Why women rule relationships and men are stupid

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It needs to be said before we enter 2015. Sorry its so long. The entire concept of "game" outside of casual sex is total bullsh!t. The PUA book writers are making loads of money telling men they have power in situations where they really don't. Here is the truth...in a LTR women always have more power, no matter what.

Reasons why women rule relationships and men are stupid:

Reason #1: Men think they need relationships

This is the main reason why men are stupid.. they actually believe they need to be in committed relationships with women. What the hell for? Seriously. Why does a man need to commit to a woman? How does such a commitment benefit him?

Back when society was harsh to women who were not loyal.. these arrangements benefited men. But that time passed ages ago.. and now women statistically lie and cheat more than men.

Reason #2: Men make none of the rules

As far as LTR go.. men really don't make any rules. When is the last time you saw a married couple where the man had a list of rules the woman had to follow? Why are their few if any men who can demand sex from his partner whenever he wants it without any resistance?

Women decide that a "relationship" is and what the roles in a relationship should be.. then men mold themselves to fit into what the woman wants so he can f*ck her regularly.

Proof is right here on this site where men are constantly coming up with strategies to allow themselves to get the reaction they want from a woman. Why? Because they have no power to TELL or DEMAND a woman do what they want her to. So there you go.

Reason #3: Men take all of the blame

When a relationship fails. Its the man's fault.
When a woman is mad. Its the man's fault.
When a man is mad. Its his fault.
When sex is bad. Its the man's fault.
When a man gets abused. Its his fault.
When a woman get abused. Its the man's fault.
Woman cheats. Its the man's fault.
Man cheats. Its the man's fault.

If woman make all the rules.. yet they can blame men whenever they decide to break them for being "bad partners" then who is the sucker?

Reason #4: Women are pragmatic in relationships.. men are not.

What does this mean? It means women seek out men whom they can drain resources from or derive other benefits. Men seek out women who give them wood.

This doesn't harm men until they become obsessed with one woman. That obsession leads the man down a path where he is willing to give more than he gets. Society has tricked men into believing the obsessive approach should be the standard (see reason #1). The obsessive approach gives a woman more time to drain a man's resources without giving much back via commitment.

Reason #5: Marriage

(See #1 and #4)

Reason #6: Male value and d!ck measuring contests

The price your average beta is willing to pay in order to have a woman on his arm is proof of his stupidity and inferiority. Getting into physical fights with other men, blowing all his money, following gender roles he doesn't benefit from, etc.

Today's beta male allows women to define what a "real man" is (see #2) and of course.. women will always define a real man based on what most benefits her.

It has reached the point where a man who is not "getting women" is laughed at and shamed by not only women.. but other men (called an AFC). This is because women have convinced men that they have no purpose on earth outside of serving and pleasing women.

Reason #7: Men fear being called Misogynists

Men who hate women won't serve women. We can't have that in society. So its important to make the very idea of hating women as disgusting and low as possible. This way even if a man does hate women.. he will be reluctant to reveal it.. thus leading him to continue in his service to women (even if its minimal) and greatly decrease his likeliness to spread the virus to other men. Once a man is accused of hating women, everything he says bares no relevance and can be ignored.

Not only do women use this word to discredit or shut men up.. but men use it as well to shame other men and make them fall in line. Even men on this site do it.

EXAMPLES of what makes a man a "loser:"

*Man doesn't fight for woman's honor = Loser (See #2 and #4)
*Man is not financially successful = Loser (See #2 and #4)
*Man physically assaults woman (this contradicts the first one) = Loser (See #2, #4 and #7)
*Man is afraid of commitment = Loser (See #2, #3 and #4)
*Man is bad in bed = Loser (See #2, #3 and #4)


These are just some things I believe the men of SoSuave need to think deeply about for 2015.. if they haven't already. Happy Holidays.
 

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It's investment problem.Society and women make it so difficult for average man to get decent woman, he spends to much time,money,resources and emotions to get it that it will guard it at any cost.

Women feel it like shark feeling blood and abuse, I don't blame them.
These men have no choice - they will submit or stay alone with **** in his hand, I don't blame them either.

Becoming DJ is so difficult and intensive they will rather submit to woman than gain power themselves.

