Why the hostility at Sosuave?

[SilverSonnet]

Most of the threads have been deleted. The mods over there really like to keep a tight reign over what they deem "appropriate." They still left the one I started about creating attraction, though (written from the POV of a FVCKING CHUMP). I don't know why they chose to delete every single other post I wrote, but decided to keep this one up. Go figure...

They're like communists, trying to keep pressure on what is printed and what isn't. I haven't been over there, and yet, I prefer it greatly over here, since we can whatever we feel.

 

[Technical1]

Hey Lishy,

Sorry I went over the top with my reply.
I'm really interested to hear what you have to say about relationship dynamics, and in general, I'd like to get to know the female perspective on relationships better because I still don't think I get it. Enjoy you're time here on SoSuave.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Most of the threads have been deleted. The mods over there really like to keep a tight reign over what they deem "appropriate." They still left the one I started about creating attraction, though (written from the POV of a FVCKING CHUMP). I don't know why they chose to delete every single other post I wrote, but decided to keep this one up. Go figure...

They kept this thread because it's obviously the one they agree with and think it's the "right" way to keep attraction.

Oh, I'm back on over there too.

I'm sure with some detective work you brothers will know who I am .

Here to those he-b!tches who called me a troll.:moon:

 

[Quiksilver]

Most of the threads have been deleted. The mods over there really like to keep a tight reign over what they deem "appropriate." They still left the one I started about creating attraction, though (written from the POV of a FVCKING CHUMP). I don't know why they chose to delete every single other post I wrote, but decided to keep this one up. Go figure...

Tony is pretty anal about members demonstrating respect towards one another over there, and does indeed try to follow the Terms of Service to the letter. Yet he does have his reasons, their site is almost twice the size of this one and having a large population of both men and women sharing the same boards can make things difficult.

While I don't agree with how his site is moderated, he's a good person and things are simply done differently over there. Who is to say how a board should be moderated, and that is the style that has worked for them.

This episode caused considerable consternation among members and caused incredible work for moderators. We are still working to feret out what we feel are troll type posts from that episode. Any post, even your apology, which brings to mind that situation needs to be out of the way unless all of us can move on.

I am shocked that you, a moderator in another forum, would have any difficulties whatsoever respecting the decision of any moderator. As you well know, there are good reasons for everything. Perhaps we all have to go through it on both ends so we understand the feelings of others. I have no idea....the older I get the less I understand about anything.

That is what he sent me, and while I still don't agree with the way they do things over there, I still respect him.

 

[penkitten]

Tony is pretty anal about members demonstrating respect towards one another over there, and does indeed try to follow the Terms of Service to the letter. Yet he does have his reasons, their site is almost twice the size of this one and having a large population of both men and women sharing the same boards can make things difficult.

While I don't agree with how his site is moderated, he's a good person and things are simply done differently over there. Who is to say how a board should be moderated, and that is the style that has worked for them.

and i think they only have a portion of mods compared to ours, which is wow to me considering the size of the site.

 

[JackPrescott]

and i think they only have a portion of mods compared to ours, which is wow to me considering the size of the site.

Lets all hope that the few bored females on this site, dont turn it into an AFC site.

 

[Nighthawk]

Well the rule seems to be if someone, anyone is 'offended' by a post, that's an infraction and posting privileges are suspended, and the post deleted. Thus the women just decide any post they disagree with is offensive.

 

[Bible_Belt]

A lot of forums are pretty fascist. I got banned on christianity.com when I dared to politely differ with a mod who said that all Christians had to support the war in Iraq, or else they were poor Christians. My terms-of-service violation was disagreeing with a moderator, which is not allowed. They delete your posts and ban you right away. I find all of this especially ironic, given that Jesus clashed with authority figures himself. If he was online, they'd probably ban him, too.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

A lot of forums are pretty fascist. I got banned on christianity.com when I dared to politely differ with a mod who said that all Christians had to support the war in Iraq, or else they were poor Christians.

How "christian" of them.

 

[penkitten]

A lot of forums are pretty fascist. I got banned on christianity.com when I dared to politely differ with a mod who said that all Christians had to support the war in Iraq, or else they were poor Christians. My terms-of-service violation was disagreeing with a moderator, which is not allowed. They delete your posts and ban you right away. I find all of this especially ironic, given that Jesus clashed with authority figures himself. If he was online, they'd probably ban him, too.

i would also like to say that if you are a man and someone says they can not date you because they went to www.dontdatehimgirl.com and another woman posted horrible things about them or www.disgruntledhousewife.com and a woman posted about them on the d!ck list.. that he must go look it up, write to the site admin and prove who he is to have his name removed from these sites, however there is no such thing as dontdateherman.com or disgruntledhusbands.com doing this to women.
not only that, but the ladies have been able to just post whatever they want when they are scorned but the men must prove who they are and ask for their names to be removed and then wait on it.

where is the fairness and how come those so called ladies on other boards think they have the fvcking right to ask my mental state for wanting to help or frequent this board?

 

[SilverSonnet]

A lot of forums are pretty fascist. I got banned on christianity.com when I dared to politely differ with a mod who said that all Christians had to support the war in Iraq, or else they were poor Christians. My terms-of-service violation was disagreeing with a moderator, which is not allowed. They delete your posts and ban you right away. I find all of this especially ironic, given that Jesus clashed with authority figures himself. If he was online, they'd probably ban him, too.

