Why do most Older Men HATE Older women?

[Zerro]

At 30 if a woman my age or older is still single then it's for a good reason. Such women also tend not to be any much more mature than one in her early-to-mid 20's so if I'm likely to deal with the same drama I might as well have the younger, prettier, less jaded woman.

My mother is 6 years younger than my dad, my girlfriend is 5 years younger than I. Seems natural to me.

 

[d!ckmojo]

hahahaha.

tooo funny.

but you know, and maybe im in hte minority here, i think there are lots of women who have only been in committed relationships with guys they care about. there are lots of women who haven't banged 20 guys, but rather just 2-5 of them.

I disagree with this ^^

I think the percentage of women in the world today under the age of 30 with less than at least 20 lifetime sexual partners is vanishingly small, unless of course she's a TOTAL ugger.

Girls think they're soo sexually "empowered" these days. They just want to f*ck f*ck f*ck alpha c0cks endlessly, and sex is sooo easy for them to arrange.

All girls are wh0res, we've just got to admit it and become players ourselves. There are no princess-virgins like the fairytales in this f*cked up post-feminist world we've inherited.

 

[Burroughs]

When you go to the supermarket to buy strawberries

do you

get old, rotten, blackened, fruit with flies buzzing around it?

orrrrrrrr

young, fresh, red, sweet fruit?

simple right...

 

[Who Dares Win]

The only good reason to get an oldie instead of a young one was that the oldies were lower maintenance and were actually grateful for being approached and courted, any man no matter what he say like his woman to show acceptance of him.

Right now oldies are just as entitled and spoiled as young girls due to cougar hype from media and cheap feminism therefore its simply pointless to go after them.

If it takes the same work and trouble lets just aim to the bigger reward.

 

[nismo-4]

I love this topic!

The only good reason to get an oldie instead of a young one was that the oldies were lower maintenance and were actually grateful for being approached and courted, any man no matter what he say like his woman to show acceptance of him.

Right now oldies are just as entitled and spoiled as young girls due to cougar hype from media and cheap feminism therefore its simply pointless to go after them.

If it takes the same work and trouble lets just aim to the bigger reward.

This is how it is in real life with older women, guys started thinking that they were a better option than younger women, and because of all the hype about all this taboo sh*t, look at all the power they have now. Especially in Atlanta! I'm never marrying one of those b**ches!

A lot of women like to hold out for a top 10% guy, but women often times end up settling and getting attached to a guy with less. Even so, said women decides whether or not to promote her current guy to boyfriend status or just keep him as a friend.

I'd rather have a relationship with an older woman, but they get quite upset when they find out I'm not a millionaire yet.

 

[ilikecharlene]

I am curious about this. I'm curious to know why some older men HATE to date women around their age. And don't tell me it's because women between 18-25 are hotter. I think it has much more to do then just looks. I mean...I have seen plenty of older women who still look atttractive..

When I was in college I remember hanging out at the bars and I would see some older guys there hitting on young chicks. I would always think to myself "This is a college town. Why are these guys here? What could this guy have in common with these immature girls?" It was very confusing to me thjat MEN in their late thirties and forties hitting on teenagers.

You would think by a time a man got to that age he would already be well established in his career and have his own social network of friends that he wouldn't even care about going to college bars hitting on teenagers. So what is it? Are older women soo bad? I would really like know.

Midlife crisis.

 

[don't]

I"ve seen DAMNED FEW women in their 50's who are still attractive, many have lost their looks in their 40's, if not sooner. also, the older women ha've had lots of bad experiences with men, had friends with likewise, they have kids, grandkids, groups, etc, so their time available and interest in men is practically all gone.

 

[zekko]

also, the older women ha've had lots of bad experiences with men, had friends with likewise, they have kids, grandkids, groups, etc, so their time available and interest in men is practically all gone.

I think there's some truth to this. It seems like a lot of older women have lost their interest in men, or maybe they've just given up. I know several older women, usually divorced or widowed, they're happy living alone, filling their time with their family.

They seem to recall dealing with their men as a bunch of hassles, and enjoy making their own choices. A lot of it is probably lower sex drive, especially after menopause, maybe they tired of the constant demand for sex, too.

Of course, since they're older, they're not as desireable, so maybe it could be reawakened in them, I don't know. Men go for the younger girls. But I don't see this attitude in older men so much - "I don't have any interest in having women around". It seems uniquely female. Somebody said here that women don't need men like men need women, there may be some truth to that. At least in this day and age, where women can earn their own living.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

i guess we should be lucky to be born male, LMAO!

 

[RebeckahB]

Hmmm....

I hate to admit I get why there's some disenchantment with older women. I know some of them, but I pretty much avoid wimmin. The subjects I like usually don't interest other women, or (to be honest), they're too damned dumb to have a serious conversation with.

I just like men, as friends (really, it's possible.) I'm 41 and widowed. I also have to say I've had great relationships with men my entire life. I have no complaints at all about the masculine sex.

Not all women, young, old, or ancient, are as bad as you think. It's a matter of finding the right one. Trust me - there are a significant number of women who love men as men, and we really, really do not want to date one who is prettier than we are.

Maybe you can try this: find out how a potential woman got along with her father. Daddy's girls, like me, generally adore men without being saps. Girls who didn't have good relationships with their fathers, IMHO, are the ones who have all kinds of freaking problems.

