Really? What do you do when you feel that way? Do you cold approach her right away? Do you feel a connection with her, like she's noticing you? How do you approach women that you know will likely be into you.
You sell them a dream lol. These hopeless romantics are trying to find a Disney Chad to sweep their feet. On OLD, the PUA game/text games do not work on women because most of these women have been played by some Chad or some American Psycho sociopath previously.
Can you at least pay for it? I mean if you have an extreme fetish or attraction for a certain type of woman you can't attract and are attracting the types you are so-so over, then you must have thought about that.
Approach, depending on how horny I am. Don't foget that this girl is very likely to be one of them 'niche' girls who isn't necessarily what I'm looking for
Sometimes
Sometimes. But it's also like I can pick up on her general look and mannerisms maybe. Maybe i can sense a similarity between her and girls in the past who have made it easier for me. It's not fool proof of course
Same as every other girl more or less. I tend to be slightly indirect and just start chatting and asking her some questions about herself and stuff and see if she contributes and plays the game or not. I've dropped 90% of stuff i've 'learnt', tbh.
What type of questions to you ask about herself?
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Now you enter the " join my patreon and get exclusive access to 50 text messages that will GUARANTEE.." territory.
This happens because of the 5 Phases Model of Online Dating.....
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There's new apps coming out all the time. I'm at the point where I'm about to binge try a bunch of small ones. I'm not sure what else can be done besides catching one that's up and coming.
That was before smartphones were used as weapons of mass chaos lol. With as jaded as the average OLD user is these days, the lifecycle might be shortened further.This happens because of the 5 Phases Model of Online Dating.....
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It took Match.com about 15-17 years to move through the five phases. It took Tinder only 5-7 years.
Haha I recently came across a post on Redot similar to this one, and a girl response was something like, " it sound you need a BF instead of a gf". Nah I am just trolling you bro.
Yes, it took Match 15-17 years to move through the 5 phases because it was launched well before the smartphone. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge all moved to Phase 4-5 within 5-7 years.
Most single women aren't conservative. Never married, childless women between 25-40 are typically liberal and mostly in larger metros in the US.
Pretty much sums up the OLD sites/Apps.
There fixed it for ya, gotta eatch out for autocorrect dude!
One of my male friends "sold women on a dream" in the bars during the 2010s. He could do that due to being 6'4", White, a former NCAA athlete in a country club sport, and having a solid white collar job. That combination is dreamy for bougie, yuppie White women in their 20s. He would go to the bougie, yuppie White people bars to meet women. It mainly resulted in same night lays and casual sex, though he eventually got married and moved to the suburbs.
This is good insight. With me and my male friends in Dallas, there were occasional women who were in the general social sphere, mainly co-workers of some of my male friends. Some co-ed sports league teammates of my male friends. My primary male friend group has been a mainly useless social circle for me. I did put in some efforts many years ago with the few women who came into the circle, but there was fierce male competition for those women. Also, in terms of looks, those women were not as attractive as women I've had sex with outside of my social circle.
Match has been in Phase 5 for a long time. It's a place older divorcees go to look to get re-married.
I agree! Especially now. Well even now it's mostly post wall fatties, and tatted up with an occasional hot looking gold digger in the mix. As I said before Covid there was still some decent hot women on there. Even ones in their 20s and never married. Now usually on these sites if they're under 25 they're fat on Match.
Uber Eats is better than swipe apps. You get something out of it. A lot of swipe app dates are a giant waste. Also, with the monumental amount of texting and swiping it takes to get a flaky date or a bang, it's not easy to get something out of it. It might be considered easy to sit at home in your underwear and swipe. It's an illusion.
OLD is easy, just don't expect to meet women who look like Victoria secret models. We all have to lower our standards to succeed on OLD.
Most men in general aren’t dating Victoria secret models regardless lol
