Life isn't fair, and that's what makes it fair.
Not everyone is born with the same advantages, the same skills, or the same abilities. We know that, it's self-evident. Sometimes that fact alone discourages many. They'll crucify themselves, their genes, their parents, their teachers, their friends, bosses, or anyone who crosses them. Yet...this is the way IT SHOULD BE.
Humans, as a whole, are the only species on the plant that exhibit choice in our lives. We are not required to be anything OTHER than that which we desire to be. On one hand, that's scary. On the other, that's pure freedom.
Once you make it to a state of equilibrium, you're pretty content staying there. Until you're thrown off balance, you have no motivation to move. Think deeper...
If you own PS2, why buy anything else unless circumstances change?
If you tag girls you like, fairly easily, why workout? Why learn languages? Why read?
If your car gets you from A===>B without complaints, why upgrade?
If your job makes you the kind of money you need to fulfill your current life, why educate yourself? Why pursue anymore than we have to?
The fallacy that kills most people is desiring to be in comfortable circle. Once you get there, you're dead. Life will kill you. Think of the millions of people who seek one attainable goal, get it, and consider themselves done. Just think.
-That one girl
-That one job
-That one toy
-That one dream
If it were only as simple as just one, and done, what else would be left to conquer?
Realize...
1. Equilibrium or complacency truly equals death in nature.
2. Get used to it as a means of growing, adapting, and thriving amongst people.
If you weren't unhappy about something, would you fix it? What would prompt you to fix it? Nothing.
Its hard to see the flip side of a situation, and many people will call you fanciful, a dreamer, even too idealist...but realize, THAT'S only one way of thinking, and truly only one Supreme Being guides right or wrong.
While you're drowning in frustration over a girl, a job, education, or workouts, ask yourself:
What can I learn about this situation?
Many times I desire to be complacent, to not have frustrations, to find a way around all that, but then you realize the greatest contradiction...
The people with the greatest frustrations also have the greatest pleasures.
*Money problems are usually the result of TOO MUCH money.
*Girl problems bring with them the obvious nature of HAVING GIRLS. The more you have, the more little quirks you'll encounter.
*Friendship problems stem from many friends conflicting with you or them.
They're not problems, just opportunities to prove yourself and resourcefulness.
