I saw that post. Poor guy.
My friend I mention above is 52. Very handsome. Full head of hair, great smile, great skin, fit but trim, stylish dresser. Mensa smart and charming AF. His last GF was a physician. He can pull girls half his age but wants no part of possible pregnancy so he prefers 45-60. He’s white. Green eyes. Could model.
Thanks for your post to clarify. I don't feel sorry for "that guy" at all. He has already had a great 50+ years and probably will have another 50+ great years. His focus has been on raising his now adult children and he's done that successfully. He's a winner in my book.
OK, here's the disconnect. The number of 50+ year old white male models is, shall we say, slim. Almost all are 35 and under, and the overwhelming majority are 30 and under.
When clubs and bars were open, it was relatively rare to see men past the age of say, 35 or so at popular night venues, at least not past 11 lol. The typical median age range was from 21 to 25 more often than not. Could this gentleman pull women 26+? I'm not saying he couldn't but this is when women's SMV tends to drop significantly.
Also, why would any man prefer to date 60 year olds? Really? A guy who is as attractive as you say he is prefers 60 year olds to girls in their 20's? I'm not sure if I buy that part of the story.
The other men I know are white, range in age from 43 to 54 all have hair, height, teeth and are fit. They are all very handsome. My exBF who I saw for 3 years until last summer is a gorgeous man of Spanish/Italian and German decent who is 6’3” 225lbs and big arms & chest & looks like a cross between George Clooney and Charlie Sheen. Latin dancer. Sexy AF.
I hang out with people at or above my SMV.
Well, again, George Clooney is listed as 59. He hasn't been a "sex symbol" in films for at least 15 years, if not 20 and it's probably been longer than that. Even then, his appeal was mainly to older broads, 40+. Charlie Sheen is listed as 55, and he hasn't been a "sex symbol" in the entertainment industry for at least 20 years; probably closer to 30.
My avatar is from August 2020 and I look about the same as I did at 25. In fact I keep my avatars current & recent because I think it’s important people here know I am who I say I am. I’ve met one of the guys from here in person (he met my playboy friend as well) and we get together once in a while to break down game (the other poster is mid 30s so strictly platonic there)...I know other members here through PM and a few on social media. I’m real, the people I know are real.
OK, thanks for clarifying, but at first you said a "few months," which I took to mean, well, a few months. Now you say it's been 2 years.
Also, you said men guessed you were 32. Most men when guessing a woman's age, give a lower figure than they actually believe, out of courtesy. So, you can add a minimum of 3 years, and probably 5 years or more to their guess. So perhaps you look mid to late 30's in reality? That's impressive. But you believe you look 25, whereas men believe you (actually) look mid to late 30's. There is a significant disparity there, compounded by your fudging the date of your photo.
Do you see why there is some skepticism based upon the disconnect in the accounts you provide?
What makes me scratch my head really is why all the bitterness and disbelief and fascination with me? Why shouldn’t I exist as I do? Somebody does. I do and I have the luxury of choice. It’s a wonderful thing and I am grateful for it. In person I’m warm & engaging and gregarious (and sassy at times, let’s be real)...but I am blessed to retain my attractiveness at my age and I am blessed to have great people around me.
The way some people make assumptions and so on tells me that these are men who are bitter, who don’t get out much, and who aren’t part of the “cool kids”. That’s brutal I know, but that’s the truth based on the disbelief and vitriol that some posters toss around.
I’m here because I really adore masculine men & there are too few in the wild if you will. But trust me, they are the only ones who get my attention or interest in my own life...whether as friends or as lovers. So I know a great deal about who these type men are and how they operate and how women respond to them.
It’s one perspective. Put me on ignore. I don’t care. But what I share is real.
Post your photo. Let’s see who takes these cheap shots at me...Hmmmm?
Bitterness? Disbelief? I was just curious as to how many months it's been since your photo was taken.
As far as the 50+ and 60+ male playboys you mentioned, I posted both average and best case scenarios for white men in their 50's, and there is very little evidence that they can compete effectively in SMV with white men 3 decades younger.
I never said or implied that you "shouldn't exist" (wherever that accusation comes from, perhaps directed at another poster?). I was just curious about details since quite frankly, most of the white males I see look a lot more like the 80's guy than guys who can outcompete 20 something white guys in dating.
Honestly, I didn't take any cheap shots at you, that's a figment of your imagination, unless asking a few clarifying questions count as "cheap shots."
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