Why do most Older Men HATE Older women?

[Vulpine]

Don't forget baggage.

What I consider baggage stems from a collection of influences.

Baggage 1: Past failed relationships and the negativity associated.
Baggage 2: Years of accumulated media/marketing bullsh!t collecting in the brain over the years like so much chloresterol hardening in the arteries.
Baggage 3: Peers/family/ticking clock pressures. Bitter friends, family criticisms, and the biological clock ticking collectively torture an older woman just as the dripping water on the forehead does in water torture.

I can almost hear a choir of feminists screaming now...
"All those things make a woman BETTER and more MATURE!"

Enough water under a bridge will weaken the foundation. Over time, the mature bridge will collapse from erosion. Time takes its toll on all things. The elements work together to return everything to the soil. Older women, are... older women. The are just plain closer to death. You can't argue that as a positive thing.

 

[nonchalant]

I don't hate older women - but that's like asking, why do you prefer freshly prepared filet mignon to day old McDonalds Big Mac?

 

[edmond]

We don't like dating old women. A man may only be as old as he acts but a woman is as old as she looks.

Words of wisdom.
Just looking at MOST women over 30 makes me puke, lard arse, pancake make up, mini skirts, saggy guts, and STILL playing hard to get, like anyone cares.
I did rather hump a goat.

 

[Hitman10000]

Cause basically if a woman is single by the time she is 30, yet average looking and above and hasn't just got out of a divorce more than likely: Something is wrong with her. It's age-old wisdom, even women know it with that magic Three Zero digits.

 

[lookyoung]

Why do I only seem to date younger women? (I'm 32, BTW).

A - there aren't very many single women in my age bracket. Most of the good ones have been picked up.

B - both 20-ish and 30-ish women have "issues" that you have to deal with. 20-ish girls are immature and flaky, but 30-ish women are generally kinda depressed and needy

C - 20-ish women ARE hotter. I'm sorry, there's no question about this. The only sexual thing in the older women's corner is that they are more sexually experienced

D - because I can

But... just like Victory said... I don't discriminate based on age. I've met 19 year olds that were more mature than me, and 37 year olds that flake on a daily basis.

Your on the money. These are the exact reasons I generally date younger woman.

 

[realsmoothie]

Older women, are... older women. The are just plain closer to death. You can't argue that as a positive thing.

That's cold, Vulpine.

 

[Latinoman]

Great responses everybody. Obviously we are MEN and love LOOKS. But I know it goes deeper then that. And many of you guys have brought some good points. If you guys have anything else to say about this...that would be great.

Another quick response by me.

Women are more emotional than men. And regardless of what any woman might say, women WANT the security of having a man by their side. That's why weddings marketing focus on the woman.

Consequently, an older, that happens to be ALONE is a woman that is likely internally bitter or have some other serious emotional issues. Those issues could range from not fullfiling that fanatasy dream of having the fantasy wedding with "happily ever after" ending to simply issues due to a divorce or due to a series of bad relationships. Then add the ones that are alone "by choice" because of a career, well these ones are as bad because their saddness or bitterness is toward man in general (perhaps even blaming men for having to work harder, etc. to reach her goals).

And as importantly, women after certain age (I like to use the 35+ as a reference...but it could also be a little younger) is NOT going to change. Or better yet, the chances of changing or adjusting are very slim. Of course, they will either go to a hibernation stage (do a search on this under my name) in order to lure a man into a LTR or marriage.

And an older woman (35+) is considerably better at hiding her emotional deficiencies.

And finally the sex issue. Women by nature have less testosterene than men. And as they get older, they start losing their sexual desire (with some sparks due to reaching menopause or to lure a man into a marriage) and then once menopause reaches they either completely lose that desire OR considerably lose the desire. What if that woman goes to menopause at age 51? Do you think it would be fair for me, if I was ALSO 51 to stop sexual activities? So, wouldn't be better if she was 51 and I was 65? So, both can go TOGETHER through the stages? Of course, when people married young (both in their 20s) and if they manage to last until their 50s or 60s...then sex become secondary.

So, in a nutshell...you are right. It is NOT about looks.

However, "Older men do NOT hate older women". Quite the opossite as the "feminist movement" can clearly illustrate that.

In conclusion:

An older woman with all those issues is literally IMPOSSIBLE to mold or change.

A woman in her 20s...with her own issues can be mold and even change.

 

[rakishness]

Words of wisdom.
Just looking at MOST women over 30 makes me puke, lard arse, pancake make up, mini skirts, saggy guts, and STILL playing hard to get, like anyone cares.
I did rather hump a goat.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH. Tooooo Funny

 

[Last Man Standing]

I did rather hump a goat.

Haha, but a female goat, right?

It all has been well said already but my take on it is that a woman's beauty is directly and proportionally tied to her youth!!

Men are visual creatures - when we see a female we know nothing about them so of course the reason we approach one woman over the other is because we are physically attracted to her!! To have sex the MAN must get excited to get the blood flowing and this is a physical and a mental thing - to lay next to a 20 year old versus a 50 year old is a huge difference on the eyes and on our thoughts!

