Why You're Failing with Women

[fuzzball]

23.) Don't be afraid of yourself/your shadow.I admit i am guilty of this and have done this in the past quite a bit. scared to admit i like video games, am good with the computer, and do weird things(like sync avril lavigne songs to the movie end of evangelion(an anime yes more nerd culture!!) and laugh hysterically because it works repeatedly without fail by picking random songs in fact its my xmas tradition now). by not admitting my hobbies and things i do i become scared of my own shadow it seems like. while video gaming for 12 hours a day shouldn't be brag worthy but admitting you do it on your free time shouldn't be shame worthy. the point don't be afraid of your hobbies no matter how weird they are. and if 12 hours of gaming is what you are doing for fvck's sake find other stuff to do cut it down to 5 hours. READ or go on a walk. if you are a nerd stop being scared of your own shadow announce that sh!t proudly. just add some active stuff your life...the working out, walking, something other than the TV or comics/manga.

 

[SoSuave666]

moving to tips...bump

 

[bluenorther]

22): Your life revolves around women.
Cripes, all my clients are women!

 

[TheWingMan]

Woah, that hit hard! Good post man and I'll be the first to admit that I'm guilty of some of those points.

 

[SoSuave666]

Since Fuzzball added a number to his, I will work off his last addition.

24.) You over-analyze. Every single text, email, conversation and interaction is dissected with the detail only required of NSA Agents. This generally happens when you feel the relationship is coming to a close and the woman is pulling away. Instead of accepting the inevitable you have brought logic into the illogical; sense to the nonsensical. If it's the beginning of the relationship and you feel as though you are analysing too much, remember that you are overthinking the best part of the relationship. In the honeymoon stage it's hard to fvck things up...so STOP THINKING ABOUT IT. Have fun while there is fun to be had. Save the analytics for your desk job.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

24.) You over-analyze. Every single text, email, conversation and interaction is dissected with the detail only required of NSA Agents. This generally happens when you feel the relationship is coming to a close and the woman is pulling away. Instead of accepting the inevitable you have brought logic into the illogical; sense to the nonsensical. If it's the beginning of the relationship and you feel as though you are analysing too much, remember that you are overthinking the best part of the relationship. In the honeymoon stage it's hard to fvck things up...so STOP THINKING ABOUT IT. Have fun while there is fun to be had. Save the analytics for your desk job.

This is so true. It's nice when it just flows, but sometimes we get to the point in a relationship where it simply doesn't flow. The worst thing is to force a text or a phone call that's not natural, only to regret the message you sent.

I'm an advocate of not taking advice from women BUT I heard some great advice from a woman once. "Don't force a text. If you don't know what to say, don't say it. Wait until you're grounded, relaxed, then the ideas will flow." I ad libbed a little since I can't exactly quote what she said, but that was her general message. If you're analyzing everything she says as well as what you say, then you need to take a step back....and breathe.

This advice has led me well.

 

[fuzzball]

Since Fuzzball added a number to his, I will work off his last addition.

24.) You over-analyze. Every single text, email, conversation and interaction is dissected with the detail only required of NSA Agents. This generally happens when you feel the relationship is coming to a close and the woman is pulling away. Instead of accepting the inevitable you have brought logic into the illogical; sense to the nonsensical. If it's the beginning of the relationship and you feel as though you are analysing too much, remember that you are overthinking the best part of the relationship. In the honeymoon stage it's hard to fvck things up...so STOP THINKING ABOUT IT. Have fun while there is fun to be had. Save the analytics for your desk job.

have to agree 100000000% and not just with women but life in general. stop the over-analyzing BS....let the damn females participate in that kind of drama really. over-analyze when necessary(like at work or anyone telling you feminism or Obamacare are good ideas) but not social interactions as there truly is no end to that rabbit hole.

honestly i would add a 25-27. this probably could be higher on the list but ah well.

25: GET YOUR LIFE IN ORDER.

what I mean dumbass that is known as fuzzball, do things now and dont procrastinate. get the important things done. have a schedule a rhythm to how you operate. bedtime is between X and Y. put some order into your diet(cut out the fast food make sure there are fruits,veggies,and protein). set aside allotted time for working out, reading, and relaxing. dont let your day be controlled an emotional whim of "what do i feel like doing today"....NO DAMNIT decide what you want to do today yesterday and do it. of course dont be an a-hole about it as sometimes life truly does come up and get in the way(emergencies, a little spontaneous fun, being human aka forgetting something that is due or important, etc) but dont let such excuses ruin the overall concept of an ordered lifestyle. furthermore cut out the things that lead to disorder.

