I love when other people pretend they know more about my relationships than I do, based on stereotypes.
Anyhow, this thread was created awhile ago and I wanted to reflect on the ultimate outcome.
She later confessed (at one of her horniest moments) that she "love(d) so many things about" me and that I "could be perfect" but that there were a few changes she wanted to make. I said "But you can't tell me or it will ruin it" and she said "Exactly".
In general, they should be overwhelmed by attraction though. It shouldn't be a negotiation process, so it was a bad sign overall. We made it another 8 months after that, but in the end her interest level just wasn't high enough.