ago as a feeler. So I went to this event, shot her a text inviting her to stop through.

Her response was “maybe” to which I responded “ok.” An hour later she texts me saying she’s here looking for me.

Interestingly enough, she was on good behavior and taken aback by me gaming women there in front of her. It’s pointless to understand the female mind.. just go with actions. Point of the story... create outcome independent situations for yourself.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is another great strategy.

I hit up an event near this chick that LJBF me almost 4 years ago. She hit me up about a month ago as a feeler. So I went to this event, shot her a text inviting her to stop through.

Her response was “maybe” to which I responded “ok.” An hour later she texts me saying she’s here looking for me.

Interestingly enough, she was on good behavior and taken aback by me gaming women there in front of her. It’s pointless to understand the female mind.. just go with actions. Point of the story... create outcome independent situations for yourself.

So gaming women in front of this particular lady got her to "act right" around you? She was more consistent and sex was hotter too?

 

[backseatjuan]

I can attest, you are acting needy, perhaps not even the word for it, you are bugging women. Do this, create a pf profile and pretend to be a woman, not a hot one, just an average looking. Do some texting back and forth, and see what annoys you the most, and what interests you the most.

 

[Bullbearpig]

Comfirming is needy behavior and a turnoff.

DJ's don't need confirmations.

This is stupid. "Confirming is needy" "alphas dont need confirmations" give me a break.

 

[Bullbearpig]

My style is I usually like to build some rapport via person or text until a set time and date for the first meet up is established. If the first date is within 3-4 days, I do not text the girl until the day of to confirm. If its more than 4 days, I'll throw a mid-week text to just catch up/ see how week is going.

I usually send a text on day of the date to confirm, typically in late morning or so. This is what I've always done, and most of the women I've platted have fit into this mold. However, recently I'm noticing quite a bit of flakes; and we all know flakes happen, its part of the game. But these flakes are occurring AFTER the woman confirms with me..LoL. I'll get a second text a few hours before the set time with an excuse.

Anyone else seen this type of pattern?

What I do is...
Ask her out, she says yes and tells me when she's available, or I ask when she's available.
Do not set a time or place yet, just confirm if that day also works for you. If it's a few days out, text modestly in between time. It would be weird and awkward to not text at all, but don't text too much. The day of the date text her late morning or so and tell her where and when to meet you.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Regarding how much you text, I can't imagine thinking that someone is going to like me less if they get to know me more. What does that say about your own self-image and confidence?

 

[Who Dares Win]

I usually send a message 1 hour before the meeting saying that I may be late few minutes cause I have to refuel the car.

They usually answer that there is no problem and everything is ok, some didnt even bother to reply so I knew it was a flake and dropped it.

 

[wifehunter]

This is stupid. "Confirming is needy" "alphas dont need confirmations" give me a break.

You want a break?

ok

 

[Dash Riprock]

Comfirming is needy behavior and a turnoff.

DJ's don't need confirmations.

No, it's NOT needy behavior.

Your time is valuable. Well, mine is anyway. Why waste it? Confirm the date like a man. It's what adults do. Needy...lol. Who gives a f*uck what she thinks.

 

[EyeBRollin]

So gaming women in front of this particular lady got her to "act right" around you? She was more consistent and sex was hotter too?

No sex, first time seeing her in years. We will see where it goes. Her body language changed immediately though she started hovering.

 

[nismo-4]

Too much text lowers interest. None is unforgettable. Purpose is key.

If a woman is a waste of time, even a bit dodgy, i will next her. As in, number delete, #nextSet and she can hit me up.

As much as I love AMS's channel, I disagree with his stance on deleting numbers. He says keep her number in case she comes around (which by the way will be years, if that).

If she flakes out, especially online, and even in real life, yeah I delete her number completely. I work in the ATL airport, and when women don't show up after a # close, they're deleted and I never talk to them again. Online, I have a one strike rule. A flake means an a automatic next. Why reward bad behavior?

Why the f**k does AMS say to keep these numbers in? So that your phone has a bunch of numbers in it that are dead leads, time wasters, attention wh0res, women you didn't come in first place with? He also says it's beta to delete women's numbers. I totally disagree. Why chase disinterest?

Only problem, when you ghost, she likely will too. I always say erase and replace. Most guys know how to erase, but replacing is easier said than done.

It's sad that all it takes is one quirk or trait to cost you a girl. Doing something too much, to little, or not at all can make or break you.

 

[Mazer]

I confirm with “Hello, See you at 8pm.” Similar to what others have said. I stopped with the “I’m running fifteen minutes late” line because too many women think I am just playing games from the get go with that line at least that’s what they tell me.

