Wolfgang D said:
Yeah, that kind of chestbeating is common here. It is also common to be unable to read a post, and give a reply to something that wasn't said. Go back and read again. I didn't say he shouldn't date several women. I said there is no reason to tell her about it. No wonder she won't have sex with him.
I went back and read your post. My answer remains the same.
I didn't imply you said he shouldn't date multiple women, i simply defended his right to be frank about it, without any manipulation involved.
I wonder if there is a correlation between the fact that you' re so preoccupied about explaining
why she is reacting the way she does and what could her motives be and the fact that you endorse manipulation.
Granted, all is fair in love and war, and using a covert approach can sometimes work to a man's advantage, but it seems to me that the only reason one would hide information would be as to not lose the chance of access to aforementioned vagina.
After all, if she wants him that much she will be patient and she will put her best foot forward to win his affection. If not, then it is all about power and control and we all know how that goes.