Potato, I have had LTR';s with models and actresses. I am often the one being picked up in lounges. I as well, have many high profile friends.In the course of my walk I stopped by an all night grocery store to pick up a snack. As I stood in the dairy aisle deciding if I wanted a yogurt or a cheese snack I felt a hand upon my bottom, clearly a groping. I turned and saw three women walking away. One, by the way she walked, a certain swing to her hips, led me to suspect that she was the culprit.
A couple of aisles over I caught glimpse of them again. They were all rather average; HB5’s or so. While I was looking through the produce the one who had groped me kind of popped up out of nowhere and, I guess, sort of draped her self on me, initiating a hug. We hugged for awhile and as I let up, she only squeezed tighter. We hugged for a long time.
I must point out that I did have several mind altering substances in my system which made the whole affair seem dreamy. I think that under normal circumstances I would have rejected/ran away from her. But she was young, like around 20, and I’m sure to her, it was kind of a fantasy fulfillment kind of experience. I get a kick out of the idea that I played such a role to that girl.
Whoah, I just realized what that is.reset said:I just don't sense any "guy stuff" in the words, if that makes sense. It reads like a woman talking
Ooh! A romance novel.Phyzzle said:Every mention of desire is a about a woman getting lost in his deep blue eyes, or the feeling of stress leaving her body as she feels his strong lips pressing against hers.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is the most intelligent thing that you’ve posted yet – almost. The idea is to be friendly and flirty with every woman that you meet regardless of any romantic/sexual interest or not. By being that way, by having an easy rapport with all women, when a woman comes along with which you do have a romantic/sexual interest, it’s quite easy to draw her in. One thing that you are missing in all of this is that women tend to be more interested in you the more other women are interested in you.ketostix said:Exactly, this is what typically happens to guys like potato. I'm amazed that some here actually think potato has any credibility. Potato's advice is a how to get in the friend's zone with women. Potato also is just like iqqi in defending all women in all situations. Potato is either a woman or a guy trolling, either way it's a troll.
How does potato's or iqqi's "advice" help anyone? Let's put aside the insulting sh!t iqqi just posted (and how she gets away with that I don't know) and their delivery, their advice is so basic and mainstream and been tried to death. It's basically ignore all the stuff women do, be all happy go-luck and friendly, expect nothing and then women will lead you to their bedrooms.
Good post Potato! Short, to the point, and accurate, IMO. I knew you had it in you to post something worth reading.potato said:This is the most intelligent thing that you’ve posted yet – almost. The idea is to be friendly and flirty with every woman that you meet regardless of any romantic/sexual interest or not. By being that way, by having an easy rapport with all women, when a woman comes along with which you do have a romantic/sexual interest, it’s quite easy to draw her in. One thing that you are missing in all of this is that women tend to be more interested in you the more other women are interested in you.
Wrong.potato said:This is the most intelligent thing that you’ve posted yet – almost.
And where do we ever recommend on here to not be friendly, playful and flirty with all women?The idea is to be friendly and flirty with every woman that you meet regardless of any romantic/sexual interest or not. By being that way, by having an easy rapport with all women, when a woman comes along with which you do have a romantic/sexual interest, it’s quite easy to draw her in.
Oh I misssed that, duh. This has been a common spiel of mine. I don't post all my knowledge and beliefs in every single post or thread you know. This is the principle of social proof, the power of jealousy and competition, etc. But you just word it differently basically, "The more women that like you, then the more other women will like you.". Captain obvious.One thing that you are missing in all of this is that women tend to be more interested in you the more other women are interested in you.
Your GF is an 82 huh? Why not rate her a 100 or a billion out of 10? you like to brag don't you. This paragraph sounds like something a woman would say, eg., "My man is the best and I just like being an AW". I believe you are either replacing the word GF with BF or you're a lesbian. Do you play the male role in that relationship, it's kind of hard to tell on here?The thing too, which I hope came through in the OP, is that I have a girlfriend, Lilly. On a scale of 1 to 10, I rate her about an 82. She is the perfect girl for me. So I have no need to get other women. Thus, all of my playing with other women is just fun and games.
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
LOL. I think potato's grammer is too good to be iqqi. I have maybe one or two people that I sort of suspect could be potato, but I'm really not too sure. I bet someone on here could crack the riddle of who potato really is though.scottfall said:Anyone think Iqqi is Potato? :O
This guy's name was Daryll.MikeYikes122 said:Didn't the OP describe himself as having "soft blue eyes" once? Even if he isn't a woman, I'm going to keep my distance from a guy who says things like that.
ketostix said:LOL. I think potato's grammer is too good to be iqqi. I have maybe one or two people that I sort of suspect could be potato, but I'm really not too sure. I bet someone on here could crack the riddle of who potato really is though.
Allen knows better, it would be a waste of money. There are always people posting controversial things here free of charge.persistent exaction said:what if the owner of a forum hired some guy or woman to occasionally post "controversial" stuff on forums so as to increase traffic. That would never happen. Not in a MILLION years.:crackup:
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What like iqqi ?Francisco d'Anconia said:There are always people posting controversial things here free of charge.
Now did I say that????ketostix said:What like iqqi ?
Maybe that is something that comes from maturity. When I meet a woman I don’t get all excited about their boobs or whatever, it’s always more how I see them as a person, their character. Maybe that sounds lame to you but I have been very successful with women. I only date/fool around with women who are thin and small breasted with pretty faces and expressive eyes. Still, I’ll flirt with just about anyone.Phyzzle said:Whoah, I just realized what that is.
In all of this guy’s posts, not once has he noticed the physical attributes of any woman.
Maybe my desires tend to be fulfilled so that I really don’t think about it all that much. One thing that I tried to emphasize in this thread as well as my last is that often the fun that I have with women has little to do with the potential sex I may or may not get in the end. Sure it has everything to do with sex appeal, but sometimes just flirting is fun enough. If I tried to hit on every woman, as some men seem to do, I would be as bitter and hateful towards women as some of the posters around here are.In fact, he doesn’t speak about his own wants or desires, at all. Every mention of desire is a about a woman getting lost in his deep blue eyes, or the feeling of stress leaving her body as she feels his strong lips pressing against hers. He doesn’t seem to have any feelings or wants or lusts of his own. He only knows how the women around him feel. Never himself.
Funny isn’t it? Here is a forum dedicated to helping men understand women, yet, when someone makes a post detailing how women react to a man that they are attracted to it is just useless information?Maybe he’s just extremely weird, and everything is true, but a worthless poster is a worthless poster, and we shouldn't mind pointing it out until the admin feels like banning him.
It is one thing to have a different opinion, but another to say that "learning about women is useless, so sites like this are useless, so Just Be Yourself, and hey look it got me a couple of non-committed 40 year old fck buddies"
potato said:Funny isn’t it? Here is a forum dedicated to helping men understand women, yet, when someone makes a post detailing how women react to a man that they are attracted to it is just useless information?
The bolded parts in the quote are the contradictory statements of the week.potato said:Maybe that is something that comes from maturity. When I meet a woman I don’t get all excited about their boobs or whatever, it’s always more how I see them as a person, their character. Maybe that sounds lame to you but I have been very successful with women. I only date/fool around with women who are thin and small breasted with pretty faces and expressive eyes. Still, I’ll flirt with just about anyone.
I like putting my arms around a woman and feeling her melt or looking into her eyes and having her just look back lost in the moment. We live in a hectic society that is always trying to pull us one way or another. Sometimes just sitting quietly with a woman with whom I feel a great deal about is what keeps me sane.