It's not only about sex.Man needs woman to be "validated" by society and he needs somebody to not feel lonely.Being alone is one of the most and challenging things in life, you need balls of steel to handle it.99% men can't handle being alone they will get depressed or suicidal.

I would claim many men are in LTR and stay at any price - out of fear Women will feel you fear like sharks feel blood. That's why you need to be fearless
and ready to walk away any moment no matter the cost.
 

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JohnyTheArrow said:
That's why you need to be fearless
and ready to walk away any moment no matter the cost.
This. F*ck "commitment" if either party abuses it - you commit to get MORE, BETTER sex and a MORE pleasant girl - if you're not getting that but you're giving her your commitment then what's the point? The moment your girlfriend starts acting up with her bullsh!t you can either go out and find new women to f*ck because you're alpha and women want you or you can mold yourself to her commands and be her beta boy that she rams her strap-on into every day. If a woman is too stupid to understand the concept that men only want to commit if it benefits their lives then LEAVE HER and keep your dignity as a man intact instead of spending your life with someone who doesn't want to f*ck you anyway.
 

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AttackFormation said:
This. F*ck "commitment" if either party abuses it - you commit to get MORE, BETTER sex and a MORE pleasant girl - if you're not getting that but you're giving her your commitment then what's the point? The moment your girlfriend starts acting up with her bullsh!t you can either go out and find new women to f*ck because you're alpha and women want you or you can mold yourself to her commands and be her beta boy that she rams her strap-on into every day. If a woman is too stupid to understand the concept that men only want to commit if it benefits their lives then LEAVE HER and keep your dignity as a man intact instead of spending your life with someone who doesn't want to f*ck you anyway.
This is how every man should think. But most betas have no pride and no dignity. Sex with a slightly above average woman is the be-all end-all for many of them. Which is why women treat them like dirt and they spend their days working as a woman's personal assistant.. until she finds a better one.

The contrast between alpha and beta mindsets is dramatic. Alpha's value freedom, dignity and power above all things. Betas value social image, sex and "fitting in" above all things.

All betas have low self-esteem and a strong need for outside validation. Without social approval and/or a woman on their arm.. they freak out and do dramatic self-destructive things to acquire this validation such as: taking stupid financial, physical and legal risks.. humiliating themselves, tolerating any abuse from women, risking their lives, etc.
 

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Poon King said:
This is how every man should think. But most betas have no pride and no dignity. Sex with a slightly above average woman is the be-all end-all for many of them. Which is why women treat them like dirt and they spend their days working as a woman's personal assistant.. until she finds a better one.

The contrast between alpha and beta mindsets is dramatic. Alpha's value freedom, dignity and power above all things. Betas value social image, sex and "fitting in" above all things.

All betas have low self-esteem and a strong need for outside validation. Without social approval and/or a woman on their arm.. they freak out and do dramatic self-destructive things to acquire this validation such as: taking stupid financial, physical and legal risks.. humiliating themselves, tolerating any abuse from women, risking their lives, etc.

Because S.E.X. becomed sense of life, God,drug and everything.

It's the most seek out resource on earth besides heroine.Men are lured into sex with porn it promises them epic sex with beautiful women.

So I don't blame women, I blame men, they can't keep poker face.These pussies will become someone's carpet for ass.They will make money for you,do stuff for you even rise other's man children and there is no shortage of such men.If you would be a woman .... wouldnt like you to have slave who would obey you and work for yoy ? I wish I would have such one.

Junkies are created every day by media - you read countless articles about SEXY actress ... SEXY photo SEXY THAT SEXY THAT .... thirst is created by spamming with countless images of beautiful, slim and sexy girls making it like .... look ... everybody can have such girl.This is how you create THIRST.

Imagine all this porn movies and websites with fat or average girls .... who would give **** about it ?
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Having a large pool of women to date from constantly changes the stakes. Having a lot of potential partners changes that scarcity mentality. The problem is that guys get into a
LTR thinking they can just switch off and be lazy. They basically go on autopilot and relinquish control. This then brings in all the $hitty behaviour. Guy then tries to fix the wrong problems and appease his partner which in turn makes it worse.
It is guys fault because they go into ltrs weak and halfassed with that one girl being their only option. The girl isn't even screened for redflags and the developing ltr is based all off emotion.
Anything in life worth having needs work beforehand to get to the goal.

