-why Most Of You Will Be Eternal Losers-

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Negativity? Yes. Truth? Read on.

Most of you will fail at becoming a Don Juan. Most of you will only day dream about the things you want to accomplish. Most of you reading this right now are trapped in a vicious cycle, a vortex of mental masterbation. Constantly trying to find the perfect "method" but never taking action. Procrastination has become your best friend. Rationalizing your DJ career with the familiar mantra of "eh, let me read a few more guides and then I'll start"

The reason most of you will fail is the simple fact that YOU ARE SCARED TO FAIL.

Case Study: Michael Jordan. MJ is widely reknowned as the best human being to ever lace up a pair of basketball shoes. However his journey to the top was not an easy one. He was cut from his team during his Freshman year of tryouts. Lesser men would have folded under the pressure and concluded 'maybe basketball isn't for me' What did MJ do? Well he looked right in the face of old man adversity and told him to suck his d1ck. He worked out like a man on a mission and we all know how it turned out. He progressed from level to level until he was the best ever.

He wasn't he most gifted athlete ever. Hell, there were thousands of men that had the same physical abilty but very few men had the drive, courage, perserverance to become the best.

WE are the sum of our failures. I'll say it again because it needs to be said: WE ARE THE SUM OF OUR FAILURES. When faced with failure it is HOW we react that makes the man. Human beings are conditioned to avoid pain, failure, and rejection.

GOD DAMN IT!!! WHAT is life without PAIN, FAILURE and REJECTION. How BORING would life be without those qualities? Summertime is beautiful because of the hell that is suz zero winters.

Most of you will fail not because you are scared to approach. But you are scared of the consequences of the approach. Scared that maybe just maybe you won't get the positive reaction you are conditioned to want.

What would MJ do? Would he approach a few girls get blown out and then just retire to being an AFC the rest of his life? Or would he work harder? Constantly perfecting his craft until he was to the point of being a MASTER DJ? I think you know the response to that question.

Impatience is another big factor in failure. Lets face it brothers, we live in an instant coffee society. We want everything now...RIGHT NOW! To the point where when we do something we expect instant results. Spend years getting fat and out of shape? Well, we are lead to believe you can look like Arnold in a few months.

Do you think MJ got to be the best basketball player ever overnight? Don't think so. It took years of hard work. Failure. Trial and Error. Thats what you are going to have to do to become a master DJ. Fail. Get rejected. Make it fun. Be that dude who can walk up to anyone and strike up a convo. Never let a mintue of the day go by in which you aren't trying to attain your goals.

No matter where you are at right now you can get to where you want to go. Look at all the great heros of our time,I used MJ as an example but you can sub in anyone you like that inspires you.

So whats your motivation? Are you just going to sit there and confirm everyones suspicions about you? Are you going to let the revel in the fact that they knew you wouldn't ammount to sh1t? Or are you going to use this as a wake up call and tell them to suck your d1ck.

The time is now.
 

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20 views and no replies?

Wow, guess you have to be named Pook.
 

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AMEN!!!
I guess everyone has their fear of rejection and failure but i think even if you were rejected 20 times but finally got a date, then i think it was worth it (especially if she's super fine)
 

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I agree completely. I was lucky I guess, its easy for me to get up off my a$$ and do approaches, but i guess its probably harder for some guys, to their detriment.
 

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I agree with the content. But the negaitivity of the delivery doesn't really help that much...
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Not only for dating, this post should give us some insight how to deal with our failures in just almost every aspect of our lives. When we try to become good at something, it requires perseverance and time and patient.
 

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the dude is right, I cant stand not replying
 

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Damagingly true... personally I am just about to start on the DJ boot camp, forcing myself to get into the swing I have been reading David D, and articles on here for too many months, time to do something with it all.
 

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You look at most of the people here being failures... that's a good thing tho, because if everyone was successful, than my lack of success is the deepest of failures possible bcause everyone else would have succeeded (ie :got what they want), and I wouldn't have quite that.
 

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Originally posted by nishbuk
I agree with the content. But the negaitivity of the delivery doesn't really help that much...
Agreed, If your goal was to inspire you failed casino....;)
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Originally posted by Casino
20 views and no replies?

Wow, guess you have to be named Pook.
Don't feel bad, man...MJ quotes and stories have been posted many times before, so you probably got glossed over.

I read it, though, and it's true. Most people on here not only shy away from failure (by not even attempting to succeed in the first place), but when failure occurs, they REFUSE to acknowledge that they failed, that they COULD fail, and instead continually try to make things right with busted situations instead of growing and learning.
 