I'll take a 16, errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, 18 year old female old over a 40 year old always!!!

It has nothing to do with "hate" -- you young bastards like that word alot! Feminists use that word to distort the conversation!

 

[rakishness]

ok ok ok....I have a question for ALL of you guys. What if you had to choose between two women. One is a 36 year old and the other is 20. Both are SMOKING HOTT. BUTTTT....the 20 yr old is what we call a "layer". When you have sex with her she just lays there like a corpse and is non sexual and horrible in bed. While the 36 year old is a SEX FIEND. She is always horny and is just AMAZING in bed. Who would you guys choose?????????????

This should be interesting. Can't wait to hear the response.


I say 99 percent of older guys will STILL choose the 20 yr old.

 

[bigjohnson]

Who would you guys choose?

None of the above.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

So older women are for the most part:
Ugly
Bitter
Damaged goods
????


I think because older women are soo neglected by men of their age...it makes it EASIER for a younger guy to come in and hit it. Anyone agree?

True, but you still need to qualify them or else you'll end up like the guys who think they are just ugly, bitter and damaged.

 

[Latinoman]

ok ok ok....I have a question for ALL of you guys. What if you had to choose between two women. One is a 36 year old and the other is 20. Both are SMOKING HOTT. BUTTTT....the 20 yr old is what we call a "layer". When you have sex with her she just lays there like a corpse and is non sexual and horrible in bed. While the 36 year old is a SEX FIEND. She is always horny and is just AMAZING in bed. Who would you guys choose?????????????

This should be interesting. Can't wait to hear the response.


I say 99 percent of older guys will STILL choose the 20 yr old.

For some kind of relationship? It depends of my age. If I'm in my 20s...then the one that is 20. If I'm OVER 45...then the 36 is fine.

I am 38. So, I chose NONE.

Everything else relatively equal...and just for JUST sex? Either or none(depending if they both fulfill my minimum requirements or how desperate I am).

 

[wayword]

Why do older women have lower mate value?

1) Uglier, fatter, wrinklier, more health problems, etc.
2) Higher chance she already has kids
3) Higher chance she already has STDs
4) More brainwashed by feminism into over-entitlement
5) Hard-headed harpy attitude (see Wyldfyre's posts - 'nuff said)
6) Beware of the 5 Fs - fat, frustrated, fugly, 40s feminist

Basically, women peak in their 20s...are quickly sliding downhill by 30...and fuggedaboudem after 40...

Honestly - look around - and you will be hard-pressed to find an attractive, single, quality woman over 30 with no baggage in this country. As in over-demand as women are these days, she's probably got some defect or she wouldn't be single with no kids, divorce, etc. at that age.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Why do older women have lower mate value?

1) Uglier, fatter, wrinklier, more health problems, etc.
2) Higher chance she already has kids
3) Higher chance she already has STDs
4) More brainwashed by feminism into over-entitlement
5) Hard-headed harpy attitude (see Wyldfyre's posts - 'nuff said)
6) Beware of the 5 Fs - fat, frustrated, fugly, 40s feminist

.

These are the characteristics of 20 year old nowadays!!!!

 

[wayword]

These are the characteristics of 20 year old nowadays!!!!

Lol, maybe so...but that only means they're even WORSE by 40!!!

Remember, it's all downhill after about 23 for women!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

These are the characteristics of 20 year old nowadays!!!!

Tell me about it. I constantly see young 20-somethings who have overindulged in fast food, smoking and drinking and YIKES! These girls are going to look horrid in as little as 10 years. It's sad to see so many 20-something, out of shape slobs.

 

[rakishness]

Why do older women have lower mate value?

1) Uglier, fatter, wrinklier, more health problems, etc.
2) Higher chance she already has kids
3) Higher chance she already has STDs
4) More brainwashed by feminism into over-entitlement
5) Hard-headed harpy attitude (see Wyldfyre's posts - 'nuff said)
6) Beware of the 5 Fs - fat, frustrated, fugly, 40s feminist

Basically, women peak in their 20s...are quickly sliding downhill by 30...and fuggedaboudem after 40...

Honestly - look around - and you will be hard-pressed to find an attractive, single, quality woman over 30 with no baggage in this country. As in over-demand as women are these days, she's probably got some defect or she wouldn't be single with no kids, divorce, etc. at that age.

Damn!!!! You layed it down. YIKES. Is that how men feel about older women?
This explains ALOT.

 

[sparky0000]

Yes they are that bad. Thread over.

Simple and to the point. Gotta love this post. A seven word post that makes more sense than anything else I have read on here.

Please, if you are 32 don't tell us how you like dating younger females. YOU ARE YOUNG. Maybe not in America, but in most parts of the world girls will still view you as a boy. Big difference between 32 and 52. Geez.

The problem in America is that most younger females are really immature acting. Not like that in most countries.

 

[urbanb]

Men That Hate Older Women

I know this is an old post. However, I just wanted too say the comments about older women not being as attractive and having more baggage is not true. If this was true than it would account for all the older men. Because they would have more baggage and be unattractive.