Why do women like losers with 0 game, 0 $, 0 looks, 0 power?

[Trajhenkhet01]

And lets also take into account we don't know the full "score". How many "others" were there, is there 3rd, 4th, and 5th parties involved, how much jacked up crap is allowed on behind closed doors?

 

[bigjohnson]

I love it when someone is spouting their game stuff as fact and then complains because real life doesn't agree with their notions of what life should be. Clearly real life is wrong and their theory is right.

Suuuure.

Bottom line, you can't learn to be charming in real life in a book or online, no matter how much you pay. Best you can hope for is pointers and a place to start.

I think the OP is on to something. Some women do like losers. I think it is these men while not unconfident are very accepting of the woman and passive. The women feels validated and not pressured and doesn't see the guy as a threat and someone to be insecure with or as someone to envy. Women often date losers in one form or another. Women aren't rational.

Absolutely, and real life experience will teach how to identify and successfully interact with those. It's about knowing and understanding the audience. Some guys seem to be naturals with certain types for sure.

 

[magickarl]

If women are really throwing themselves all over poor fat losers in SC, then I guess there is no-one with game there. I think I'm going to move to South Carolina and clean up shop.

Seriously. Get yourself some game and do it fast, if thats what the DJ market is like in the area, you should be rolling in vag.

 

[I'm Charming]

Bottom line, you can't learn to be charming in real life in a book or online, no matter how much you pay. Best you can hope for is pointers and a place to start.

You've got that right, in real life I really am the opposite of charming.

Edit: As a loser for the most part of my life I can say that women generally do not even consider losers and dirtbags as a romantic option.

 

[SuavePlaya]

Have you ever thought that those girls are losers to since they are attracted to loser guys. Those girls have the same issues as the guys they date, the make up they wear doesn't automatically mean that they are above these loser guys that they date.

 

[bigjohnson]

You've got that right, in real life I really am the opposite of charming.

Edit: As a loser for the most part of my life I can say that women generally do not even consider losers and dirtbags as a romantic option.

I suspect the OP has misidentified the so-called loser dirtbags, or has an odd idea of what a hottie is. Or both. Or maybe he's just pissed and venting because his results with women suck. Something like that.

 

[Dstructor]

Question...
We all have "Game" or pretty satisfied with the work we done on ourselves

Why is there so much hate on those who aren't ?
Is it the mere fact of them getting what you busted your ass to get without paying what you had to pay ?

Please someone answer coz the only sense this is making is if you didn't like going through PU and felt compelled to do so and use routines to get chicks; i know if busted my ass to get a promotion doing what i didn't like and someone else waltzed in and got it i'd be defensive at first

 

[I'm Charming]

I suspect the OP has misidentified the so-called loser dirtbags, or has an odd idea of what a hottie is. Or both. Or maybe he's just pissed and venting because his results with women suck. Something like that.

I'll go with the latter to be honest.

So many threads here strike me as the "My results suck so I blame (insert something stupid here)", the fact that college chicks are "engaged" or that "dirtbags" get the hotties or whatever. Fictitious bullsh#t really.

Or maybe this is just me trying to justify my lack of results by laughing at other peoples failures.

We'll never know.

 

[snowdog]

I suspect the OP has misidentified the so-called loser dirtbags, or has an odd idea of what a hottie is. Or both. Or maybe he's just pissed and venting because his results with women suck. Something like that.

Best post of the thread.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Well, this thread has gotten busy...

Here is my idea why women date "losers".

(someone might of said this.)

They like the guy for: Who he is, how he acts, and how he makes her feel. The answer is all that simple.

 

[reset]

Women don't think, they feel. If she's feeling you, there is nothing she can do about it, and none of the things you think are drawbacks can override the chemical reaction going on inside her.

Don't make the mistake of thinking that women look at men the way men look at men.

 

[edger]

Don't make the mistake of thinking that women look at men the way men look at men.

