Why is it that women lose so much value once you have them ?

[Bingo-Player]

Although both male and female cheating is rife within marriages and relationships I think its fair to say men probably instigate and think about it more frequently than women

The sex work and entertainment industry for example is heavily geared towards males and male pleasure and surveys show its often married men indulging in such activities

I know from personal experience I tire of partners in a sexual sense quite quickly , I mean one chick I've been dating for a month I'm kind of bored already

My FWB has also lost her appeal to me

I always seem to find myself craving sexual experiences with new females

Does anyone else experience this ? a sort of fatigue of sexual interest for women that you have conquered ?

It's obviously a psychological thing just wondering how common it is and how you've dealt with it ?

 

[DJ Novice]

I experience this.

I find the desire to have s*x with a new woman follows a bell curve (desire on the vertical axis and time on the horizontal axis).

While the suddenness of the drop off can vary depending on how attractive the woman is and how much she is open to experimenting and fulfilling your needs in bed, the decline is inevitable. Hedonic adaptation can’t be beaten.

Once you have bottomed out the desire for a new woman will always be greater.

In terms of dealing with this, I still haven’t found a cure.

 

[BadBoy89]

The make brain needs sexual variety. It’s designed to seek out as many partners and spread its DNA. That’s why porn is so popular, it offers a different girl every night, Imagine if they had 1 porn scene for all times? Wouldn’t work.

Combine that with the fact that a woman‘s attractiveness gets lower by the second, what you are experiencing is normal.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Why isn’t anything ever enough?

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Although both male and female cheating is rife within marriages and relationships I think its fair to say men probably instigate and think about it more frequently than women

The sex work and entertainment industry for example is heavily geared towards males and male pleasure and surveys show its often married men indulging in such activities

I know from personal experience I tire of partners in a sexual sense quite quickly , I mean one chick I've been dating for a month I'm kind of bored already

My FWB has also lost her appeal to me

I always seem to find myself craving sexual experiences with new females

Does anyone else experience this ? a sort of fatigue of sexual interest for women that you have conquered ?

It's obviously a psychological thing just wondering how common it is and how you've dealt with it ?

Well..... its not fair, because women are known to cheat at least as much as men.

Of course sex work and industry are geared towards men as there are A LOT of men getting no sex, because they are either the und(erd)esired bottom 80% or trapped in a relationship with a woman that doesnt deliver.

The craving for new pvssy is more of a luxury problem for men that can attract willing women.

In my experience most men would be happy to have one woman for Life that puts out somewhat frequent sex.

I can relate to your fatigue. Even before i got married, every pvssy got old after a few months.
At some point i had to decide if i ever wanted kids or continue dating 5 new women every year.

The older i get the less important women become and the excitement of the new is not worth giving up having kids or having them around every day.

When low risk opportunities arise i take it, otherwise i remain ignorant, knowing that there is no such thing as THE ONE for me and that i would allways be lusting for the next piece of azz.

 

[Sega Genesis]

I think it happens because you're having sex before you've had a chance to emotionally bond; thus after sex, your initial goal has been satisfied and there's nothing left for you to be excited about and look forward to.

That said familiarity will always breed a certain boredom however when you meet a woman with potential for long term and don't rush into sex allowing yourself (and her) to emotionally bond, together you can find ways to keep the passion alive and the fires burning.

You're more motivated to do that because you're emotionally bonded versus simply finding her hot.

I'm sure this won't fly but it's something to consider if you want something long term.

A possibility.

 

[zekko]

I've always thought a lot of sex is about the novelty, and the curiosity. What does this girl look and feel like under those clothes? Once you know the answer, that part of the situation is satisfied, and there's no more curiosity aspect.

 

[The Duke]

The desire to have sex with a variety of attractive females is built into the fabric I am made from. Its a powerful and natural thing. I'm a natural hunter. Once I drop those panties for the first time, its downhill from there. I WON. Its been that way with every single woman.

If she expects to keep my interest long term, she must stay attractive, sexual, easy to get a long with, supportive, know how to cook, and drama free.

Modern day women seem to not understand they need to offer more than their bodies to keep a man. Old women seem to know that well. They brought a lot more to the table than the talent that is out there today.

And @Sega Genesis you sound like a clueless woman. You are so far off.

 

[Sega Genesis]

And @Sega Genesis you sound like a clueless woman.

Modern day women seem to not understand they need to offer more than their bodies to keep a man.

I'm gonna ignore the potential insult and agree with bolded.. 100%!

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I'm generally not attracted from "good girls" in a sexual sense but Im attracted to them from a personal point of view and like to spend time with them and even get deeper.

Naughty girls make me harder and more interested to go for further rounds but no to have them around or get too personal with them.

So this problem basically increases the one OP mentions which is the dimishing sexual desire toward a woman you are regularly intimate.

Regardind cheating, the man doesnt make it personal, it's simply a deside for something new without losing any feeling or respect for the main partner...women on the other hand cheat when the problem is exactly the main partner cause if she was fine with him, she wouldnt.