I met my date tonight it started off really well i had her laughing in hysterics on the walk to the bar..
but as soon as we got to sit down and attempted to order drinks (the waiter was slow) the conversation went stale and she didnt' ask me questions.
but she was one of these chatty chatty girls who you can't tell if she likes you or is just being friendly. She never kino'd me which was frustrating. I attempted kino and she was quite receptive at 1st but then later wasn't so much, she even let me massage her shoulders, maybe i should have gone in and kissed her neck when i pushed her hair to the side.
admittedly when she was semi-rejecting my kino it made me nervous and thats maybe when her interest started to drop. every time i attempted to grab her hand or whatnot she'd quite quickly let go. this unsettled me. do you think me keep attempting to touch her would make me come across as sleazy and creepy so it's better i just left it when i did?
she went to the bathroom after i gave the brief massage. when she came back she was ready to leave. she kept talking about her exam tomorrow and how she shouldn't have been out (which shows it was a good sign that she had high enough interest in me to come out with me)
i did DLV myself by saying later walking her back to the station that 'i appreciate you coming out given u have an exam tomorrow and i'd prefer next time we go out you're less stressed.'
i mean i made suggestions when me and her would meet up again like go explore places and she was very receptive but that could also mean im friendzoned.
see now cos valentines is sunday and i know you're not suppose to arrange 2nd date on 1st date, but i had to go for it. I didn't want to seem as if i was desperate and i told her i was busy until 5pm sunday but after i'm free and i'd take her out, she's like 'oh i'll let u know how the studying is going and if its ok then we'll meet up' i asked her if she had exam monday cos i wanted her less stressed next time.
anyway when i kissed her goodbye at the station she said she'd text me how her exam goes tomorrow. im using this as a tester to see if she wants me to take her out sunday or whether shes not interested.
why is it that she's not attracted? i mean i know you're suppose to kino, i did.. maybe too much.. and the convo flowed well i had her laughing and we have similar sense of humor but that doesn't seem enough.
but as soon as we got to sit down and attempted to order drinks (the waiter was slow) the conversation went stale and she didnt' ask me questions.
but she was one of these chatty chatty girls who you can't tell if she likes you or is just being friendly. She never kino'd me which was frustrating. I attempted kino and she was quite receptive at 1st but then later wasn't so much, she even let me massage her shoulders, maybe i should have gone in and kissed her neck when i pushed her hair to the side.
admittedly when she was semi-rejecting my kino it made me nervous and thats maybe when her interest started to drop. every time i attempted to grab her hand or whatnot she'd quite quickly let go. this unsettled me. do you think me keep attempting to touch her would make me come across as sleazy and creepy so it's better i just left it when i did?
she went to the bathroom after i gave the brief massage. when she came back she was ready to leave. she kept talking about her exam tomorrow and how she shouldn't have been out (which shows it was a good sign that she had high enough interest in me to come out with me)
i did DLV myself by saying later walking her back to the station that 'i appreciate you coming out given u have an exam tomorrow and i'd prefer next time we go out you're less stressed.'
i mean i made suggestions when me and her would meet up again like go explore places and she was very receptive but that could also mean im friendzoned.
see now cos valentines is sunday and i know you're not suppose to arrange 2nd date on 1st date, but i had to go for it. I didn't want to seem as if i was desperate and i told her i was busy until 5pm sunday but after i'm free and i'd take her out, she's like 'oh i'll let u know how the studying is going and if its ok then we'll meet up' i asked her if she had exam monday cos i wanted her less stressed next time.
anyway when i kissed her goodbye at the station she said she'd text me how her exam goes tomorrow. im using this as a tester to see if she wants me to take her out sunday or whether shes not interested.
why is it that she's not attracted? i mean i know you're suppose to kino, i did.. maybe too much.. and the convo flowed well i had her laughing and we have similar sense of humor but that doesn't seem enough.