Why do I always get f***ed over? I'm so tired of it. I could explode

[Igetit!]

Well I have a question for you Jokerisk.

This statement of Bukowski's here....

The problem isn't that you don't want to go to a prom with a girl who has a boyfriend; the problem is YOU wanted to be her boyfriend and are hurt.

Is this true? Did you in fact want to date this girl yourself and have her for your girlfriend? Or is Bukowski mistaken?



And another thing....I know that you aren't concerned with having sex right now. We know you're in high school and already have enough going on without throwing in the possibilities of teenage pregnancies or STDs.


I understand that.


But you seem to have a misunderstanding here. When I say you need to be "sexual",I'm not talking about sex. I'm not talking about sexual intercourse,or even oral sex.




What I mean is for you to simply play up your MANLINESS.



Ask a girl out...on a ROMANTIC DATE.
Tell her you like the way she moves when she walks.
Tell her you want her to spend time with you.
Tell her you like the way she looks in something she's wearing.
Be playful.
Use sexual innuendo.


All these things will create attraction in her towards you.



If you just want to hug,kiss,do some light touching,and have some make-out sessions,then fine.



You are ok with that,aren't you? The reason I ask is this....


You don't want to have sex right now,and that's cool,but that's a decision you've made for YOUR life.




You can't make that decision for someone else. So more than likely,any girl that you want to date is going to want some type of physical affection from you. That's just "life".




Nobody here's trying to push you into something you don't want to do or change you. We're just letting you know why you keep REPEATEDLY running into this roadblock.



It's because you aren't sexual.




You need to decide what it is you want.

On one hand,you say.....

Having a girl in my life isn't the most important thing right now.

But then you go an make a thread titled,"Why do I always get f***ed over?...",and by saying "f***ed over",you mean concerning girls and dating.




Well if having a girl in your life isn't something that's important to you right now,then what are you so upset over?



Why do you care that this girl started dating someone else since you having a girl right now isn't important to you?


You said....

I blew up and broke down last night.

You broke down? Over what?


You're in denial. And until you STOP PLAYING GAMES and get serious,you simply can't be helped.




Bukowski had it right. I don't know why you won't just be honest and say that you liked this girl,you wanted to date her,and it HURT YOU that she decided to date someone else.


That's the truth,but if you want to pretend like it's not,then fine,continue on.


You're only delaying your OWN growth and development.

 

[nismo-4]

Listen to Pastor Igetit!, Bukowski, and Judge Nismo-4!

I went back and read that you were a nice guy. I thought you chopped your d!ck and balls off.

And for that last paragraph, oh goddamn. People can say all that sh*t but you're letting this ONEMOTHERF**KIN' GIRL BRING YOU DOWN!

Didn't I tell you not to develop feelings? That's the GIRL'S job, not yours.

Pastor Igetit! says;

Tell her you like the way she moves when she walks.
Tell her you want her to spend time with you.
Tell her you like the way she looks in something she's wearing.
Be playful.
Use sexual innuendo.

And Bukowski says;

Being a guy with no balls IS NOT exciting...
Being a guy who isn't sexual IS NOT exciting...
Being a guy who doesn't take charge and grab her and kiss her IS NOT exciting...
Being a guy who is timid IS NOT exciting...

Judge Nismo-4 says;

Bukowski understands my sig.

I have very little sympathy for you. But I'm giving tough love right now.

Your b-day present was not ruined by the girl, you did that sh*t all by yourself. You wanted more without doing the more (Kino, sex talk, etc.) that it took to get to that level. And the girl went to a man who had balls and he got her cuz he handled his business. You didn't and that's why you ran and got your feelings hurt. Accept this fact. You were very outcome dependent. The fine is a burned ego, hurt feelings, and poisoned confidence. I will not give you a burn heal here. We cannot live your life. We are telling you this sh*t for your own good.

The best b-day present you get is this lesson; DON'T CATCH FEELINGS FOR ANY WOMAN!!! SPIN MORE PLATES!!! AND ESCALATE GODDAMMIT!!!

I want you to understand my sig too.

Case closed. Make the best out of your b-day.

 

[Captain]

Protip, don't have serious or semi-serious conversations like that OVER TEXT (if you have to at all.)

