I'm going to have to disagree with you on this one.rhcp83 said:Why is it that other guys, who aren't even "cool" manage to get decent looking or even hot looking girlfriends?
I think guys just like to complain on here about "the state of the game"...the fact is, people meet each other through common interests, social circles, friends of friends, events.
Yeah you can have some success if you play the numbers game approaching random women, but with women it isn't like with guys where we see a HB and think "HB stranger walking down the street, have to get to know her." Women see HG, HG approaches her, may or may not get the number (depending on her IL and her feelings about being approached) then she goes home and talks to or bangs her ex bf or some social circle guy.
Lord Shinra said:I'm going to have to disagree with you on this one.
Social circles, friend of friends etc doesnt always work. Females are jealous, even if you're just friends, can you imagine her introducing you to another girl who you could bang, and all of a sudden you dont text/call/hang out with her as much. Not saying this cant happen, but it shouldnt be counted on as much as your implying.
And with guys, take a look, theres another thread on here where the OP was talking about how a male friend c0ckblocked him and didnt want to invite him to a party because he didnt want the OP to hook up with anyone. Doesnt sound very social circleish to me. Plus, unless he's in your crew and you follow the rules of war, do you really want another PUA in your girl pool that could try to AMOG you? Doubtful. Think like an AFC. "Do I want Suave Shinra in with my girlfriend, and her friends?"
Yes, its true, the friend of a friend is ideal. I've found it much easier to close the deal on a friend of a friend compared to a cold approach. However; if I sat around and waited on my friends good graces in them introducing me to someone or waiting for a party or outing, I'd still be where I was a few years back.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I decided recently to try that route.rhcp83 said:Why not just go for a nice low maintenance 6/7?
That's exactly the kind of sh1t we have to deal with nowadays. She probably had 5 other options just waiting at her fingertips through texting, online, etc. The question is, how do you combat this? How do we create....Super Game?? However, the error may have been on you, maybe you need to work more on your long term game? Yet, it sounds like you knew what you were doing.Alex DeLarge said:Honestly, Alexlefty.. I don't think women can even admire a dude being smooth anymore. I remember back in the summer I literally had this girl head over heels for me after 2 dates. She would tell me "I can't stop thinking about you" "You're so hot I want to fvck you so bad" etc.. Then a week later, she stops contacting me. I don't mean to sound like I'm all that and a bag of potato chips, but I'm probably the best this chick has ever got. I only got a BJ out of her, but she's never been charmed that much before. I could see it in her eyes. Then she just threw it away. Tough luck for her.
evansblue said:I would imagine most of these flakes are coming from the bars and clubs. You guys gotta quit screwing around. When it comes to those kinds of environments, you go for the kill that night. In other words, get her number, jet off to a different bar and convince her to meet up with you. Waiting 3 days to text/call is going to get you nowhere with those kinds of girls. That mentality only works on girls you know.
My philosophy on bars/clubs is this: It's the weekend, she's tipsy, you're tipsy, she's wearing tight fighting clothing. It's a recipe for a ONS.
If you wait a few days, you lose all those things and the momentum is gone. It's actually going to be TWICE as difficult once that happens. You gotta make it happen. You have to do everything in your power to hook up the same night. Because if you don't, you'll probably never see the girl again. It's gotten to the point if I get a girl's number but we don't meet up that night, I don't even bother trying to establish contact anymore. I just do menu, delete.
yes.evansblue said:if I get a girl's number but we don't meet up that night, I don't even bother trying to establish contact anymore. I just do menu, delete.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
And what's changed since five years ago?Jitterbug said:Five years ago, I used to be able to make plans a week or even two weeks in advance and they would still make it. Now, yes, it has to be within 2-3 days. If it's longer than that (last attempt was 5 days), they might not say anything then, but a flake is certain.
Welcome to the next level of Combat Dating!
What this guy said.Zerro said:The irony that these days we're becoming increasingly connected yet increasing isolated.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.