Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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I don't do the online thing, I see it as just a source of ego boosting for women and nothing more.
OK so are you trying to say that you banged or dated her? If so for how long?Tictac said:In my 20s and 30s, I spent my time in bars, clubs and such. And you should too.
Life is more full and complicated now. And women in their 40s and up aren't in your kiddie venues.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=60299860
The next time you get a date with a 44-year old woman that looks and writes like this, let me know.
I salute you sirTictac said:Been out twice.
Her place, tonight.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Tictac said:I've never understood why younger folk of either sex would spend time online. Too many IRL venues and opportunities and the time to pursue them.
Solomon said:This thread use to come up monthly now daily almost...I posted this in another thread
Unless your really good looking you're not banging 7+'s on the regular via online dating
Let's be honest How many guys on this site are "cut up" or "Jacked up" if most of us were we probably wouldn't have problems online dating or dating women in general. Should you work out and be in the best shape possible? of course but if that's the reality then you wouldn't need online dating.
Yeah I could see how that could be true for smaller towns. Limited dating pool. People probably get married off quicker too. I live in NYC, so the pool is a little deeper and the women are a little hotter than other places.Solomon said:Agreed
For women I've noticed a couple things. I live in a town that's about a little over 500,000 people(not big). I fortunatley know a lot of people due to my networking and gaming.
Most of the women who use online dating. Are overweight, plain janes, single mothers, or known town sluts.
If only dating works for you brah, Kudos, I have nothing agaisnt online dating. I use it when I need to bust a slump but for me it just doesn't make sense and I've posted in detail why.Iceberg said:The benefit of online dating for me is, I'm in my 30's, I don't like hitting up bars and clubs 5 nights per week, and when I AM out with my friends, I sometimes like to enjoy their company instead of chatting up random broads. But that's my life. I can understand if you feel differently.
Yeah I could see how that could be true for smaller towns. Limited dating pool. People probably get married off quicker too. I live in NYC, so the pool is a little deeper and the women are a little hotter than other places.
Even when I lived in a smaller city, these random walruses would message me. And I'm thinking, "in what world do you think that I'd go out on a date with you?" Moving to a bigger city will do wonders for the quality of women you can grab off of online dating.
If I lived in a smaller town, I don't know what i'd do. Hang out near the college campuses, I guess. It's the only area you'd be guaranteed a stream of new women.
You're fooling yourself if you think girls online are guaranteed to be single. It would blow your mind if you took 10 girls from online and gave them a lie detector test about if they were really single or not.skinnyguy said:I could argue that online dating is more efficient, because the girls are guaranteed to be single. If you cold approach, there's what, a 75% chance she has a boyfriend? (I'm assuming you are approaching attractive women, not ugly ones)
If I were still in college, then yes, I would just talk to the girls in school. But post-graduation it is much, much more difficult to meet women who are single and actually compatible with you.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
I was winning until an autistic chick in a wheelchair messaged me. I closed my laptop and got the fvck outta dodge.Solomon said:Kudos to you and other guys who are winning online
It was amazing how many mega whales would message me when I had my real pics up, but when I experimented with a fake profile they would leave me alone and girls I'd actually be interested in would email me all the time. That was a kick to the nvts because I don't get bothered by whales in real life so wtf makes them come after me online? Why did they think I was on their level but yet the fake guy they didn't bother with because they knew he wasn't on their level.BeDJ said:I was winning until an autistic chick in a wheelchair messaged me. I closed my laptop and got the fvck outta dodge.
I used to be like this, until I realized that most of them aren't worth a damn. Then it changed from fear to disgust & not giving a ****. Which, ironically, works to attract them... which just makes you respect them less.OldGoat said:Ive always been afraid of women. offline or online. I can act cool and macho or whatever but very attractive women intimidate me. I don't talk to women much though they talk to me. and than I run away and hide in my shell. online dating sites is pretty depressing. imo
floydb25 said:I used to be like this, until I realized that most of them aren't worth a damn. Then it changed from fear to disgust & not giving a ****. Which, ironically, works to attract them... which just makes you respect them less.
Same with all those douchey fags who think they're cool by acting like retarded monkeys and bringing others down. They're not cool AT ALL, and their approval is irrelevant. They're just straight up losers who suck at life, and have NOTHING going for them. They're desperate to fit in and be accepted, and spend ALL of their time acting & bullying in front of others. They're also big time haters.
Likewise for hotties... they're just as shallow, ignorant, deluded, cliquey, egotistical, stuck up, insecure, and worthless as all these jackasses. They get turned off by fear (ie, inferiority), yet seek the approval of an assh0le, bully, or player (ie, superiority). They also bully / use / play beta's and nice guys... Don't you see? They're the same as all the aforementioned jackasses. Fake and weak.
People ain't ****, man. No reason to fear, seek the approval of, or tolerate crap treatment from ANYONE. The only ones who put you in this mindset (due to their stuck up, superior nature) are usually the worst - and most insecure, failure-ridden of the lot.
Most hotties are just straight up trash. If they weren't - people wouldn't be complaining about them all the time... even insofar as how they're only good for sex; being slutty and shallow; having to act a certain way to attract them; what they are attracted to in general; and their general way of being (ie, worthless and ****ty). Attracting them doesn't change who they are.
Don't be pedestalizing retards who only THINK they're something special - due to all the attention, favor, compliments, etc they receive. Truth is, most of them aren't worth a damn - all they care about is hot, sex, and money. Being or having these things doesn't change ****, either. In fact, it's the ONLY reason they like you. Why fear someone like this?
Damn. Yeah man ive always been a nervous guy since being a little kid. Theres reasons. I just need to get past it. I hardly ever see many attractive women in my area on dating sites. If I do its very difficult to get even their attention. Occasionally If im lucky ill get a hb7+ send me meetup but not vey often. I hate approaching and it doesn't feel natural.floydb25 said:I used to be like this, until I realized that most of them aren't worth a damn. Then it changed from fear to disgust & not giving a ****. Which, ironically, works to attract them... which just makes you respect them less.
In fact, it's the ONLY reason they like you. Why fear someone like this?
That's because the topic is always the same, but by different people. I was responding to a particular comment / poster, so it has nothing to do with online dating per se. Dude said he was afraid of hotties - I told him to knock it off, 'cause most of them are ****... for the same reason that everyone pedestalizes them, and makes them a prize. ****, even peers and the opposite sex judge you based on the hotties you get. Everyone's obsessed with leagues and looks, and it makes people feel inferior and depressed for no reason. It also results in the hotties being ****. So yea, bad cycle we got going on.Solomon said:No disrespect floyd your posts all sound the same, what does this have to do with online dating?
Do you presue women? and if you avoid "hotties" where do you find women?
NOt trying to flame just curious
Like a hurricane is fueled by warm waters, female hypergamy is fueled by male availability/attention. So tropical storm Anna goes O.L. Dating (slvtting) and turns into a Category 5 :crackup: .PairPlusRoyalFlush said:This is the HB4 girl that just messaged me on OKC for a date:
http://ak3.okccdn.com/php/load_okc_...800/292x348/855x911/0/2277888652282646925.web
I've never gotten an online number from anyone significantly better looking than her. One 5.5.
I'm supposed to go out on a date with her when I've dated/am currently banging these two from the real world?
(she actually has a great rack too)
(yes those are D's)
Btw both of the above have succumbed to online dating.