Why the rise in sexless men/simps is the final blow to dating

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As a black guy I have considerably more success with white women. And I'm actively pursuing black women (and all other races of women). Asian women are definitely the most difficult for black men to attain.
A white woman never has to go outside her race. There are usually enough white men chasing white women. White women are at the top of the food chain when it comes to mating options evaluated on the basis of race/ethnicity and biological sex.

When white woman go outside their race, they tend to prefer black men over all others. Some will go for Hispanic men. Most are repulsed by East and South Asian men. Men of Indian ancestry tend to be spam approachers and some subpar, overweight white woman will go for them. A college educated, yuppie white woman with a BMI under 25 isn't interested in an East or South Asian unless he's absurdly wealthy. A $100,000-170,000 annual salary isn't going to do it for them.
 

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A white woman never has to go outside her race. There are usually enough white men chasing white women. White women are at the top of the food chain when it comes to mating options evaluated on the basis of race/ethnicity and biological sex.

When white woman go outside their race, they tend to prefer black men over all others. Some will go for Hispanic men. Most are repulsed by East and South Asian men. Men of Indian ancestry tend to be spam approachers and some subpar, overweight white woman will go for them. A college educated, yuppie white woman with a BMI under 25 isn't interested in an East or South Asian unless he's absurdly wealthy. A $100,000-170,000 annual salary isn't going to do it for them.
I'd say no woman has to go outside their race, barring the rare occasion where their own ethnicity comprises a miniscule percentage of the population.
 

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I'd say no woman has to go outside their race, barring the rare occasion where their own ethnicity comprises a miniscule percentage of the population.
Why did Nicole Simpson go outside her race? She was a very high end HB too.
 

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I am noticing that the black pill seems to be overtaking the red pill.
I'm wondering if this is due to the fact that the price of admission seems to be higher than in the past. Higher level of game required right off the bat means less success thus more frustration.
 

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I am noticing that the black pill seems to be overtaking the red pill.
How did we go from dating advice/self improvement to autistic discussions about interracial relationships/bone structure and politics?
 

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I'm wondering if this is due to the fact that the price of admission seems to be higher than in the past. Higher level of game required right off the bat means less success thus more frustration.
You make a great point. Most seducers have been saying that the level of game it has taken since 2015 to get laid is higher than what it took between 1998-2006.

If I had the exact same first date in 2006 and 2018, it was much more likely that the 2018 date would not have resulted in a second date. The threshold of what it takes to earn a second date has been increasing in the last ~15 years or so.

I think that can frustrate a lot of men as they try to learn seduction. The guys who learned seduction prior to the beginning of the 2010s (by the time smartphones had reached a good % of the population) had a softer learning process.

Learning seduction in the 1990s or 2000s was not easy either, but easier than 2010 or later.
 
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It is curious, even with a third of the male population out of the sexual market, it is a tough as ever to get laid, since women are now targeting the top 2% of men instead of the top 10%
I wrote about this earlier, but a 2% and probably even a 10% cutoff is likely unrealistically high. I DO believe that hypergamy is ramping upwards however (when and where possible) so that guys at the lower fringes of the top 20% range are being negatively impacted.

 

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The point was to describe the Fall of Mankind and how the sin of the first man was inherited down through all of mankind, making all of mankind corrupt. However there is some very interesting points you might like: What was the sin by God's own words? It was actually two listed by God when He confronted them.



It sounds like the first thing God listed was Adam listening to his wife. If you go back a bit further in the story during the excuse making phase, Adam blamed the chick and blamed God for giving her to him. The chick blamed the snake. The snake looked around for someone to blame and ,...Uh-Oh,...no one there.



Lastly, Adam didn't take charge and deal with the situation before it got out of hand. He let Eve make the decisions with the snake,...and she did. So in a way,...Eve was the first feminist, the strong independent women, and Adam was the first beta,...and they caused the fall of mankind.

Want to know why, or at least part of why God put man in charge and put the woman in the secondary role,...this was it. It was reiterated much later on in the Bible when it referred back to this:
She's always going to seek a higher power if one presents itself. She cannot help herself. God probably allowed the serpent to test eve on purpose. And used eve to test Adam. I'm sure had Adam followed gods command he would've created another wife for him, or perhaps he would've made Eve redeem herself after some long punishment.

