Serenity
Moderator
Keeping the frame is more about self-control than controlling others. This is because you cannot extend control if you do not first of all control yourself. To keep your frame is to NOT let stupid shit that women do heavily impact how you feel, but instead respond calmy in a calculated manner. Like you know what you're doing and what effects it most likely will have.
You're thinking too big, you can't change the mind of all men that easily. We do have the power to change, to not tolerate bad behavior by walking away. But collectively we do not change by wanting everyone to change and give up if not everyone does it. Change starts with yourself, then one dude at the time you can spread this new (not really) way of operation. The single most effective thing you can do is to walk away and teach others to walk away. That's the way to spend the least amount of energy on them, it's the best way to tell them exactly how little they're worth, so little you don't bother. But you're thinking there's always someone who stays, well you only have absolute control of yourself.
Hey, I'm with you on this and so are many others. But social change doesn't happen over night, so meanwhile don't let ot bother you too much because you can't fix it. Not all women are bad, so meanwhile put your attention on any woman who isn't just another bitch.
You cannot make everyone think the same, it's not possible. You do have power to change stuff, this isn't one of those things where you either do or don't. It's a lot more diffuse than that and you must determine WHAT you can and cannot change and WHY. In any case you cannot control the world, only influence it. You do so by your own actions which is the only thing you truly can control, yourself.
I'd stop going to that bank and check up on any other bank I use to be sure they're doing it properly. This will motivate banks to be as proper and honest as possible, because they'll lose customers if not.
Oh shit, I never knew you talked about the black community. Trust me, further destruction is necessary before those bitches learn anything. Listen to @Desdinova . Remove yourself from the problem. I know you think you can change this, but it's an active volcano and you wouldn't run into the lava flow of an active volcano would you?
Black american women is the worst humans on the planet, run.
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