Why do I always get f***ed over? I'm so tired of it. I could explode

[tinctrar]

I want to know how his prom experience went. I hope he posts about it.

 

[Alle_Gory]

What I'm trying to say is this "deservedness" mentality is BS and people need to drop it.

That's what I'm trying to say as well.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Prom was fun. One of my friends whose a freshman offered to go with me the day before prom. I went with her and had fun. I told myself i wouldn't go with a freshman, but it was last minute and i thought i needed to go for the experience. Our group was great. A lot of my really close friends. I danced with a lot of girls and didn't just isolate myself to one. Overall it was a good night

 

[DjVita]

dont wate your time with flakers, go for women that DO RESPOND

 

[Ice882]

Let me put it this way. A couple of my friends who are really good with girls told me that they would have basically cussed this girl out. I didn't do that because i actually considered her feelings. Sure, i wanted to, but I told her what I posted instead. i could have been an ******* and i wanted to be that way, but I thought I rose above that.

The difference between the "old" you and me, bukowski, is that I do believe in myself and I honestly don't want to do what my friends do. I respect how you live your life. I just don't see the similarities that you see.

Cussing her out would've been much better than what you did. It would've been decisive and manly. What you're doing is trying to find a "third way". That's nigh impossible. Accept that you need to do what your friends do. Just fvck the girls. Then, dont let them fall by the wayside. Keep calling them. One of them will keep calling you back. Soon as you know it, you're in a relationship.