This. I'm skeptical Dave that you're as good looking as you claim to be, if we are judging BY WOMEN'S STANDARDS. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it would be factually correct to describe you as a 29 year old 5'10" balding middle eastern man. Even if you're perfect in every other way those are going to limit you from being 8-9/10.
This is what women consider a 9+/10:
If you're a truly highly physically attractive man, it's very easy to test. Just make a Tinder account and get swiping. Top tier attractive men will get 10-20+ matches a day. Doing it that way eliminates any contention over whether your personality is the issue.
If you get a sh|tload of matches, then you perhaps are as attractive as you believe, and your game/personality is just bad. If you don't get that level of matches you are not as good looking as you think (again, by women's standards).
Don't underestimate women's physical standards these days. This guy:
Only gets 1-3 matches on Tinder in 24 hours and they're mostly fat/gross:
Skip to 14:05 to see his final 3 matches using his modeling pictures. When he used a more casual picture earlier in the video he only got one fat match.
The criteria women are using in 2018 to judge male attractiveness are very restrictive, consistent, and aggressive. Just the three features I listed about you above already represent 3 major "strikes" against you. Do I think they should be strikes? Hell no.
I also think a guy as ripped as Jose above with a decent face and nice manicuring should do well. But it's not up to me. I don't set the price of the car, as Raiders says, and neither do you.