As for wether men need ltrs, well I enjoy them in small doses. After 3 months I generally get bored and eject.
 

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Poon King said:
It needs to be said before we enter 2015. Sorry its so long. The entire concept of "game" outside of casual sex is total bullsh!t. The PUA book writers are making loads of money telling men they have power in situations where they really don't. Here is the truth...in a LTR women always have more power, no matter what.

Reasons why women rule relationships and men are stupid:

Reason #1: Men think they need relationships

This is the main reason why men are stupid.. they actually believe they need to be in committed relationships with women. What the hell for? Seriously. Why does a man need to commit to a woman? How does such a commitment benefit him?

Back when society was harsh to women who were not loyal.. these arrangements benefited men. But that time passed ages ago.. and now women statistically lie and cheat more than men.

Reason #2: Men make none of the rules

As far as LTR go.. men really don't make any rules. When is the last time you saw a married couple where the man had a list of rules the woman had to follow? Why are their few if any men who can demand sex from his partner whenever he wants it without any resistance?

Women decide that a "relationship" is and what the roles in a relationship should be.. then men mold themselves to fit into what the woman wants so he can f*ck her regularly.

Proof is right here on this site where men are constantly coming up with strategies to allow themselves to get the reaction they want from a woman. Why? Because they have no power to TELL or DEMAND a woman do what they want her to. So there you go.

Reason #3: Men take all of the blame

When a relationship fails. Its the man's fault.
When a woman is mad. Its the man's fault.
When a man is mad. Its his fault.
When sex is bad. Its the man's fault.
When a man gets abused. Its his fault.
When a woman get abused. Its the man's fault.
Woman cheats. Its the man's fault.
Man cheats. Its the man's fault.

If woman make all the rules.. yet they can blame men whenever they decide to break them for being "bad partners" then who is the sucker?

Reason #4: Women are pragmatic in relationships.. men are not.

What does this mean? It means women seek out men whom they can drain resources from or derive other benefits. Men seek out women who give them wood.

This doesn't harm men until they become obsessed with one woman. That obsession leads the man down a path where he is willing to give more than he gets. Society has tricked men into believing the obsessive approach should be the standard (see reason #1). The obsessive approach gives a woman more time to drain a man's resources without giving much back via commitment.

Reason #5: Marriage

(See #1 and #4)

Reason #6: Male value and d!ck measuring contests

The price your average beta is willing to pay in order to have a woman on his arm is proof of his stupidity and inferiority. Getting into physical fights with other men, blowing all his money, following gender roles he doesn't benefit from, etc.

Today's beta male allows women to define what a "real man" is (see #2) and of course.. women will always define a real man based on what most benefits her.

It has reached the point where a man who is not "getting women" is laughed at and shamed by not only women.. but other men (called an AFC). This is because women have convinced men that they have no purpose on earth outside of serving and pleasing women.

Reason #7: Men fear being called Misogynists

Men who hate women won't serve women. We can't have that in society. So its important to make the very idea of hating women as disgusting and low as possible. This way even if a man does hate women.. he will be reluctant to reveal it.. thus leading him to continue in his service to women (even if its minimal) and greatly decrease his likeliness to spread the virus to other men. Once a man is accused of hating women, everything he says bares no relevance and can be ignored.

Not only do women use this word to discredit or shut men up.. but men use it as well to shame other men and make them fall in line. Even men on this site do it.

EXAMPLES of what makes a man a "loser:"

*Man doesn't fight for woman's honor = Loser (See #2 and #4)
*Man is not financially successful = Loser (See #2 and #4)
*Man physically assaults woman (this contradicts the first one) = Loser (See #2, #4 and #7)
*Man is afraid of commitment = Loser (See #2, #3 and #4)
*Man is bad in bed = Loser (See #2, #3 and #4)


These are just some things I believe the men of SoSuave need to think deeply about for 2015.. if they haven't already. Happy Holidays.

None of this applies if you are alpha.
 

