I'm coming to the realization that men are about or more emotional than women, only that men are taught to control their emotions and thus why women appear more emotional; just as women are about or more sexual than men, only that women are taught to control their sexuality and thus why men appear more sexual.
A) Men seem to fall in love faster than women. B) If a man pours out emotion within the first few dates, he's considered by women as an 'emotional slut'; women just don't respect men who show too much emotion, women considering such men 'pathetic'.
On the other hand, women generally have more sexual partners than men, but will generally lie about it if people will find out.
I think the idea of a human double standard being the source of the double standard is nonsense. There are two types of equality: absolute equality and balanced equality. Nature prefers balanced equality, otherwise known as polarity. The social double standard is rooted out of Nature.
I find there is no inherent difference in desires between a 'slut' and a 'good girl'. They both want the same thing the same way, only one tends to act on it and the other to a lesser extent. Therefore, it's rather pointless to label women sluts, except to remind oneself that she's a sexual being.
A 'good girl' is still a 'good girl' if she sleeps on the first night, a 'slut' is still a 'slut' if she waits two months.
There was one time long ago, and for two months or so, where I had just crossed over from the nonsexual realm over to the sexual realm. Being still in the nonsexual mindset, and suddenly I'd find women acting all sexual around me, I'd say to myself "My god what sluts women have become!" Conflict between self-image and reality. I stopped labeling when I realized that their desires were no different than mine and were actually rather good signs, showing interest. They were just female equivalents of me, so I realized I was only damning myself by labeling women sluts, and thus stopped.
A) Men seem to fall in love faster than women. B) If a man pours out emotion within the first few dates, he's considered by women as an 'emotional slut'; women just don't respect men who show too much emotion, women considering such men 'pathetic'.
On the other hand, women generally have more sexual partners than men, but will generally lie about it if people will find out.
I think the idea of a human double standard being the source of the double standard is nonsense. There are two types of equality: absolute equality and balanced equality. Nature prefers balanced equality, otherwise known as polarity. The social double standard is rooted out of Nature.
I find there is no inherent difference in desires between a 'slut' and a 'good girl'. They both want the same thing the same way, only one tends to act on it and the other to a lesser extent. Therefore, it's rather pointless to label women sluts, except to remind oneself that she's a sexual being.
A 'good girl' is still a 'good girl' if she sleeps on the first night, a 'slut' is still a 'slut' if she waits two months.
There was one time long ago, and for two months or so, where I had just crossed over from the nonsexual realm over to the sexual realm. Being still in the nonsexual mindset, and suddenly I'd find women acting all sexual around me, I'd say to myself "My god what sluts women have become!" Conflict between self-image and reality. I stopped labeling when I realized that their desires were no different than mine and were actually rather good signs, showing interest. They were just female equivalents of me, so I realized I was only damning myself by labeling women sluts, and thus stopped.
