Why do Simps even exist?

[Georgepithyou]

I don't understand the mentality of a simp, don't they realise simping and desperately lusting after a woman online won't achieve anything? All they are doing is validating her and pumping her ego up thus ruining it for everyone else.

You would think these simps learn after the first time that it doesn't work, yet they continue to do it.

Einstein's definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So are Simps just insane?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don't understand the mentality of a simp, don't they realise simping and desperately lusting after a woman online won't achieve anything? All they are doing is validating her and pumping her ego up thus ruining it for everyone else.

You would think these simps learn after the first time that it doesn't work, yet they continue to do it.

Einstein's definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So are Simps just insane?

Simps exist to raise the girls confidence and emotional state so she can engage with guys who don't really want her without a huge negative consequence. She gets the sexual validation from the guy she is chasing and gets her emotional and physical needs met by the simp.

 

[Xenom0rph]

I often say that men are utterly clueless when it comes to interpersonal dynamics..... Women crave attention and validation, yet men give it away for free and wonder why women have inflated egos....

....SIMPs offering free attention and validation has artificially inflated female egos the same way the stock market has been artificially inflated through Quantitative Easing.....

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

I don't understand the mentality of a simp, don't they realise simping and desperately lusting after a woman online won't achieve anything? All they are doing is validating her and pumping her ego up thus ruining it for everyone else.

You would think these simps learn after the first time that it doesn't work, yet they continue to do it.

Einstein's definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So are Simps just insane?

It's a manifestation of their insecurities. Finding genuine women is easier since all the insecure ones will settle for simps. Like attracts like.

 

[Asseater]

Not everyone is a natural, and basically everything about society teaches the exact opposite of how a man should act. I do not fault current day men raised by single mothers and a society that loathes manliness in every way for the way that they behave. Don't look down on these guys, feel sorry for them and do your best to be an example for them of what being a true man means.

 

[skinnyguy]

It’s because they have no other options. A lot of guys have been conditioned to use flattery because nothing else ever worked for them. The woman never batted an eye at them when they used direct approaches, and trying to ask them out hurt their feelings, so going this route is “safer” and they are less likely to get rejected. Maybe for them, the end goal isn’t necessarily to get laid because they think they don’t stand a chance with the woman. If a woman thanks them for simping, that’s enough for them. They just want to be recognized.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Simps exist to raise the girls confidence and emotional state so she can engage with guys who don't really want her without a huge negative consequence. She gets the sexual validation from the guy she is chasing and gets her emotional and physical needs met by the simp.

Why don't these "men" realise that simping does not work? If it doesn't work why keep doing it? That does not make any sense to me.

I often say that men are utterly clueless when it comes to interpersonal dynamics..... Women crave attention and validation, yet men give it away for free and wonder why women have inflated egos....

....SIMPs offering free attention and validation has artificially inflated female egos the same way the stock market has been artificially inflated through Quantitative Easing.....

Exactly if you give value to others for free it just lowers your value, yet these simps don't seem to be able to comprehend that.

 

[thinker]

Some men are so starved for female attention that they will do anything for it no matter how dumb or degrading it is. They are also so locked into the matrix that they can't see any other way of doing or being.

 

[Atom Smasher]

They were raised by and educated by women.

 

[Who Dares Win]

They were raised by and educated by women.

Agree, raised from women in a feminine society.

 

[AttackFormation]

Agree, raised from women in a feminine society.

But with this logic you would think women would not want their own sons to be raised into simps, right? I don't think it's a case of sabotage, it's that just like many men, they just don't know better and nothing ever provoked them into knowing better.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But with this logic you would think women would not want their own sons to be raised into simps, right? I don't think it's a case of sabotage, it's that just like many men, they just don't know better and nothing ever provoked them into knowing better.

I already told the guys here that my mother the feminist since the 70's explained to me that if a lady doesn't "put out" it's a really bad thing. You see after all their expiramenting and validational sex, sex becomes something not much more than a kiss on the mouth to them. It's really not a big deal. My mother felt that I treat my ladies good and if one of them didn't "put out" or made sex a "big deal" that it's a bad thing and to dump her.

So women may be part of feminism, they might receive some of the entitlements, but they also might know how men are negatively affected and have advise on things that their sons should not do. .. But with that being said, MOST women IMHO raising sons will raise them to support the current feminism and fvck their sons over in the process.

 

[LuksSkywalker]

I often say that men are utterly clueless when it comes to interpersonal dynamics..... Women crave attention and validation, yet men give it away for free and wonder why women have inflated egos....

Word!

 

[LuksSkywalker]

I often say that men are utterly clueless when it comes to interpersonal dynamics..... Women crave attention and validation, yet men give it away for free and wonder why women have inflated egos....

