I understand the essence of what you are saying and the argument that you are making, but let's get real....
Man or woman, it's EASY to get laid IF you eliminate, reduce personal standards. Both you and I can find someone tonight to sleep with. Yes, you can too, you just don't want a gutter rat.
You guys perform your "acts" because you want to find someone that you feel suitable. You've had bad experiences in the past.. The tests everyone talks about on this website are a way of testing to determine suitability. You prefer to meet a female that meets a level of your standards and, most of you, would prefer she have genuine affection and affinity for you.
The female he is referring to is in the same position. She's not looking to hook up with a make gutter rat. Sge could get a man of she wanted, but she wants to get one that lives up to get standards She's had a poor experience with a man in her past and wants to test to make sure that doesn't happen again.
It's the same thing.
Trust me, it's NOT easier to find a quality man. Abundance is one thing, but abundance doesn't ensure quality.
There are an abundance of females out there that WILL hook up with you. We all know that. You just have standards
someone is in a bitchy mood
and not its not the same, if a woman now yell I want to have sex men will show up in places you not even know there was a dude there, and if she tells she will go with everyone they will start a line and wait they time if not you can bet some sort of competition will start
if a guy yell the same he will be lucky if 3 gays show up for him
you could put the whole but men can pay so, with still means its will be more costly to a men in any case
now lets get real here too you really can't take what her is saying by face value, she could be lieing just to not look like a loner or the "cat lady" or even she is thinking in something the other dude don't even know, plus lets get real here if a dude go for this hoops like she says its all about her ego, if she wanted him, she wouldn't risk losing him, she only want to have her play thing till something better shows up.
and serious if a woman tells me she lived years in a abusive marriage, chances are she was the abuser, and when he finally get tired of it, she pictures like him is the bad guy, with also can come with in the end of a relationship is always the other who is the bad guy, no one would say I was the bad guy.