But the story at it's core simply means she will have a tendancy to seek a higher power definately over her own husband and even over the highest authority.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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I wrote about this earlier, but a 2% and probably even a 10% cutoff is likely unrealistically high. I DO believe that hypergamy is ramping upwards however (when and where possible) so that guys at the lower fringes of the top 20% range are being negatively impacted.

I have talked about how I'm above average, maybe outside of the Top 20% and I've been affected.
 

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She's always going to seek a higher power if one presents itself. She cannot help herself. God probably allowed the serpent to test eve on purpose. And used eve to test Adam.
Yea, and it would be biblical. Scripture states that God allows temptation to happen, but only to the level that one can potentially resist it. It is never truely overwhelming. So the one who fails can only blame themselves.

I'm sure had Adam followed gods command he would've created another wife for him, or perhaps he would've made Eve redeem herself after some long punishment.
Well the result was already set, .....death. But God could have taken her out immediately and replaced her I assume.
The inheritence of the Curse of sin that was past down to all of mankind is done through the man, and Adam would have still been innocent. That is why Christ's birth was a virgin birth. He wasn't from the "Seed of a Man", so unaffected by the Curse. So if we go with God replacing Eve,...theoretically mankind would have still been pure an immortal. So it was still Adam's fault in the end because he followed her action. God also holds Adam accountable for Eve. God made man the leader, and a leader is responsible for those they lead. It is still that way today, man is the head of the household and leader over the wife and children. Actual "biblical" Christianity is Red Pilled,...while "pop" or "popular" Christianity is feminized, Blue Pilled. To find true biblical Christianity today you really have to search for it.
But the story at it's core simply means she will have a tendancy to seek a higher power definately over her own husband and even over the highest authority.
I don't know. Possible. The truth is often more simpler. She stepped out on her own and did what she did by her own choice. Think about what the snake actually said. She was told that she would have great knowledge and would "be like God". Maybe in her rationalization she thought, "Well God is "good", so if I am like Him I will be "good" too,...right?" All speculation, we will never really know the true inner motivations.
 

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Yea, and it would be biblical. Scripture states that God allows temptation to happen, but only to the level that one can potentially resist it. It is never truely overwhelming. So the one who fails can only blame themselves.



Well the result was already set, .....death. But God could have taken her out immediately and replaced her I assume.
The inheritence of the Curse of sin that was past down to all of mankind is done through the man, and Adam would have still been innocent. That is why Christ's birth was a virgin birth. He wasn't from the "Seed of a Man", so unaffected by the Curse. So if we go with God replacing Eve,...theoretically mankind would have still been pure an immortal. So it was still Adam's fault in the end because he followed her action. God also holds Adam accountable for Eve. God made man the leader, and a leader is responsible for those they lead. It is still that way today, man is the head of the household and leader over the wife and children. Actual "biblical" Christianity is Red Pilled,...while "pop" or "popular" Christianity is feminized, Blue Pilled. To find true biblical Christianity today you really have to search for it.
I don't know. Possible. The truth is often more simpler. She stepped out on her own and did what she did by her own choice. Think about what the snake actually said. She was told that she would have great knowledge and would "be like God". Maybe in her rationalization she thought, "Well God is "good", so if I am like Him I will be "good" too,...right?" All speculation, we will never really know the true inner motivations.
Good point. Those stories exist because it has concerned man since the very beginning.
 
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Lol Hapacels. I'm half asian, but my father is Asian and my mother is white. She definitely didn't marry him for money. She's much younger, and he's much shorter. But he's pretty handsome and the the walking text book definition of dark triad.

Most of the half-asians from my ethnic group are Asian fathers and white women. About 90% ratio. But that's just my particular ethnic group. In other Asian/White relations it tends to be the reverse.

I tend to agree that hapas (or whatever they're called) tend to be ****ed up, more than average. Definitely more self-conscious, neurotic.

I have wondered about different causes, i.e. old failed white man and mail order bride and the impact this causes, or tiger moms, or simply having gold digger and psychopathic parents....

Saying that, my personal experience is slightly different. And the hapas I know are similarly in similar boat, asian man / white woman. The relationships are pretty textbook redpill. All our fathers are *******s.

/ My life
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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