 

[Jokerlsk]

Yall look at me so critically, but you don't see what i see. Girls like me. A lot of girls like me. They like who i am, and what I am and how i treat them. What i do works, but for some reason, when i actually like a girl, i can't generate attraction. I have girls right now in my life that i KNOW i could date if i wanted to, but that isn't fair because i DONT want to date them. I'm not looking for an easy lay, or a free blow job. Igetit, I thought i already stated that I liked this girl? Yeah, it sucked that she played me, and yeah it hurt because i did like her. I'm not trying to make excuses. I'm human. I mess up. I initially came to this sight to gain confidence in myself, and I have it now. I just needed to vent. I'm only in highschool, and some of what yall say is a little intimidating to me. Like i don't quite understand how i can accomplish what all your trying to impose on me. I do really appreciate the feedback though. It's just as much as i screw up, I do things right a lot of times too. And some girls like the goofy, friendly, funny guy i am.

Also, Igetit!

I took this girl on a date. I asked her on a date. I specifically called her and said, "Hey, would you like to get dinner with me tomorrow night?" and she replied with, "Really? Like a date? I would love to go to dinner with you." And i said, "Yeah, a date. It'll be fun. What time should i pick you up." and it went on like that. I CALLED her and asked her on a DATE. She agreed... Also, when i went to pick her up, the first thing i said is, "You look beautiful." and instead of talking about the way she moves.... I told her, "You know, your eyes are really green." and she said, "Really? Why do you say that?" and i said, "Green is my favorite color, and right now, your eyes look beautiful." And she went on to tell me about how sweet that was. And then at the end of the date, i told her, "Listen, I had a really good time with you tonight. I really want to spend more time with you." and she talked about how no ones ever told her that before blah blah blah.

But that night she gets a boyfriend. That night! Like 2hrs after OUR date. I didn't kiss her, but I mean, I hugged her, and put my arm around her, and held her hand and everything. I got played. Really, just because she wanted to go to prom. It was all plotted out too. Her just now recent bf is going to my schools prom! She basically used me, and acted like she liked me so she could go to my prom and ditch me to hook up with her bf. That's ****ed up. I deserve more than that. I don't care if yall have no sympathy for me. I thought i was doing the right thing.

 

[slaog]

Yall look at me so critically, but you don't see what i see. Girls like me. A lot of girls like me. They like who i am, and what I am and how i treat them. What i do works, but for some reason, when i actually like a girl, i can't generate attraction. I have girls right now in my life that i KNOW i could date if i wanted to, but that isn't fair because i DONT want to date them. I'm not looking for an easy lay, or a free blow job. Igetit, I thought i already stated that I liked this girl? Yeah, it sucked that she played me, and yeah it hurt because i did like her. I'm not trying to make excuses. I'm human. I mess up. I initially came to this sight to gain confidence in myself, and I have it now. I just needed to vent. I'm only in highschool, and some of what yall say is a little intimidating to me. Like i don't quite understand how i can accomplish what all your trying to impose on me. I do really appreciate the feedback though. It's just as much as i screw up, I do things right a lot of times too. And some girls like the goofy, friendly, funny guy i am.

Maybe you act differently around girls you like. Its a subconscious thing that happens when you see the girl you like as being higher value then you.


Just see yourself as being higher value.

 

[tinctrar]

We arent criticizing you.

Maybe some mistakes have been made. Have you learned from them?

Did you find another date yet?

Use this as a learning opportunity and dont justify the womans thinking. It will get you no where brother.

Im still rooting for you here in Sin City.

 

[lifeislearning]

Ah, young master Jokerlsk, allow me to interject my slightly less hostile thoughts on the matter.

Let me put it this way. A couple of my friends who are really good with girls told me that they would have basically cussed this girl out. I didn't do that because i actually considered her feelings. Sure, i wanted to, but I told her what I posted instead. i could have been an ******* and i wanted to be that way, but I thought I rose above that.

Ok, understood. Wherever my journey to DJ land takes me, I strive to remain a gentleman at all times and would never cuss out a woman, BUT there are other ways to retain your manliness throughout this test. You just chose the easy route of highway AFC. Lesson Learned, moving on (the boys seemed to have grilled you sufficiently enough for that :yes.

The feelings part is nice too. Once I too placed a woman's best interest (ie: respecting her feelings) above my own. Problem is this: What happens to your own best interest (feelings, etc) when you do that?

