Why I hate online dating

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I also asked my ex wife today if she was wet and missed sucking my d1k and she protested for 15 minutes that it was inappropriate and that she never would in a million years but she also told me I am still the best she has ever had. And then she hung up
 

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If women do it online, they're using you as an emotional tampon

If they do it in person, it's a sh1t test

"I don't give a sh1t about your ex"

is the proper response
I'm glad you said this, so many guys are worried about passing women's shyt test, what about men's? I mentioned earlier in the thread that we as men always priortize women's standards and boundaries but what about your own? Some shyt test IMO aren't even test they are just a woman showing her a$$ or dealbreakers. Sometimes "shyt test" are a woman being outright disrespectful to see how much she can get away with in the future or to see what type of man you are. For example, a woman talking about her ex, or

2 years ago I banged a woman I met on Tinder the same day, after we did the deed we talked she started showing me pictures/videos of the boat ridehe had taken the week before. There were a bunch of guys in there, and she was showing me the guys asking if I knew them. I had no clue who they were nor did I care

"Why are you showing me pictures of other guys? I don't wanna see that shyt"​

Total turn off and I know she felt some way however her trying to show me she is desirable or make me jealous who knows nor did I care I just felt it was tacky and talk about not being able to read the room (first time us hanging out even though we banged) but some games women play it's not worth playing with them, as you get older IMO some shyt test expose the immaturity or the lack of cuth of some women, you either check that shyt at the door, walk away or take it. Personally, for me I just don't have the patience anymore as I did in my 20s when it comes to women and their "shyt" test
 

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I'm glad you said this, so many guys are worried about passing women's shyt test, what about men's? I mentioned earlier in the thread that we as men always priortize women's standards and boundaries but what about your own? Some shyt test IMO aren't even test they are just a woman showing her a$$ or dealbreakers. Sometimes "shyt test" are a woman being outright disrespectful to see how much she can get away with in the future or to see what type of man you are. For example, a woman talking about her ex, or

2 years ago I banged a woman I met on Tinder the same day, after we did the deed we talked she started showing me pictures/videos of the boat ridehe had taken the week before. There were a bunch of guys in there, and she was showing me the guys asking if I knew them. I had no clue who they were nor did I care

"Why are you showing me pictures of other guys? I don't wanna see that shyt"​

Total turn off and I know she felt some way however her trying to show me she is desirable or make me jealous who knows nor did I care I just felt it was tacky and talk about not being able to read the room (first time us hanging out even though we banged) but some games women play it's not worth playing with them, as you get older IMO some shyt test expose the immaturity or the lack of cuth of some women, you either check that shyt at the door, walk away or take it. Personally, for me I just don't have the patience anymore as I did in my 20s when it comes to women and their "shyt" test
At weddings, people always mention how lucky the guy is to have her...

I make a point of mentioning how lucky the woman is to have him.

Sh1t tests are a part of dealing with women; there's no avoiding them...

...as you get older, you grow to hate them, as you recognize them for what they are, but you still have to deal with them.

I'm like you, Solomon, i refuse to deal with their games. I go straight to the "fvck you, i'm out."

As i've gotten older, i've lost patience. They're either with me, or they aren't. I don't care either way

Since i've developed this personality in relationships, i've yet to have one leave.
 
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