Funny story happened couple of years ago.
I was on summer holidays with my friends and we met a cute neighbour who was alone in her house, so she often hung out with us. A friend (who is a "playa") would joke with her about how she painted her nails poorly, how her hair is all messy in the morning and in the end he persuaded her to give him her bracelet (which was gender neutral, an anchor or something). At one point it was almost as if he was insulting her (not offensive or rude) but in a funny way. He would always comment something bad/wrong on her and I was starting to feel sorry for her...
But, she was eating from his hand. You could see day by day that she likes him even more and he couldn't care about her any less. It was like watching someone play a game on easy mode.
Anyhow, he didn't bang her. She refused him one night because he was too pushy, but day after she was still acting the same as before.
She was cute but her despair overshadowed this cuteness.

 

[Who Dares Win]

But with this logic you would think women would not want their own sons to be raised into simps, right? I don't think it's a case of sabotage, it's that just like many men, they just don't know better and nothing ever provoked them into knowing better.

I perfectly understand that it doesnt make any sense as much as for most women willingly getting intimate with known violent uncommitted man and getting beaten day after day.

In my opinion women dont really understand how it works for men, I mean they know what works for a man to be attractive to women but they dont understand what it needs for a man to be successful.

They probably thing that being part of the group benefits men as much as it benefits women therefore they support a conflict avoiding policy when it comes of social rules even when that leads to a damage.

But again I dont think its all on their mothers but probably on the women that grow kids nowadays, teachers especially.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Agree, raised from women in a feminine society.

Beat me to it.

 

[R.U.G.]

Since the late 70s, men have been conditioned to please and pander to women. This is the standard protocol. There are some men who have seen the light and know the truth. Those men have met the red pill and know the truth. When a man goes against the grain, women and society take notice. As time goes on and more men check out red pill content (real stuff, not the poser sh!t), they too will see the light.

 

[skinnyguy]

Some men are so starved for female attention that they will do anything for it no matter how dumb or degrading it is. They are also so locked into the matrix that they can't see any other way of doing or being.

Yup. But the real question is, how did we get here?

These chain of events have increased the incidence of simping:

Women only date/phuck top tier guys——> a large majority of men get left out of the dating pool——> these men get more desperate as their status gets relatively lower and lower——> start pandering to women, even the low quality ones, to get some attention because they are not in the same world as the guys who are getting laid

Keep in mind that this is cyclical. As men start simping more and more, women start becoming MORE hypergamous, to the point that the HB 3 thinks she has a chance with a top tier Chad (thanks OLD!). Even the dudes who previously would have had access to a market of women no longer have one. So they are now starved for attention because the game is so rigged against them.

 

[Seductions_Mad_Scientist]

I don't understand the mentality of a simp, don't they realise simping and desperately lusting after a woman online won't achieve anything? All they are doing is validating her and pumping her ego up thus ruining it for everyone else.

You would think these simps learn after the first time that it doesn't work, yet they continue to do it.

Einstein's definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So are Simps just insane?

In a given subject, there are often more people doing the work wrong than the minority doing it right.

It's a legitimate, although ineffective strategy. Just as prostitution/pure transactionism is and just as conventional marriages are and maybe even arranged marriage.

It has the right to exist as a strategy even if its ****in stupid and doesnt work. Just as in poker you could in theory go all-in with a 2,7 off-suit. I wouldn't recommend it but its a strategy none the less.

 

[Seductions_Mad_Scientist]

Thing about simps is that reality teaches them real quick through pain. And then it becomes a matter of how much pain they can tolerate. But no matter how much they suffer, they never wise up and turn on their goddesses. They turn on their fellow man instead. Like a house negro that's happy to live in the plantation so long as he gets treated a little bit better. Maybe he gets a "like" on instagram.

It's not like they are clueless. They know exactly what they are doing - through PAIN. Noone can simp without indescribable pain. For every action, there's an equal reaction. Noone is a victim. The Universe teaches you really quick what works and what doesn't work DESPITE your social conditioning. Simping will get you cucked relentlessly.

They all chose their lot in life DESPITE the pain. . We cannot feel sorry for them, but pity them, steal their lunch money, give them wedgies, cuck them in front of their female friends, and remind them as much as we can of the pain they put themselves in. Failure to do so would be a disservice to them. When you want to condition a coward, you punch him in the face until he has enough and hits you back. That's how men grow - since the beginning of mankind. The guy who gets bullied becomes the more ferocious fighter. The guy with the biggest chip on his shoulder ends up winning the most championships.

Seems like society has forgotten how men are conditioned. Everywhere you look, you see nothing but excuses, sympathy, and coddling. A guy can only transform when he is thrown into the fire and told "Thrive or die."

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