 

[Trump]

you guys tend to want to engage in discussions to find the 'perfect algorithm' for a behavior.

What you seem to fail to absorb is that each one is you ARE attracting a different TYPE of woman.

No you’re not. I’ve rarely seen a women act differently at any stage of the relationship. ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME.

Polite and respectful and seduceful at the beginning -> sex is given - > the pullback -> the change - > the isolating you from friends - > the expecting more while giving less -> the put downs -> the nagging -> the insults -> the breakup to make her feel powerful.

As has been correctly suggested, the reader then needs to absorb the information and TEST what works for him - because (most likely) he's working with a different type of female.

Doesn’t matter. All women are the SAME. Better offfer on the table, she will go with it.

There is no one size fits all solution, there never will be.

Be the best offer for yourself, she can take it or leave it.

 

[sazc]

No you’re not. I’ve rarely seen a women act differently at any stage of the relationship. ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME.

Polite and respectful and seduceful at the beginning -> sex is given - > the pullback -> the change - > the isolating you from friends - > the expecting more while giving less -> the put downs -> the nagging -> the insults -> the breakup to make her feel powerful.



Doesn’t matter. All women are the SAME. Better offfer on the table, she will go with it.



Be the best offer for yourself, she can take it or leave it.

Lol, it's never occurred to you that you actually DO attract the same type of woman, over and over again, and that's why you have the exact same experiences and think "all women are the same"? Expand your thinking!

Different posters HERE have different experiences. That's obvious and self evident in the FACT that ppl argue about which"way" is best, because "their way" works (for them). That occurs BECAUSE we all attract different types of people, and, individually, we tend to attract the same type of person, over and over again. Hence your "all women are the same" erroneous thought process.

Lol

Your tunnel vision isn't going to aid you in the long run, but have fun with that.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

As much as I love AMS's channel, I disagree with his stance on deleting numbers. He says keep her number in case she comes around (which by the way will be years, if that).

Everyone has their opinion on pulling baeeeees. This like most gorums us no difference despite having never seen a vagina before lol

Similar, i next women who are low interest, bpd, cuck vibe of any sort, feminist. Combative or anything not feminine, submissive, young, and dtf. I dont need a false rapey accusations. Any crazy and I'm out. Any flakey, dodgy, weird, hot/cold, and i next. Game is about compliance, you lead, she follows or next. Finally, seek sources, mentors, role models etc but THINK FOR YOURSELF. AMS brats purpose to death but he's bang on.

I am going on places in life. Women can come along or get left behind. Real talk.

If she flakes out, especially online, and even in real life, yeah I delete her number completely. I work in the ATL airport, and when women don't show up after a # close, they're deleted and I never talk to them again. Online, I have a one strike rule. A flake means an a automatic next. Why reward bad behavior?

I have a zero tolerance policy. Still, there's a predisposition to the assumption of a **** test being low interest. I have did that in my earlier days in pickup. Do your thing playboy. With OLD and tinder, top form SMV 18-23 is spoiled for choice. Unless Chad status, you got to put work in. But you wouldn't be here if you were. None of us would be lol

As a side bar, don't say where you live or work. Its begging for doxing.

Why the f**k does AMS say to keep these numbers in? So that your phone has a bunch of numbers in it that are dead leads, time wasters, attention wh0res, women you didn't come in first place with? He also says it's beta to delete women's numbers. I totally disagree. Why chase disinterest?

Dude stfu. Move on.

You sound like a woman going on.

I cut # if not feminine, submissive, dtf.

Blank #s hit me up. Translation? Playboy stopped calling and she jumped off the **** and got booted to the curb..

It begs for cucking. 99% of dudes here will bite. Insert divorce rape...!

Only problem, when you ghost, she likely will too. I always say erase and replace. Most guys know how to erase, but replacing is easier said than done.

It's sad that all it takes is one quirk or trait to cost you a girl. Doing something too much, to little, or not at all can make or break you.

You sound far too rigid.

Sure. You csn come off too available, fail a **** test or be beta. You have your ego of online one strike rule. She's still getting ****kkk. You wont play? Another guy is.

Play the hand you are dealt. Obv, have boundaries but being bent out of shape because you delete #s is retarded.

Ambi on the old rsdnation said, "i don't chase. I replace."

The mentality is #nextSet whether you push or pull.

My buddy and I pulled back two girls to theur place. When one was a ****, we froze her out, took the other girl down.

Have you ever been to Paris? Have you seen the eiffel tower? I took her hand, led her to the bedroom and we destroyed her. She loved it.

Its 1am. My buddy and I left for the bar. Why? Go get more baeeeees.

3am. We leave with another. Again, have you ever been to Paris? No dice. Kick her out. Go get more baeeeees and eats.