Answer: they get crushed, forgotten, ignored, negated, burned, stomped...
you get the idea right? Nobody likes that. Even these DJ idols here all have some form of "best interest" be it feeings, pride, progress, or something else, nobody likes it when those things are put in jeopardy.

So, is looking out for your own best interests wrong, selfish, unethical... dare I say it... evil? No. It is merely the game that EVERYONE else is playing. Unless your best interests are to harm others (and unless you're thinking about a few of your critics here, I doubt it ) they should be your top focus. Yes, even above a woman's feelings. Lesson learned, moving on.

As for the intimidation regarding sexuality and intercourse and the like, let me remind you: sexuality and sex are NOT the same thing. You can be sexual and not initiate intercourse! Flirting is a great example. If I had sex with all the woman I acted sexual with I would be banging 78yr old ladies in the doctor's office, or the 343 pound she-beast at the grocery store. Sexuality should be a constant. It should be a part of your being as a man and as a DJ.

The act of sex however, I feel many of us on the forum and in life often get hung up on while missing the more important meaning behind it.

Hope I could give you that gentle kick in the a** you're looking for. We all want so very badly for you to come back on here in a few days and say:
"Lesson learned, moving on."

 

[sodbuster]

read No more Mr. nice guy. The author talks about nice guys like you. You know"If I'm nice, I'll get what I want" YOU aren't a nice guy-you are just a guy trying to use nice as a tactic to get what he wants. THEN shows his true colors by *****ing[or texting] about how someone did you wrong when your manipulating nice guy act didn't work.

WHY do people always run over me? You are so busy being nice that you forget to look out for your own self interest. Learn to be nice from a position of power,not as a form of manipulation

 

[Rescue Mission]

OH JESUS ****ING CHRIST!!!

Jokerlsk - you have ONE major issue!!

You have exactly the same attitude as every other 17-18 year old know-it-all virgin!!

DUDE SHUT YOUR MOUTH!

I am serious.......shut the FVCK up, you have no idea how to get pvssy, how to have sex, and how to please women.............LEARN TO LISTEN TO THE PROS, and learn to APPRECIATE LISTENING TO THE PROS!!1


HUMBLE YOUR ****ING SELF!!!! Every single thing your moronic azz posts, is an ARGUMENT in response to the very nice and serious advice that you get!!!

I am 25, and when I was 18, I may have though I knew something about dating and girls, but I knew NOTHING - most of my BEST knowledge came between ages of 21-24, and I bet that I will be exponentially smarter about women in the years to come as well.......but YOU, YOU think you know EVERYTHING!!

based on your prior threads though, you come off as an azzhole creepy mr. nice guy - NO GIRL LIKES THAT.

Why did you not fvck this potential prom date before taking her to prom?

WHY DIDNT YOU FVCK HER???
WHY DIDNT YOU FVCK HER???
WHY DIDNT YOU FVCK HER???
WHY DIDNT YOU FVCK HER???
WHY DIDNT YOU FVCK HER???
WHY DIDNT YOU FVCK HER???

Can you answer that, you pvssy?


I mean really, you are a PIECE OF ART - I cannot imagine someone being as delusional as you are.........it doesn't matter how popular you think you are!! - you get NO pvssy, thus you are nothing, you are USELESS as a man, especially at your age - if you wanna sound all cool and shyt, then you BETTER have the pvssy count to back it up - OTHERWISE SHUT YOUR MOUTH AND LISTEN TO THE EXPERTS ON HOW TO GET SEX, THOSE EXPERTS BEING IGETIT, NISMO, MYSELF, AND ALL OTHERS WHO LET YOU KNOW BEFORE THEY GIVE YOU ADVICE THAT THEY KNOW THEIR SHYT!!

 

[Ronnie Poleman]

Jokerlsk, why do you have such negative views about being a Don Juan?

I wouldn't be able to live with myself if i just used them for sex...I have a moral compass that I actually want to use.

Are you implying that guys who get laid a lot have no moral compass?

Sure, Jerks use girls for sex. Nice guys on the other hand get used, usually for money, time or emotional support.

Who the fvck said that being a Don Juan and getting laid lots means you USE the girls?! I've not got laid many times (3 to be precise) BUT I was able to be polite; I respected and valued each girl I hooked up with as individuals, I didn't USE them. This does not mean being an emotional tampon, or a Nice Guy, just basic manners and consideration. Guys who get laid with more than one chick can have morals too, you know!

