Wiping out the competition

bigstik

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The Sperminator said:
Actually what Bigstik is doing is very effective from my experience. Especially if they get a lot of attention from guys. I think you might be over doing it though. It's either going to pay off for you in full or going to bite you in the ass.

Yeah, its one of my Higher Level forms of seduction, not alot of guys can pull it off, but she set it up perfectly...

I do think I blew it, THIS TIME, but hey. I am just getting back in the game!

My plan now is just to hope I run into her again soon, and see what happens. I got the perfect c+f for that hot @ss..
 

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Update

So things have happened. God this chick has game, and here I am newly back in the field.

So I sent out a mass invite to a house party I was throwing, and decided why not include her? She showed up, we hung out for about a half hour alone just making small talk, she seemed kind of distant and uncomfortable (even though she went out of her way to come). She made a comment about me not calling her back before, and seemed upset. She was kind of clumsy, ran into someone and everything. Then BOOM, leaves. I erased her contact info to keep from calling her again thinking she's just not as interested, thought about it later, and realized from the fact she came and her clumsiness was probaly a sign of nervousness, because she does in fact dig me. But oh well.

A week later I see her again at a bar, and she is wasted. She says she lost her phone and I give her my number again, but can't help but wonder if she "lost" my # the same way I "lost" hers... She makes the biggest fool out of herself. I was there on a "date", and she pretended that chick wasn't even there as she proceeded to tell me that I was the uncomfortable one(age), avoiding her, ect. She mentioned that she met my recent ex, and they hung out even, which totally pissed me off. and at one point she even tripped over a chair while talking to me, and fell on her ass in front of everyone. (I totally let her). This went on for an hour atleast, with her continuously coming back to me and the girl I was with. She had to be humiliated the next morning.

I texted her a day or two later with some c+f to keep it ok, i know now she is pretty sensitive and that she had to be embarrassed. We c+f a little, and it is short and sweet.

I saw her this past Thursday at the bar we always run into each other at, and she was not drinking at all, looked fantastic, and I got the feeling that she was doing it on purpose to make up for the previous "impression." She came over to my table, sat with me. She mentioned hanging out with my ex again (knowing that upsets me). She totally one upped me on all the C+F, then left me in mid conversation, and spent the rest of the night chatting up some bald guy (albeit no competition). I mistakenly texted her that night at 3am with a silly message that let her know I was unhappy with her disappearing act (I was drunk at the time and saw no harm in it of course). She immediately responded with a cute smooch and wink.

And that is where I am at now.

I feel like she is running circles around me! I am the goddamned cat, and she is the one with the string!
 

Phyzzle

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Okay.

So have you tried asking this girl out yet?
 

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Weak...

Your grand scheme hasn't played-out like you arrogantly though it would; you blew it. Move on. Why keep posting about it at this point? Unless she's the one who hooked you... Poetic justice if that's the case.
 

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CF9 said:
Weak...

Your grand scheme hasn't played-out like you arrogantly though it would; you blew it. .
Did you miss that part where she was all over me despite the fact that I was with another girl last week? She was on me worse than white on rice, ALL NIGHT. She was drunk and once the normal witty hotbabe girl I know she is was no longer in control due to the excessive drinking, it was a OVER for her game.

She was not concerned with one other soul in the building but MWA, (ME, dumbass), and all she could talk about was why I wasn't interested in her (or so she THINKS). And why I should be.

I mean for god sakes, when is the last time you had a totally hot chick with the intelligence to boot, literally FALLING over you. She literally fell down. And got back up, and continued to keep trying to convince me.

Why did I not jump on it at that point?

1. She was wasted. I want her sober and sincere when she talks to me about really seeing me.

2. She hasn't called or texted me (initiated contact) since the very first time. Since then, I have initiated contact like 4 times via el telefono!

I need more VALIDATION of her SINCERITY.
 

strong like bull

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bigstik, please dont take this in a bad way. this is not personal and ment to be insight, not insult.

ive spent a lot of time in bars and restaurants and clubs. not even just for fun, i mean literally its been my career since i was in my teens. ive seen it all and have a knack for knowing the plays and what actions translate to what.

it is my professional opinion that this girl may be hot, may be intelligent, may be witsy, but she is out having her fun. she is going through her wild times. she is down to fvck. she wants to be fvcked by you. it is very probable that she is being fvcked by other guys right now. if you are looking for fresh, exciting, carefree fun with a hot babe, stick it to her. get together, dance, get drunk, go back to your place, smoke a joint, and fvck her like the shed gotten fvcked by the trojan army.

if you are looking for something HONEST, EXCLUSIVE, LOYAL... proceed with caution. as said earlier, KEEP THAT ARMOR ON! with her current lifestyle and behavior patterns, you may not be able to trust her as far as you could throw her!

and last but not least, read the quotes of xxblitz44xx in my sig. gems of wisdom.

-SLB
 
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It sounds like she likes you, but if she isn't calling you it is either because she is just an attention freak, or she is too shy in real life. I don't know werid situation!
 
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