 

[Julbline]

Close to 95% of ALL marriages are between peers (people within 5 years of each other). This statistic is almost identical in the UK, US, Canada and Australia. The reason for this is: women don't like old men anymore than men like old women (for all the same reasons). Generally women want to settle down in their twenties or thirties with a man their own age and this is what they invariably do. The most recent research (easy enough to find) shows that up to age 30, women favour men about two years older than themselves. After age 30, their ideal man is five years younger, although this is said to plateau to a much lower age after 40. Delusional men may insist they can choose whatever aged woman they want, but the reality is very very different, particularly now as women have choices. 95% of marriages I've attended myself have been women in their late twenties or early thirties marrying men in their late twenties or early thirties. The other 10% have been women in their forties marrying men in their forties, usually a second marriage but not always. But carry on deluding yourself, if it makes you feel better.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I am 46, the woman I am seeing is 47. She has a great bod and we have a pretty good sex life. Because we have both been through relationship hell we both know we don't want to live with somone, we are both intetested in just having fun and enjoying each other.

She might be the exception to the rule. Yeah, it is harder for men and women to stay physically attractive in their 40s but not impossible.

The plus side of women in their 40s is lots of them have tried a serious relationship and now they don't want a new family they just want to have fun. They arr also getting slightly less crazy because they know themselves better in my experience.
I am not really interested in teen agers. They are friggin aliens.

 

[bigneil]

Men want signs of fertility. That is their only incentive to be loyal to a woman unless she built a relationship with him and was LOYAL to him. She was NOT.

These women born around 1970 were monsters. They had 6 guys each until the women born around 1984 came on the market (2002). So men my age (46) remember basically being mistreated by "hang out, hook up" bar slvts who didn't want boyfriends. They demanded McMansions. They were horrible mothers. They went on welfare in huge numbers. Had abortions.

And to top it off, they became bitter and angry with age. So it's not just that younger women look hotter (they do, men always prefer women who are 20) it's that they are less sweet and more demanding.

Young women:

1) Prettiest
2) Sweetest
3) Least number of STDs
4) Least number of kids
5) Less likely to be jaded
6) Most likely to pair bond
7) Happy if you have enough money to get through the month

Old women:

1) Faded beauty (often plasticized)
2) Attitudes
3) Lots of STDs
4) Lots of kids
5) Likely to be jaded
6) Unlikely to pair bond
7) Sad if you don't have enough money to retire

 

[Steady Eddie]

Older women run the same game as young women, but market themselves as mature. It's depressing to see an older woman try to play me in the same way she would've 20 years earlier. It shows she doesn't respect my age or experience.

Is a woman's game so foolproof she never has to change it?

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I see a few older guys still trying to pretend they are 20. It is not just women who struggle to adapt.

 

[bigneil]

I see a few older guys still trying to pretend they are 20. It is not just women who struggle to adapt.

A man dating a woman who is 20 is NOT pretending they are 20.

Men who are 20 live with their moms and orbit women like flies on poop. They have zero job experience, zero muscle usually, and most have been feminized by single mothers and Hillary supporters all their lives.

Every man wants to date a woman who is 20. Every man over 40 would choose two 20 year olds if he could - if he could.

NOTE: A man who is in his 40's dating a woman in her 20's should ALWAYS carry himself in a way that her DAD would respect. That often means treating her better than he himself did. You should treat her like a lady. Be a shining example of how a woman on a date should be treated. Spoil her. If she needs to see a dentist or a car repair man, you are supposed to have acquired the extra resources that you can improve her life. She should later tell you that you ruined dating for her by making all the guys her age look like jokes. It can only work if she is ATTRACTED.

Study the men who get the 20 year old women and emulate their behavior.

 

[bigneil]

Women don't like old men anymore than men like old women (for all the same reasons)..

Assuming you mean "older men" thus calling men 5+ years older "old", this is absolutely, categorically false. This is a feminist lie.

Since the dawn of mankind, women have chosen older men because older men have resources, so women who chose older men tended to reproduce more successfully.

Case in point: A man will NEVER date a woman who is a 1 out of 10 in looks. She could be a Billionaire. A woman however will date a guy who is a 1 if he makes $245,000 a year.

Furthermore, Men retain the ability to generate sperm while women are born with a finite number of eggs, eggs that go bad with time.

Men are about 10 times more focused on looks than women, and women are about 10 times more focused on resources.

Natural selection - Assuming older men have more resources, they are better fathers. Statistics on younger men and women are the reason why now (in a tanking economy) divorce rates are skyrocketing. Younger men can no longer provide for women their age.

I've observed that women born in the 1960's dated men 3 years older. Women born in the 1970's were cougars. Women born in the 1980's dated men who were their age. Women born in the 1990's (Cougar's Daughters) will date men 30 years older and love it. They stole their mom's boy toys.

So the "for all the same reasons" qualifier above is also categorically, patently false.

Working example: I'm 46 and I made a 20 year old woman and 19 year old woman (both beauty queens) orgasms in a span of 6 days. Since then, every woman I meet throws themselves at me. Men, eat organic!

 

[bigneil]

Close to 95% of ALL marriages are between peers (people within 5 years of each other). This statistic is almost identical in the UK, US, Canada and Australia. The reason for this is: women don't like old men anymore than men like old women (for all the same reasons). .. But carry on deluding yourself, if it makes you feel better.

Oh and this isn't Jaylan/EyeBRollin/Latisha's first post? Say it, princess: President Trump!

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

@bigneil I didn't say a 40yr old dating 20 yr olds is acting like a 20 yr old. Hey more power to them.. I just daid there a some 40yr old guys acting like 20yr olds. I see them in clubs, where the average age is 18 trying to fit in.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Oh and this isn't Jaylan/EyeBRollin/Latisha's first post? Say it, princess: President Trump!

I wonder how he/she can survive now that there arent neg reps to be given in the forum.