Not saying that you have to be savage. I am saying 99% of cucks are playing house with the skank i ran a train on.

 

[nismo-4]

Lengthy post, but can use my take.

Everyone has their opinion on pulling baeeeees. This like most gorums us no difference despite having never seen a vagina before lol

Similar, i next women who are low interest, bpd, cuck vibe of any sort, feminist. Combative or anything not feminine, submissive, young, and dtf. I dont need a false rapey accusations. Any crazy and I'm out. Any flakey, dodgy, weird, hot/cold, and i next. Game is about compliance, you lead, she follows or next. Finally, seek sources, mentors, role models etc but THINK FOR YOURSELF. AMS brats purpose to death but he's bang on.

I am going on places in life. Women can come along or get left behind. Real talk.

I actually agree about purpose. Even more of the above paragraph!

I have a zero tolerance policy. Still, there's a predisposition to the assumption of a **** test being low interest. I have did that in my earlier days in pickup. Do your thing playboy. With OLD and tinder, top form SMV 18-23 is spoiled for choice. Unless Chad status, you got to put work in. But you wouldn't be here if you were. None of us would be lol

If we were all Chad, Tyrone, Chang, Hiroshi, Pierre, Richard, Steve, Enrique, Antonio, etc., we'd have this forum as a way to discuss sex positions and ways to grow businesses! We'd all be auto-rejecting disinterest too! Do you think Drake, Lebron James, Rob Gronkowski, and Richard Branson get flaked on?

As a side bar, don't say where you live or work. Its begging for doxing.



Dude stfu. Move on.

You sound like a woman going on.

I'm drilling in a point about beta cucking.

I cut # if not feminine, submissive, dtf.

As any sane man should.

Blank #s hit me up. Translation? Playboy stopped calling and she jumped off the **** and got booted to the curb..

You're still not in first place. She still wants to see if you're the beta she remembers. Just make it sexual in terse terms. Anything other than a yes with the proper actions that back it up is a no. Don't be a simp.

It begs for cucking. 99% of dudes here will bite. Insert divorce rape...!

Marriage is so f**kin' outdated these days. For Chads and Wealthy guys, marriage was never indated!

You sound far too rigid.

Sure. You csn come off too available, fail a **** test or be beta. You have your ego of online one strike rule. She's still getting ****kkk. You wont play? Another guy is.

Well no sh*t. We've gone from one extreme to the other. It used to be guys heavily pursuing chicks, now it's turn aloofness and alleged alphaness and ignoring up to eleven. It's annoying. What happens when the girl is ignoring and the guy is ignoring? Guy didn't get sex, girl didn't get attention/ ego boost/ fan/ pic liker/ gay male friend/ beta orbiter, etc.

Sure move on if there's no interest, but lol you didn't hurt her at all. If you're not seen as alpha, she sees you as beta or useless. The latter is better because you won't hang around her. Alas, she's focusing on that power forward at Duke and Kentucky.

Play the hand you are dealt. Obv, have boundaries but being bent out of shape because you delete #s is retarded.

I'm not bent out of shape, I just erase numbers that aren't going anywhere, didn't work out, I f**ked up, or want me as a beta.

Ambi on the old rsdnation said, "i don't chase. I replace."

The mentality is #nextSet whether you push or pull.

Good, but as you said if you won't play, she's got 17 other guys in her iphone that will. Good you won't bend over backwards and rob a bank, but she's got someone she'll spread her legs for. Beta and useless males won't get that.

My buddy and I pulled back two girls to theur place. When one was a ****, we froze her out, took the other girl down.

Have you ever been to Paris? Have you seen the eiffel tower? I took her hand, led her to the bedroom and we destroyed her. She loved it.

Its 1am. My buddy and I left for the bar. Why? Go get more baeeeees.

3am. We leave with another. Again, have you ever been to Paris? No dice. Kick her out. Go get more baeeeees and eats.

Not saying that you have to be savage. I am saying 99% of cucks are playing house with the skank i ran a train on.

Read between the lines.

I refuse to be a cuck/simp etc.

I don't attend to women who call me months down the line from rejecting me. I know damn well they're looking for a simp.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Lengthy post, but can use my take.



Read between the lines.

I refuse to be a cuck/simp etc.

I don't attend to women who call me months down the line from rejecting me. I know damn well they're looking for a simp.

I refuse to chat with guys who have never seen a vagina before. You wut mate?

 

[guru1000]

Bad news for some of you guys, ready?

YOUR time is more important than how she perceives you.

If you are unsure if the date is on, shoot a text for time/place, don't appear at all, or schedule another date. Just don't appear for the date without a confirm from either you or her ... as some of you do. That's a mark of low intelligence.