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Master Don Juan
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Re: Opinion please!
Long answer: NO! NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you still have an AFC mindset, you will do one of two things: 1) blow this completely and come off AFC AGAIN, or 2) even worse, get back into a relationship of carrying luggage, grooming dogs, and NO SEX....just "caring."
If it's convenient for you, drop 'em, at her place OR her father's. If not, tell her to come pick them up.Originally posted by kinjo
Guys,
It has been more than a week since I last contacted her.
I need your opinion please, I'm not really sure what to do about these.
1. A few weeks ago (we broke up already, and me being an AFC) she has these 3 big luggage her of big brother and asked me to drop it off in her fathers place. ( which is in the other city where my family house is and visit often) I said I will deliver them, out of trying to please her at that time. Thinking about it, I feel now that she is using me to get rid of those luggages and she doesnt even thank me for the favor. I'm a bit pissed now. I still have the luggage in my trunk. However, I did say yes to drop it, but have no plans yet to go home and drop the luggage. Should I just fulfill my promise later and deliver it in my free time, or just return the whole luggage (which will fill up her tiny flat) and provide some acceptable excuse?
Groom the dog yourself. 1/5 hers? Why does this sound suspiciously like, "She suckered me into paying for most of her dog"?
2. I have a puppy Shih Tzu dog, where she owns 1/5 of it... LMAO
The dog is due for grooming with her a few days ago as she promised, but neither of us initated contact whatsoever. I dont give a damn, I can do it all by myself. Should I pay out the 1/5 to have the dog all by myself, cut her off even more of my life (this will really piss her off, she loves the dog!), or do nothing about it? And why?
Short answer: No
3. Is it a good idea to accidently bump into her, but act with a DJ mindset to challenge her? Still have AFC mindset here, but I can do it.
Long answer: NO! NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you still have an AFC mindset, you will do one of two things: 1) blow this completely and come off AFC AGAIN, or 2) even worse, get back into a relationship of carrying luggage, grooming dogs, and NO SEX....just "caring."
Nothing. Why bother? This is a waste of energy, not to mention a spiteful jab. The fact that you found time to dig up this utter crap, let alone consider sending it to her, does nothing but make you look bad. Move on already!!
4. I read a thread here about chatolic chicks, quote it add some spices to it and ready to sent it to her. Here it is:
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"Virginity is not loss by getting that little skin in the vagina teared, why not , virginity is lost when you , give yourself to a man in any way and you discover a side of sex. A virgin is a virgin at mind as well. The catholic religion does not say you need to save that little skin before you get married , it says you should marry being a virgin. Any woman who has had sexual participation with another man is not a virgin. She already belong to that man, and she is a ***** when she gives it to another. There goes the saying "All women are *****es"
Sorry... If I'm not the only man for you, then I definitely deserve better...
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If I send this, what it will do?
Do NOTHING. Get a clean break before her birthday. TELL her in no uncertain terms that it's over, then DON'T contact her again.
5. Her Birthday's coming in a few week. I have 2 thingd I thought I can do in mind: send her SMS Happy B'day. or, Do nothing. Which is the best?