I mention the negative views because I think it's holding you back from becoming a Don Juan and stopping you from accepting your mistakes which make you AFC. You use your apparent moral high ground as an excuse for being AFC! It's not that you don't have people skills, AFCs can have that, it's some actions and words that make you AFC:

I asked her on a date... when i went to pick her up, the first thing i said is, "You look beautiful.".

AFC.

I told her, "You know, your eyes are really green." ..."your eyes look beautiful."

AFC.

...I'm too nice of a person. I i just wish i didn't get completely ****ed by life.

AFC.

Really, complimenting the EYES? Telling her she looks beautiful? Where have I heard that before? Oh yeah, I remember now, it's in every corny movie, tv show and book that's ever been made. If that's not AFC, I don't know what is.

What's worse is, you're an AFC who doesn't listen to experts like Igetit!, nismo-4, and others, because you think they have no morals. Therefore you make the same mistakes again and again and again, like reading the DJBible and going on SoSuave, yet saying some AFC lines like you have never heard of SoSuave.

You say your problem is around girls you actually like, again, that's something you need to work on. It's a natural reaction to focus on how hot the girl is instead of relaxing, having fun, focusing on getting her turned on and enjoying the fact that she's turned on! That one of the many things that separates AFCs from Don Juans!

THAT's why you can't create attraction.


I'm not bashing you, and neither are others like nismo-4 and Igetit! and Rescue Mission, we're sympathetic to your situation because we've been in high school; it was only less than 2 years ago since I graduated from my high school!

We're trying to help, and the best help we can give you is to knock some sense into you, and show you your mistakes, so you can correct them. We can't do that last step for you, we're leading you to the door, you gotta walk right through yourself.

Good luck on your path from AFC to Don Juan!

 

[Igetit!]

Yall look at me so critically,

That Rescue Mission dude was right when he said that you were being delusional. You say that we look at you "critically"? Nobody's looking at you critically.


Everything eveyone has said to you was all in attempt to HELP you,but you keep arguing and fighting with everyone because of FEAR.



You have fear because what we're telling in order to help you out will require you to move out of your COMFORT ZONE.




Even though what you normally do doesn't work,you feel comfortable with it because it's all you've ever done and known.




You simply don't like the truth because the truth will.....

1)Require you to admit that you've been wrong in certain areas (ego),and...
2)Require you to make CHANGES.





When I read how you behaved and what you said to this girl on your date with her,I was SHOCKED. I was like,"What the....? Is he serious? Come on Jokerisk,you know better than that".



You've been here since 2008,and I saw not ONE THING this forum teaches reflected in how you behaved towards her.




In fact,I saw behavior this Sosuave teaches against.

but you don't see what i see. Girls like me. A lot of girls like me.

I don't doubt you on this. I believe you,but the thing is this....we're talking about DATING,having a male/female boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.


You say girls like you. Ok,let's say you're right. Now here's my question.....


These girls who like you,are they ATTRACTED to you? Are they romantically interested in you? That's the WHOLE POINT of all this,to get a girl's ROMANTIC INTEREST.

They like who i am,

Ok,but are they ATTRACTED to you?

and what I am and how i treat them.

Ok,but are they ATTRACTED to you?




You keep going on about how girls like you,like how you treat them,think you're a good person,and ok,we get that.



Now that we've settled the fact that girls like you,answer this...


Are they ATTRACTED to you?

What i do works, but for some reason, when i actually like a girl, i can't generate attraction.

Take a look at this statement of yours here. You said that what you do works,but then you say you can't generate attraction.


This is what Rescue Mission meant when he said that you're being delusional,and what I meant when I said that you're in denial.



You say what you do works,but you can't generate attraction. Well if you can't generate attractrion,then it AIN'T WORKING.



That's just plain common sense.

I have girls right now in my life that i KNOW i could date if i wanted to, but that isn't fair because i DONT want to date them. I'm not looking for an easy lay, or a free blow job.

This isn't about "lays and blow jobs",it's about YOU.


We're trying to help you break out of your fear to show you what's possible beyond it,but it's got you so entangled,it's making you fight us on every turn.




And another thing....NOBODY'S trying to change you or make you do things you don't want to do.



You asked a question,so we answered it.



You asked,"Why do I always get f***ed over?"....
Answer:Because you're not sexual.

