woman in love with me. paying for my ticket to visit her overseas! what do i do!?

[LoneWolf]

so you guys might know from my first few threads on here about an older asian woman who lives in texas and she was mysterious and all... well not so much anymore. shes told me a lot of things and finally her age. she's 38 and has lived in america all her life so she's not really ASIAN ASIAN.. just by background. she's got a lot of money because she is telling me she's paying for my ticket to texas, then she wants to take me to new york, florida and other places. go to concerts, rent out a condo. this woman is nuts! but should i pass up on this opportunity!? hell no right? never been overseas before. known her for about half a year and i know shes never really had a boyfriend before and even kissed properly. shes a virgin too she tells me.. but whatever i dont care about all that. she seems decent, very kind and wealthy. not that im gold digger or anything.. now i think this woman is really love with me or something. says she always thinks about me and calls me all these pet names etc.

we talk on cam/mic every few days.. talking to her right now . shes really into this whole thing. talks about all the things we are gonna do together etc. keeps asking me everyday about my visa/passport progress cause i dont have one yet. but shes gonna pay for everything geez. i know asian women are loyal and good to their men. so i guess thats where its coming from. shes probably gonna be one of those attached people because shes been a virgin/single for a long time. what do you guys think about this?

 

[Alle_Gory]

I don't know, what do you think? What's your gut say.

Potential clinginess aside, is there another problem?

 

[irocknike23]

let her wine and dine you i say yes.

but just a warning: im no expert at all, however i do believe this can end ugly if your not tied down with her by the end of the trip. First of all your probably gona have to bang her everywhere you go to every place in every hotel room(she never had **** in her life and she is 38, i know 20 year old girls who get really hungry who been without it for 38 days lol) And then once she looses her virginity she will probably get mega super sprung over you and then put in the fact that she is 38 she will want a soulmate so if your going home at the end of this trip and not deciding to stay there with her there can be crying and screaming(from her) and maybe even punching..

thats my 2 cents....

 

[LoneWolf]

well i just finished talking to her. shes really serious about this me and you thing. she said this during our conversation.

her: Need to know whether you like the ordinary passport or the frequent traveller

me:
well i dont think id be frequent travelling anywhere after that

her: Why not?

her: If we get along...and like I said, we don't have to fall in love...just get along, we can still travel other places together..

 

[LoneWolf]

I don't know, what do you think? What's your gut say.

Potential clinginess aside, is there another problem?

not really. i actually dont mind a little clingyness. i like attention from a woman i like but not TOO much.

 

[hurrdurr]

two words.serial killler jk jk how does she look like?

 

[Blackmm]

Lets see.. $50k to get body organs on the black market or a few thousand dollars to have a donor flown over..

 

[irocknike23]

Lets see.. $50k to get body organs on the black market or a few thousand dollars to have a donor flown over..

lol dude he is not going to Russia he is coming to the US

 

[LoneWolf]

two words.serial killler jk jk how does she look like?

she looks fine. thin, cute. seen pics of her and when she goes out with friends, family. pics of her house she took for me. shes also sent me a package (she knows my address) and i was expecting a letter but she sent a package lol. that alone was $22 and inside was a towel, t shirt, dvd video, music cd and a playstation 3 hard drive. crazy ey? i know it sounds funny this whole situation but the whole time we've talked and gotten to know each other i feel inside me that she's not dangerous or anything. shes had my address for months and i haven't been assassinated yet. lol

 

[pinhas]

she looks fine. thin, cute. seen pics of her and when she goes out with friends, family. pics of her house she took for me. shes also sent me a package (she knows my address) and i was expecting a letter but she sent a package lol. that alone was $22 and inside was a towel, t shirt, dvd video, music cd and a playstation 3 hard drive. crazy ey? i know it sounds funny this whole situation but the whole time we've talked and gotten to know each other i feel inside me that she's not dangerous or anything. shes had my address for months and i haven't been assassinated yet. lol

Damn dude, she sent you a PS3? was it your birthday or something? I'd say go for it, but make sure you tell people where you are at all times, and use your own condom..