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this is sh_t!

why write all that sh_t down when you just could say,

If you don't go out and work on your skills, you'll stay AFC, else you'll become DJ

^^^ see? one line!

btw, there have been tons of dudes writeing the same f_cking advice!

And one more thing. WHY IS IT TRUE? Why will most of guys here never become dj? How the f_ck do you know that most huys will just be reading?

you're uncle fcker! :D
 

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Exactly

Please see my DJ Open post today. I'm trying to force you guys into action. Notice not a single person has been willing to come forward?

There is always some excuse for inaction. Unfortunately, the list of excuses will never end until you say **** IT, I'm doing this no matter what.
 

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Motivating a man to act by calling him a wimp and a loser doesn't work the way it used to, and when you're dealing with real wimps and losers, it just makes things worse.

Don't we have lots of salesmen here? Have them write the inspirational stuff. As long as they don't lie, a little manipulation might be just what we need.

Forcing a man to do something obviously doesn't work, at least not when he has a choice. You have to make him want to do the thing, want it more than anything else, only then will he be able to struggle, sacrifice, and suffer for it.
 

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Originally posted by Sasha
this is sh_t!

why write all that sh_t down when you just could say,

If you don't go out and work on your skills, you'll stay AFC, else you'll become DJ

^^^ see? one line!

btw, there have been tons of dudes writeing the same f_cking advice!

And one more thing. WHY IS IT TRUE? Why will most of guys here never become dj? How the f_ck do you know that most huys will just be reading?

you're uncle fcker! :D
geat we might as well just close down the F'ing site because I'm sure almost everything has already been said before.
 

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I like the message of the post but I don't like the whole "some of you will never succeed" thing. It was a very much needed wake up call for some guys but there've been many posts like this. If you're trying to help don't call anyone eternal losers. (unless its a psychological tactic for them to try harder that is)
 

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i don't know about everyone else, but i really like this post too. i haven't been slacking, but i can be putting in more effort nonetheless. i like this sort of "wake-up call" writing style. keep em coming...
 

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people do it everyday, they talk to themselves, they see themselves how they'd like to be. They don't have the courage to just run with it

The truth hits us hard. We look in the mirror and often times we don't like what is looking back.

Many of you are saying I'm being "NEGATIVE" maybe so. But at the end of the day I've never claimed to be some motivator like Pook or Tony Robbins. I'm a realist.

One thing I've learned in this quasi seduction community is that many of these great motivators sit there and coddle you MFers like you were 7 year old girls.

thats not how I operate.

I pulled myself out last place...im speaking from the heart. we can save this post and come back in 10 years if you want to see if I'm right or wrong. Wanna bet a ton of money that the majority of the cats here will spend the next ten years beating their meat to I-net pron?

Bet me.

I'm not saying they can't become whatever they want..but the reality of the situation is to strong to be ignored.
 

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I'm gonna hijack this thread from you Casino b/c it's clear you didn't inspire anybody but yourself. So let's use this as an object lesson instead.

Here is a sample of your profile on myspace:

"About me:
Motorcycles. Handguns. Sports (I play baseball) Madden. I'm probably the most awesome person I know. Infact actually, yes I am..."

"Who I'd like to meet:
...I think meeting Abe Lincolon would be cool. But I wouldn't want to have a serious convo with the dude I would just punch him in the face for no reason and watch his reaction."

"How do you want to Die:
In a gun fight
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: sell crack"

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cf...file&friendID=10263419&Mytoken=20050818005539

Now, that is just a selection of your fine prose. But reading that, it's easy to think that you are, shall we say "strikingly similar" to the trailer trash that gets hauled out every week in plasti-cuffs on reality shows like COPS. At the very least you manage to confirm the stereotype that baseball players are the least intellectual of the jocks. Throw. Catch. Spit. Bat. Run. Shoot roids. Repeat. Good boy ;-)

But then I scrolled down on your myspace page and saw the responses from some fine looking women:

"yeah! camping out in my living room sounds awesome! make sure your tent is made for two! kisses!"

"Funny I'm having a pants party...

I mean party in my pants...wanna meet me halfway?? ;)"

etc.

So what can we "eternal losers" learn from this:

That women are not excited by intellect, honesty, or upstanding behavior. They like a hard body, and a hard attitude. They end up marrying wife beaters and dating ex-cons BECAUSE IT TURNS THEM ON.

So, while any reasonably intelligent man wouldn't go near Casino without police protection THIS IS NOT TRUE FOR WOMEN.

I think the myspace page tells the whole story.

End of Lesson. Back to you (and MJ), Casino.
 
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