Igetit, I thought i already stated that I liked this girl?

Yeah,you did,but you keep flip-flopping.

On the one hand you say you like this girl,and you CLEARLY wanted to have her as your girlfriend,then in the next sentence you said that having a girl in your life right now isn't important.



We ALREADY know the truth,though.


You wanted to have this girl as your girlfriend,but when she decided to go date someone else,the blow to your ego made you change your story.

And some girls like the goofy, friendly, funny guy i am.

This proves our point EXACTLY.
You describe yourself as "goofy,friendly,and funny",which is ok,but when it comes to DATING and ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS,you left out one ingrediant...being SEXUAL.


Why do you keep leaving sexuality out when you describe yourself when it comes to girls?.

Also, Igetit!

I took this girl on a date. I asked her on a date. I specifically called her and said, "Hey, would you like to get dinner with me tomorrow night?" and she replied with, "Really? Like a date? I would love to go to dinner with you." And i said, "Yeah, a date. It'll be fun. What time should i pick you up." and it went on like that. I CALLED her and asked her on a DATE. She agreed... Also, when i went to pick her up, the first thing i said is, "You look beautiful." and instead of talking about the way she moves.... I told her, "You know, your eyes are really green." and she said, "Really? Why do you say that?" and i said, "Green is my favorite color, and right now, your eyes look beautiful." And she went on to tell me about how sweet that was. And then at the end of the date, i told her, "Listen, I had a really good time with you tonight. I really want to spend more time with you." and she talked about how no ones ever told her that before blah blah blah.

You told her she was beautiful. In fact,you used the word "beautiful" twice.

Wow. I don't know what to say.

But that night she gets a boyfriend. That night! Like 2hrs after OUR date.

She didn't get a boyfriend that night.

Relationships take time to build,so more than likely she had been interacting with this dude on an ongoing basis for a while.


It just became official that night.

I got played. Really, just because she wanted to go to prom. It was all plotted out too. Her just now recent bf is going to my schools prom! She basically used me, and acted like she liked me so she could go to my prom and ditch me to hook up with her bf. That's ****ed up.

How many times has this happened to you?


You've had girl after girl try to "use you" and get over on you.


You remember the one who tried to get you to spend your money on her by telling you that she "missed you and wanted to see you",but couldn't because she was broke?



And what did she do the next day? She WENT OUT with someone else.



You have a bullseye on you for girls wanting to take advantage of and mistreat you,and we're TRYING to make that thing go away,but YOU won't let us.



This is what I meant about you getting "SLAMMED".



You're a member of this forum,but you reject it's teaching. That's why you keep running into girls who try to dog you.

I deserve more than that.

I agree,but YOU have to DEMAND RESPECT.


Ultimately,that's all we're trying to get you to do.

 

[sodbuster]

Like I said, READ the book_no more mr. nice guy. HE NAILS YOUR WHOLE PERSONALITY AND LIFE.Then come here and talk to us. BUT, I suppose I just wasted one of 10 posts.

When you are funny-like clown funny? GIRLS don't date the circus clown,they laugh at him,like to hang around him,but will never date/sex him. Don't be her dancing monkey[for her personal amusement]. Be a MAN with a sense of humor.

When Sinatra sang "I did it MY way" he seems to be singing it for all the dumb asses who come here and won't listen to advice.

 

[Chromeo]

I cant say anything more that everyone else has already said pal. your being a real fvckin regular holden caulfield right now.

stop caring about other people so much, put yourself first

 

[Rescue Mission]

Based on your thread history, it seems like even YOU know what your problems are, yet like every other uneducated AFC pvssy, you always fight back, always talk back, and you never shut up and listen!!! Look at these past threads you have made, which clearly detail the serious issues that you have with girls:

Self Realization - I have no Game

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=170577


The Flaw In My Game - Being Sexual

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168856



I Won't Ever Change (well said there by the way!)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=167007


Girls Telling Me I Don't Know How To Flirt

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=166703



I Just Realized THat I Fear Intimacy

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=166130




I have realized that I Am Pretty much an AZZHOLE

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=165443




So, you are an AFC a$$hole who has no game, doesn't know how to flirt, how to be sexual, or how to be intimate, and you don't want to change - that's how YOU described yourself!!!