LMAO. I'm a basic christian. I follow my own faith. I just believe the basics, because in my opinion christianity is flawed and corrupt. And the leaders of it, and people who made new testament did this.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

i would also like to say that if you are a man and someone says they can not date you because they went to www.dontdatehimgirl.com and another woman posted horrible things about them or www.disgruntledhousewife.com and a woman posted about them on the d!ck list.. that he must go look it up, write to the site admin and prove who he is to have his name removed from these sites, however there is no such thing as dontdateherman.com or

WHEW! I didn't make the lists. LOL.. Any guys from here on those crazy lists?

 

[HalfAddict]

I didn't make the lists either ^_^.

The reason there is hostility here towards you is because you can't give good advice.
No matter what you think, your advice will not be on point.
Even if it is, (which I highly doubt) You will need to prove yourself.

Alot of the fellas here (myself included) have been burned by women, so we wanted to figure out what we were doing wrong, and why that **** in the movies isn't working in real life.

You can only spend so much time reading the drivel on romancleclass or LS or some equally cosmo like training ground to realize that you have no idea what you're talking about.

Some suckers never get unhooked from the matrix and they never will over there.

 

[Interceptor]

I guess I wouldn't kick her out of bed for eating crackers...But then again I haven't been laid in a month!:cuss:

Looks can never make up for high character.
Many women still have such a deep insecurity about themselves and their self imagined 'power' that they do anything to try to keep that power. For without it, they are nothing.
Imagine her with High class, and character. Now that would be a woman to admire and be attracted to.
Instead, what did she do?
Come over here spewing all sorts of nonsens e, stirring up trouble, and of all the lowest things...............seeking revenge?

How irrational can you possibly get?

Over an internet forum???


High Character, wisdom, and integrity and self direction are the true Keys to real Power. And oddly enough, it has nothing about being 'above' someone.

For the very fact that one tries so hard to keep, it, and fight others for it, denotes a deep rooted insecurity and weakness.

The only thing that will keep you relatively safe is your adherence to your Personal Boundary, and understanding yourself and your Values, and only associating with those whom have the same values as you.
Qualifying women has to be a skill learned by all men.
Being able to say NO, and walk away are crucial.


The Fate is sealed for those misguided , naive, and gullible men who value looks over everything, and place sex at their top NEED from a partner.
If you become a slave to your desires, you might as well put the yoke on your neck. and the ring through the nose....


There's a reason why they call it the "Halo Principle".

Dont be naive and foolish.


Gravitate and reward those women who treat you well, and above all else truly honestly respect you and admire you, and appreciate you for WHO you are.
Accept nothing less.

 

[Lishy]

I didn't make the lists either ^_^.

The reason there is hostility here towards you is because you can't give good advice.
No matter what you think, your advice will not be on point.
Even if it is, (which I highly doubt) You will need to prove yourself.

Alot of the fellas here (myself included) have been burned by women, so we wanted to figure out what we were doing wrong, and why that **** in the movies isn't working in real life.

You can only spend so much time reading the drivel on romancleclass or LS or some equally cosmo like training ground to realize that you have no idea what you're talking about.

Some suckers never get unhooked from the matrix and they never will over there.

So let me get this right ... You come here to get advice from MEN who are in the same situation as you?

If they had the answers would they not be out having a life instead of indoors wondering were it all went wrong?

Its like the blind leading the blind .. LISTEN UP BOYS, it is your crappy attitude that causes you to be bitter at the woman who left you .... You need to CHANGE the attitude, not enhance it!

 

[WesCottII]

So let me get this right ... You come here to get advice from MEN who are in the same situation as you?

If they had the answers would they not be out having a life instead of indoors wondering were it all went wrong?

Its like the blind leading the blind .. LISTEN UP BOYS, it is your crappy attitude that causes you to be bitter at the woman who left you .... You need to CHANGE the attitude, not enhance it!

It's a good point.

Too many guys here hang onto the past.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

So let me get this right ... You come here to get advice from MEN who are in the same situation as you?

If they had the answers would they not be out having a life instead of indoors wondering were it all went wrong?

Its like the blind leading the blind .. LISTEN UP BOYS, it is your crappy attitude that causes you to be bitter at the woman who left you .... You need to CHANGE the attitude, not enhance it!

There are plenty of guys here who are successful and come here to help. Like Francisco.

 

[HalfAddict]

Wrong WOMAN I came here three years ago to get advice from men who broke out the cycle.

And I did just that.
When I came here I had slept with one chick, it was a friend who felt sorry for me, that has to be for sure. I had never had a decent relationship with a woman outside being an emotional tampon.

Now I get to be choosy about whom I sleep with, What woman wins my time.

Now I get the calls.
Now I get the when are we going to hang out?
Now I hear why is he dating her. I'm so much better.

I'm not bitter, as a matter of fact, I'm in a happy place in my life, and living for no one else.

But I don't want to see you here spouting rhetoric and possibly ruining some AFC'S chances of breaking free, thats for sure.

And when I came here lo and behold. The answers were here.
The answers are still here. All you need to do is rake through the ****.

 

[ketostix]

LISTEN UP BOYS, it is your crappy attitude that causes you to be bitter at the woman who left you .... You need to CHANGE the attitude, not enhance it!

And what's your excuse for having a crappy attitude? See, two can easily play the blame game .

 

[FireOnTheMountain]

I don't understand why people are so rude. It is just internet culture I guess and everyone is accustomed to being hostile. Oh well.

It isn't hard to be nice.