26. Listen to the body:

while doing everything here is good it is important to ya know listen to the body. know its limits. know when a break is needed. a prime recent example is I am really doing a lot better with working out and wednesday I was just tired but went at it anyway however I didnt finish because I was just too exhausted and out of breathe....turns out I suddenly got sick and had a fever...so LISTEN TO THE BODY as it has limits. just as the body has been telling me for years you are killing me with your couch potato chronic masturbating lifestyle the same body will also tell me hey Im sick I cant do your self-improvement routine right now, Im worn out and not used to this, Im sick and need a few days off.

27. Listen to the mind:

I cant be the only one on here that has rotted his brain with smut horror movies of that worst kinds, porn of the worst kinds, and all kinds of junk(like internet forums and commenting and facebook). really toxic stuff to the mind. Im sure these things have hurt my brains ability to function properly. so the next time you get that feeling or that RED LIGHT STOP DECEASE NOTICE from the old brain....listen....it just cant take another bottom of the barrel pointless mindrotting smut horror movie. it also cant take 5-10 hours online message boards a day anymore. it cant take reading cracked.com for hours on end anymore or videogames for hours on end....the brain is sick and wants to heal with the body too....so for the love of all things feed it good stimulation for a change and cut back on the porn, the crap TV, the crap internet use, etc...LISTEN TO THE BRAIN FOR IF ITS NOT HEALTHY....what does it matter if the body is???

 

[joshinali]

This stuff really need to posted everywhere, nice one

 

[narcissist]

Fvcking refreshing post

 

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[SoSuave666]

have to agree 100000000% and not just with women but life in general. stop the over-analyzing BS....let the damn females participate in that kind of drama really. over-analyze when necessary(like at work or anyone telling you feminism or Obamacare are good ideas) but not social interactions as there truly is no end to that rabbit hole.

honestly i would add a 25-27. this probably could be higher on the list but ah well.

25: GET YOUR LIFE IN ORDER.

what I mean dumbass that is known as fuzzball, do things now and dont procrastinate. get the important things done. have a schedule a rhythm to how you operate. bedtime is between X and Y. put some order into your diet(cut out the fast food make sure there are fruits,veggies,and protein). set aside allotted time for working out, reading, and relaxing. dont let your day be controlled an emotional whim of "what do i feel like doing today"....NO DAMNIT decide what you want to do today yesterday and do it. of course dont be an a-hole about it as sometimes life truly does come up and get in the way(emergencies, a little spontaneous fun, being human aka forgetting something that is due or important, etc) but dont let such excuses ruin the overall concept of an ordered lifestyle. furthermore cut out the things that lead to disorder.

26. Listen to the body:

while doing everything here is good it is important to ya know listen to the body. know its limits. know when a break is needed. a prime recent example is I am really doing a lot better with working out and wednesday I was just tired but went at it anyway however I didnt finish because I was just too exhausted and out of breathe....turns out I suddenly got sick and had a fever...so LISTEN TO THE BODY as it has limits. just as the body has been telling me for years you are killing me with your couch potato chronic masturbating lifestyle the same body will also tell me hey Im sick I cant do your self-improvement routine right now, Im worn out and not used to this, Im sick and need a few days off.

27. Listen to the mind:

I cant be the only one on here that has rotted his brain with smut horror movies of that worst kinds, porn of the worst kinds, and all kinds of junk(like internet forums and commenting and facebook). really toxic stuff to the mind. Im sure these things have hurt my brains ability to function properly. so the next time you get that feeling or that RED LIGHT STOP DECEASE NOTICE from the old brain....listen....it just cant take another bottom of the barrel pointless mindrotting smut horror movie. it also cant take 5-10 hours online message boards a day anymore. it cant take reading cracked.com for hours on end anymore or videogames for hours on end....the brain is sick and wants to heal with the body too....so for the love of all things feed it good stimulation for a change and cut back on the porn, the crap TV, the crap internet use, etc...LISTEN TO THE BRAIN FOR IF ITS NOT HEALTHY....what does it matter if the body is???

Nice additions. Bump in case anyone has any others.

 

[SoSuave666]

Bumping once more. Good luck folks

 

[touma.akagi]

Men who change for WOMEN are faggots.

It's fine for women to be the initial wake-up call for you to change, but if it stays the sole motive of your lifestyle change, you're still trapped in the past and still don't get it.