This whole ordeal sounds shady, but if you been talking for 6 months and she seems sane then go for it; it will be quite an adventure.

 

[LoneWolf]

Damn dude, she sent you a PS3? was it your birthday or something? I'd say go for it, but make sure you tell people where you are at all times, and use your own condom..

This whole ordeal sounds shady, but if you been talking for 6 months and she seems sane then go for it; it will be quite an adventure.

ps3 hard drive (120gb) - actually no, she's doing this whole trip thing FOR my birthday in july. she does sound very sane to me when we talk. very grown up and mature.

 

[Alle_Gory]

actually no, she's doing this whole trip thing FOR my birthday in july. she does sound very sane to me when we talk. very grown up and mature.

What do you think she wants in return from you? Why do you think she's doing this for you of all people, why not someone else?

BTW there's no such thing as a PS3 hard drive. It's just a regular slim hard drive that you find everywhere especially laptops.

 

[LoneWolf]

What do you think she wants in return from you? Why do you think she's doing this for you of all people, why not someone else?

BTW there's no such thing as a PS3 hard drive. It's just a regular slim hard drive that you find everywhere especially laptops.

i know that. i just said ps3 hard drive to not confuse people. it was for the ps3.

anyway, she doesn't want anything in return.. she just really really likes me and well, i am like 12 years younger so she's probably thinking "BONUS!" - i really don't know man. i guess she just has this idea in her mind that me and her are going to be together. maybe she hasn't clicked with a guy for a long time like she has with me. i don't know yet because i still like this other girl i'm kind of seeing. but i will go regardless of anything.. should be fun and well, free!

 

[The_411]

Doesn't pass the smell test, but to learn you gotta live. You should be leery of this situation.

Why would she have started with you. (meaning are you sure she's not done this with other guys?)

Women normally have their pick especially if they not ugly. She has money. Seems like she should have lots of guys banging down her door.

 

[LoneWolf]

Doesn't pass the smell test, but to learn you gotta live. You should be leery of this situation.

Why would she have started with you. (meaning are you sure she's not done this with other guys?)

Women normally have their pick especially if they not ugly. She has money. Seems like she should have lots of guys banging down her door.

i really don't know man. i wouldn't say she's your average kind of woman. maybe she just doesn't attract guys much because she's asian, skinny, probably small tits and maybe she just didn't meet anyone until she started talking to me. she's not the type you go to your friends WOAH MAN CHECK HER OUT. shes cute but quiet about it. dresses plain and looks normal. doesn't stand out. plus she works a lot. 12 hours mostly.

she's been doing things she never done after meeting me. got herself a facebook account, messenger, plays ps3 often with me. she was very mysterious at the beginning.. never told me much about herself. her name, age, that sort of stuff. very private. but since then she's told me quite a lot about herself. i'm sure there's many women out there who are still single and a virgin at that age (mostly asian women tend to be this way). i just don't know until i meet her. it's a risk but worth it i guess. once in a lifetime opportunity here.

 

[The_411]

Not a problem. I'm just saying you should keep your guard up. There's something that seems off here.

 

[irocknike23]

all i gota say is you got 2 great tips from someone else in this forum
1)Tell your friends and family where your at at all times
2)Use YOUR own condom or buy your own dont let her give you one(probably been poked with a needle about 100 times)

and wow dude a PS3?

Im not picky or anything but can you put up or PM me a pic of her. I wana know what she looks like and why she couldnt attract a guy for over half her life(most guys are crazy for asian girls regardless of the no ass or tits)

 

[TheMale]

Not a problem. I'm just saying you should keep your guard up. There's something that seems off here.

+1
i agree with him

 

[DJDamage]

Yeah there is something fishy going on here.

Do you have enough money to stay there on your own and come back in case she decides to desert you?!

 

[Alle_Gory]

and wow dude a PS3?

He said hard drive. It's worth around $20 but it's the thought that counts.

i guess she just has this idea in her mind that me and her are going to be together.

And you don't feel the same way. What do you think is the fallout when she realizes this? And that she spent all that money to bring you to America?

How much money does this lady make? Is the cost of your trip a drop in the bucket or is it a more significant expense for her?