EXACTLY! Perfectly said. This is what I always say. Attraction works completely different for women than it does for men. The way men are turned on by physical attributes(a hot woman), a woman is turned on by behavioral attributes(the way a guy carries himself).

A man grows up being taught that as long as he's good-looking, he'll have no problem reeling in the babes. This is a classic example of the Matrix, because it doesn't work that way. I'm not saying a guys good-looks doesn't ever give him an "in", I'm just saying, most of the time, it doesn't, from what I've experienced.

Avg./below avg. looking guys a long time ago have come to terms and realized they weren't good-looking. So, their mentality becomes, "Well, what do I have to lose by approaching and chatting up this hottie". They don't give a f*ck. The "not giving a f*ck" attitude is perceived as confidence, which it actually is. When you get to the point of not giving a f*ck, you actually become confident.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?

Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.

You know why? because they can control them. They are the guys that get pu$$y-whipped and submit to a women's demands, but make her feel good in the process.

An AFC doesn't attract a girl, but a PUA can be turned into an AFC and a lot of girls want that because they feel power over him.

 

[More Cowbell Please]

Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?

Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.

Hey man, what's up? I'm from the Greenville/Spartanburg area. All I can say is that it's a redneck state. I think Greenville is not quite as bad, but I get what you are saying. The filthiest, dumb hick-f*cked criminals are surprisingly successful around here. The chicks also like violent drunks. Maybe the women are just dumb. SC is one of the worst states for violence against women.

My advice would be to attend a few churches that have a good supply of decent classy women who don't go for dumb f*cks for starters. Either that or do what me and my buddy are doing in a year or so: Move the f*ck somewhere else or start traveling more.

 

[More Cowbell Please]

You know why? because they can control them. They are the guys that get pu$$y-whipped and submit to a women's demands, but make her feel good in the process.

An AFC doesn't attract a girl, but a PUA can be turned into an AFC and a lot of girls want that because they feel power over him.

I totally agree with you there. A lot of these guys are being used. I know quite a few chicks around here who are doing this, but would give it up for a good time on the sneak.

There are also a lot of abusive BFs and husbands around here who would beat up or kill a chick for cheating.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

I totally agree with you there. A lot of these guys are being used. I know quite a few chicks around here who are doing this, but would give it up for a good time on the sneak.

There are also a lot of abusive BFs and husbands around here who would beat up or kill a chick for cheating.

Some are being used, but yet some of them are just the recipe for making a girl feel good. Some girls are so soft that a guy of confidence, a guy who has power and works a great job, is out of their league.

Then there are the girls who are super hot, work the really busy job, and would like the Joe couch potato type of guy who is always home, doesn't go out with the guys at night, and stuff like that.

I'm more of the "I like to go out with the guys but you can come with me" type and I'll even hang out with her friends too. But be careful, her friends will never be your friends, and they always seem to talk sh!t about you when you break up. (and they will never talk to you again, lol)

 

[tsmith2334]

There is some truth to the original post. Among other things, I think some woman feel uncomfortable being too happy and will gravitate away from it to an extent.

I once dated a woman who, quite frankly, liked being poor and abused. She left me for an abusive ex twice after promising she wouldn't.

You can throw all that emotions crap out the window, she just liked being abused physically and emotionally because she had grown up seeing such a cycle and it felt comfortable to her.

She was only responsive to me when I ignored her or treated her questionably. Since I didn't enjoy doing that and rarely did, she was back to being beaten and abused emotionally in no time. I couldn't make up the story if I tried.

And that kind of thing happens all the time.

 

[MoveYourAss...]

The answer to the OP is: Pulling a chick is not rocket science.

Just don't overcomplicate things.

 

[Rex Man]

Why do women like losers with 0 game, 0 $, 0 looks, 0 power?

Yet you took time out to post about them. These losers apparantly have power over your mind. There goes that whole '0' power thing....
If you feel strongly about this theory, scar up your face, get fat, wire me all your money, and quit your job. You'll be in babeland in no time