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playher_man is postin more of his b.s. with not knowin wut he's talkin about. jus cuz u r in a relationship does not make u a beta with a woman runnin the show. ya see playher_man is a beta that cant be in a relationship cuz he doesnt know how he calls me betas who r in healthy relationships. seriously no alpha has a woman kickin his ass. u r a beta hatin on relationships an men who r in them cuz u cant be in one. mental masturbation cumin from a beta who hates the idea of a comittment like a normal healthy man. dont listen to this sh1t.
 

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it's because of desperation and because society and media had made the price of pvssy higher a million time than the price of men's d!ck! it's not rocket science. Only good looking guys and guys with real game (muscular/masculine/badass mutherfvcker who makes the girl's experience looks like a summertime adventure) experience what a hot girl's life like.

Improve your life fellas.
 

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In theory the O.P. Is right but its not reality.

You are judged on your image, if you have a woman on your arm or are married, it goes a long way to your image than what goes on behind closed doors. You can't wear a sign outside on your neck saying "Im single, but alpha." It doesn't work that way.

Women are needed to go out with, to watch plays with, to enjoy life with. As long as you not constantly taking hits from her, which if you are shouldn't have got married in the first place, you have to sacrifice some put downs, cash, self respect to have a woman on your arm.

No one cares whats going on behind closed doors, they want to see whats going on outside.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Trump said:
In theory the O.P. Is right but its not reality.

You are judged on your image, if you have a woman on your arm or are married, it goes a long way to your image than what goes on behind closed doors. You can't wear a sign outside on your neck saying "Im single, but alpha." It doesn't work that way.

Women are needed to go out with, to watch plays with, to enjoy life with. As long as you not constantly taking hits from her, which if you are shouldn't have got married in the first place, you have to sacrifice some put downs, cash, self respect to have a woman on your arm.

No one cares whats going on behind closed doors, they want to see whats going on outside.
See #1 and #6.
 

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I agree with the premise of this thread to a certain extent. Recently, I've been pondering about relationships and their purpose. I asked myself what, really, is the benefit to one? The original reasons I came up with were being able to kiss and have sex, but then I had to throw those reasons out the window because, well, you can go do both without being in a relationship. So, then I thought, "well, there's support". But family and friendship can take care of that. You don't need to be in a relationship for that one either. This isn't to say I'm against relationships, I've just as of yet found a logical reason for one. I guess there's always the excuse of it being better to raise children. That one I don't find fault with.
 

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Eph said:
I agree with the premise of this thread to a certain extent. Recently, I've been pondering about relationships and their purpose. I asked myself what, really, is the benefit to one? The original reasons I came up with were being able to kiss and have sex, but then I had to throw those reasons out the window because, well, you can go do both without being in a relationship. So, then I thought, "well, there's support". But family and friendship can take care of that. You don't need to be in a relationship for that one either. This isn't to say I'm against relationships, I've just as of yet found a logical reason for one. I guess there's always the excuse of it being better to raise children. That one I don't find fault with.
I've been in a relationshp that was very very rewarding and I was incredibly happy at the time. But what are the chances of it happening these days? Both men and women just want to hook up and move on to the next one.

The main problem here is that men are desperate for sex. Once you can get into a mindset where you don't need it, you're much better off. Learning game is a failed strategy because if you get a little bit of puss you'll want more and more eventually leading you to a state of loneliness.
 

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skinnyguy said:
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The main problem here is that men are desperate for sex. .
^^THIS^^ is spot on.

The key is for a man to either

1) be able to NEXT a woman and move on to another one to satisfy him sexually

or

2) get his needs met in other ways like porn

or

3) stop needing sex


Just imagine if every man in the world was content with #2 or #3. Where would that put women if men no longer needed them for sex? Back as second class citizens where they belong, that' where.
 

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Poon King said:
Here is the truth...in a LTR women always have more power, no matter what
No, true alpha men always have the power in relationships.

Poon King said:
Man cheats. Its the man's fault.
It is the man's fault for cheating.

Poon King said:
This is the main reason why men are stupid.. they actually believe they need to be in committed relationships with women. What the hell for? Seriously. Why does a man need to commit to a woman? How does such a commitment benefit him?
Men invested into relationships and marriages for thousands of years.

Poon King said:
As far as LTR go.. men really don't make any rules.
Sounds like you have never been in an LTR.