 

[Alle_Gory]

So, you are an AFC a$$hole who has no game, doesn't know how to flirt, how to be sexual, or how to be intimate, and you don't want to change - that's how YOU described yourself!!!

Relax there douchenozzle. No need to look down on him. He's on the road to something better just like the rest of us. Right now he's busy chasing his tail.

His ego can't handle the fact that he is an AFC. He's got parts of the problem, but he doesn't see the whole picture because he can't handle it. You can call him names and talk down to him all you like but that's not going to do anything good. If anything that's going to put him on the defensive to try and explain himself... usually making the problem worse.

He's almost there. It will hit him eventually.

 

[Rescue Mission]

Relax there douchenozzle. No need to look down on him. He's on the road to something better just like the rest of us. Right now he's busy chasing his tail.

His ego can't handle the fact that he is an AFC. He's got parts of the problem, but he doesn't see the whole picture because he can't handle it. You can call him names and talk down to him all you like but that's not going to do anything good. If anything that's going to put him on the defensive to try and explain himself... usually making the problem worse.

He's almost there. It will hit him eventually.

You seem to take the OPPOSITE stand to every single piece of advice given to people - is that some kind of disease you have, douchenozzle?

And all I did with that sentence of mine that you quoted was simply put Jokersl's thread titles together to remind him of how he REALLY feels about himself.

Shut up now, you are horrible at giving advice - get your own game straight first, because all you do on this forum is chime in with 1 liners that don't help ANYONE improve ANYTHING.

 

[Alle_Gory]

AAAAAANGRYYY!!

Kinda high strung aren't you? I wonder when you're going to snap.

Yall look at me so critically, but you don't see what i see.

Of course not. We have the outsider's view, you have your own opinions.

Girls like me. A lot of girls like me. They like who i am, and what I am and how i treat them. What i do works, but for some reason, when i actually like a girl, i can't generate attraction.

You CAN but you don't. You're just not used to it. What I've seen from the conversations you posted is conversation. You need to flirt. You need to tease, call her names (nothing insulting), ignore her once in awhile... etc. Play with her. Don't just talk. There's more to it. You have to be a little bit of a jerk, but a decent guy overall to get her interested. Mix the nice with a little bit of roughness. Women are soft, cuddly, emotional, and slightly vulnerable and that's why you find them attractive. The find the opposite attractive. Women like men because they are MEN.

And some girls like the goofy, friendly, funny guy i am.

I like girls with the same qualities. Where is the MASCULINE part of your personality?

But that night she gets a boyfriend. That night! Like 2hrs after OUR date. I didn't kiss her, but I mean, I hugged her, and put my arm around her, and held her hand and everything. I got played. Really, just because she wanted to go to prom. It was all plotted out too. Her just now recent bf is going to my schools prom! She basically used me, and acted like she liked me so she could go to my prom and ditch me to hook up with her bf. That's ****ed up. I deserve more than that. I don't care if yall have no sympathy for me. I thought i was doing the right thing.

Sucks dude.

 

[Desert Fox]

When you realize and accept that the world owes you nothing, and you are alone, always alone on this journey we call life to make anything or nothing of it, your choice, then you life will become much better. So much clearer. You'll live with less stress. Problems will bounce off you and magically turn into solutions.

You have a strongly engrained victim mentality that is killing you. You sound like some minority whining about not getting enough welfare. You care too much about other people. You are a tool. You write a lot on the internet but I'd sayt half the sh1t you write isn't even true about yourself in real life. You have to beef up your resume online since noone can actuall verify it. Again, you feel like a victim and you deserve more than you get. Here's the truth, you deserve exactly as much as you get. Because if you deserved more, you'd get more. Stop crying and do something, otherwise join the rest of the losers of the world and mope around day by day living average lives.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Because if you deserved more, you'd get more.

That would be too fair. Things don't work like that either.

You have to struggle for everything that's worthwhile and there's no guarantee you're going to get it.

 

[Desert Fox]

That would be too fair. Things don't work like that either.

You have to struggle for everything that's worthwhile and there's no guarantee you're going to get it.

What I'm trying to say is this "deservedness" mentality is BS and people need to drop it.

Whatever you get IS what you deserve REGARDLESS IF YOU TRULY "DESERVE" IT. If you get MORE or LESS than you THOUGHT you deserved, it DOESNT MATTER: it's what you GOT so it's what you DESERVED regardless of your PERCEPTION of what you DESERVED.