Poon King said:
The price your average beta is willing to pay in order to have a woman on his arm is proof of his stupidity and inferiority. Getting into physical fights with other men, blowing all his money, following gender roles he doesn't benefit from, etc.

Today's beta male allows women to define what a "real man" is (see #2) and of course.. women will always define a real man based on what most benefits her.
Wrong, Alphas have hot women on their arm since it is very easy to get them. Can't you get any?

Poon King said:
Men who hate women won't serve women.
Do you hate women? I can see you hate relationships and marriages. Pretty much your standard KJ thread with all these generalizations.
 

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logicallefty said:
^^THIS^^ is spot on.

The key is for a man to either

1) be able to NEXT a woman and move on to another one to satisfy him sexually

or

2) get his needs met in other ways like porn

or

3) stop needing sex


Just imagine if every man in the world was content with #2 or #3. Where would that put women if men no longer needed them for sex? Back as second class citizens where they belong, that' where.
I agree with you brother. The truth is the Only the top 5-10 % of men IMO can get quality hot women to have sex with them on a regular basis while being single without putting effort into it. If your below an 8 your going to have to work at it. And even then a 6/10 girl will have more guys hitting on her than a 8/10 guy will have women chasing him. This is the reason 90% of guys take so much bull**** from hot women when it comes to relationships, could take months to lock down another one.
 

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AttackFormation said:
This. F*ck "commitment" if either party abuses it - you commit to get MORE, BETTER sex and a MORE pleasant girl - if you're not getting that but you're giving her your commitment then what's the point? The moment your girlfriend starts acting up with her bullsh!t you can either go out and find new women to f*ck because you're alpha and women want you or you can mold yourself to her commands and be her beta boy that she rams her strap-on into every day. If a woman is too stupid to understand the concept that men only want to commit if it benefits their lives then LEAVE HER and keep your dignity as a man intact instead of spending your life with someone who doesn't want to f*ck you anyway.
You can not change your genes, you can not become alpha if you don't have the genetics to. Unless your a 8 or better in looks (I consider 8 model potential), or you don't have a lot of money women are not going to be throwing themselves at you.

1. Most people who come to this forum are average guys making average money, or broke college kids, or guys who aren't great with women in general. If a hot chick disrespects you while in a relationships your going to have to accept the fact that you are lucky to have gotten a hot chick to commit to you in the first place. And if you decide to walk you might be single for a while unless you are willing to downgrade.

2. If your an average guy you are GOING to have to put up with a woman's bull**** if she's hotter than you, thats one of the reasons she dated you in the first place, she knows the better looking wealthier guy wouldn't put up with her bull****. It doesn't matter how alpha you act, she has eyes...and she knows she's out of your league to begin with. go ahead and act alpha and tell her your not going to put up with her ****, she'll laugh at you and leave. The only exception is if you have a big **** and are great in bed, this is the only thing that will make a hot chick stay with an average looking guy making average money who doesn't put up with her. The other exception is if she has fallen in love with you because of your personality/demeanor but you have only increased your value to her in her own eyes. she still knows that you probably wont do better...
 

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Octogonal said:
No, true alpha men always have the power in relationships.



It is the man's fault for cheating.



Men invested into relationships and marriages for thousands of years.



Sounds like you have never been in an LTR.



Wrong, Alphas have hot women on their arm since it is very easy to get them. Can't you get any?



Do you hate women? I can see you hate relationships and marriages. Pretty much your standard KJ thread with all these generalizations.
Did you actually read the thread? If most men were alphas they wouldn't need this site or any of the material on it.

You're no alpha dude. You're a 12 year old KJ. You sound stupid.
 

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AttackFormation said:
This. F*ck "commitment" if either party abuses it - you commit to get MORE, BETTER sex and a MORE pleasant girl - if you're not getting that but you're giving her your commitment then what's the point? The moment your girlfriend starts acting up with her bullsh!t you can either go out and find new women to f*ck because you're alpha and women want you or you can mold yourself to her commands and be her beta boy that she rams her strap-on into every day. If a woman is too stupid to understand the concept that men only want to commit if it benefits their lives then LEAVE HER and keep your dignity as a man intact instead of spending your life with someone who doesn't want to f*ck you anyway.
Hallelujah :up:
 
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