Why are there so many threads about race?

[VikingKing]

South American women are hot, very feminine, sexy accent. Asian women also. I want to try and Indian woman, never had one before.

I think the only woman I wouldn't want to try is the Australian native women. You ever seen Australian native people? Not attractive. :nono:

 

[Pasternak]

http://www.columbia.edu/~ss957/articles/Racial Preferences in Dating.pdf

Just to confront the facts with the anecdotal evidence presented here.

 

[Bible_Belt]

To answer the original question, there are so many threads about race because it is a characteristic that cannot be changed, therefore it makes the perfect excuse. If I said I can't get girls because I am fat and poor, someone would tell me to get in shape and make more money. Obviously, a solution is not what the guys making excuses are looking for, so they pick out an excuse that is not so easily overcome.

Height is another good one. I have seen guys on here who are 5' 11" and complaining that short men like them can never get laid.

People tend to get what they want out of life. If they want to have excuses, then they are going to find them.

 

[Ambitious Player]

SMH, I am tired of this whole "just improve yourself and things will be okay" rhetoric that gets passed around. I have improved myself in so many ways over the past few years: mentally, physically, and by learning game.

Here is a little bit of a perspective for you guys saying race doesn't matter.

Say you have two guys who are both handsome. One is a blonde hair blue eyed White male with good looks and the other is an Indian guy with good looks. Both happen to love sports and one weekend they decide to go down to watch some college football. They go down to some college town in the SEC (since that is the best conference for the sport) and happen to be at a bar. The bar happens to have a lot of hot college girls, mostly White and a lot of them in sororities.

The reality is that the Blond guy will walk out of that night with a hot girl for a one night stand, his Indian friend won't be so lucky. No amount of game, looks, and swagger can get him laid that night by one of those White girls.

If a situation like that occurs and the Indian dude leaves with the hot White girl, then I will officially back out of any race threads and just any threads on forums in general.

And yes I am mostly attracted to White women as a minority, so what.

 

[VikingKing]

SMH, I am tired of this whole "just improve yourself and things will be okay" rhetoric that gets passed around. I have improved myself in so many ways over the past few years: mentally, physically, and by learning game.

Here is a little bit of a perspective for you guys saying race doesn't matter.

Say you have two guys who are both handsome. One is a blonde hair blue eyed White male with good looks and the other is an Indian guy with good looks. Both happen to love sports and one weekend they decide to go down to watch some college football. They go down to some college town in the SEC (since that is the best conference for the sport) and happen to be at a bar. The bar happens to have a lot of hot college girls, mostly White and a lot of them in sororities.

The reality is that the Blond guy will walk out of that night with a hot girl for a one night stand, his Indian friend won't be so lucky. No amount of game, looks, and swagger can get him laid that night by one of those White girls.

If a situation like that occurs and the Indian dude leaves with the hot White girl, then I will officially back out of any race threads and just any threads on forums in general.

And yes I am mostly attracted to White women as a minority, so what.

Sweet baby jesus. I guess Indians are really fvcked. Welp, crying won't help.

 

[Ambitious Player]

As a minority, I cannot just read advice about any kind of girl and expect to have success because I have to keep in mind that I am a minority. TBH I love Florida girls (White girls in Florida) but I can't go to North Florida and start gaming attractive southern Blondes without having to worry about the fact that I could have my life taken for talking to them. Then on top of that I have to deal with the fact that these girls have been told their entire lives to dislike me by their friends, parents, and social circles. I can't simply go to an area, approach girls, and have a nice time. A white guy CAN do that, he never has to worry about his race in that situation. A minority needs to know if he will be safe in a certain area if he decides to approach an attractive woman.

Some of my misery is self-inflicted though so I can't blame the world for it. Reason being that I want to do well with attractive White American women but those are the only group of women in the world that put race on top of their list when choosing a man (even above looks, money, and personality).

I have seen tons of Asian and Indian males that make a good salary and are cool dudes (not FOBs and good looking too, no homo), that do well with girls from minority groups but can't get blonde hottie in yoga pants.

 

[backbreaker]

It's not so much that it doesn't matter AP.

It's that there is not anything you can't do about the **** you an't change.

You can't change the color of your skin, nor can you change the mindset of women, so what the ****?


It's not that being the best you can, working out, dressing nice, learning game is the cure all, it's THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO. and it does work. You'll always be behind the eight ball to some extent, the key is to minimize the amount you are behind. I'll never score as much as a white version of myself would, but I still maximized my value, scored some knockouts looks wise outside my race, even married one. I was the first non white guy my wife has ever kissed let alone had sex with, and by the time we had sex i had her in the palm of my hand (now watch i go online and find some amateur interracial gang bang porn of my wife from like 12 years ago lol)

Some of my misery is self-inflicted though so I can't blame the world for it.

lol no ****

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

The courage to change the things I can,

And wisdom to know the difference.

 

[skinnyguy]

SMH, I am tired of this whole "just improve yourself and things will be okay" rhetoric that gets passed around. I have improved myself in so many ways over the past few years: mentally, physically, and by learning game.

Here is a little bit of a perspective for you guys saying race doesn't matter.

Say you have two guys who are both handsome. One is a blonde hair blue eyed White male with good looks and the other is an Indian guy with good looks. Both happen to love sports and one weekend they decide to go down to watch some college football. They go down to some college town in the SEC (since that is the best conference for the sport) and happen to be at a bar. The bar happens to have a lot of hot college girls, mostly White and a lot of them in sororities.

The reality is that the Blond guy will walk out of that night with a hot girl for a one night stand, his Indian friend won't be so lucky. No amount of game, looks, and swagger can get him laid that night by one of those White girls.

If a situation like that occurs and the Indian dude leaves with the hot White girl, then I will officially back out of any race threads and just any threads on forums in general.

And yes I am mostly attracted to White women as a minority, so what.

Yup yup.

If you don't conform to the "just work on yourself, and you'll start banging HB 9's" philosophy, you will get called a troll on this site.

I know very well that you have worked on yourself very hard yet still cannot pull white girls. Meanwhile, a ugly white guy with no education and no money will get the girl that you want. And there is nothing that the so-called DJ's on SOS will be able to say about that.

I would have way more respect for some of the guys on here if they admitted that race matters to women. To say that women are color blind is laughable at best. These guys also say that women don't care about looks or money. LMAO.

The only thing we can do as minorities is to lower our standards and go for fatties. They are the only ones that will accept us. I have decided not to go for women at all because I refuse to go for a fattie. Why should I do that when I'm pretty slim take care of myself.

90% of success in life is luck - how your parents are, what race you are, what socioeconomic status you were brought up in, how naturally social you are, and how your brain functions. "Working on yourself" can change you slightly but not that much. I know that I can work on myself 24/7, but I will never be able to pull the broads that Channing Tatum does, simply because I'm unlucky.

I'm really past the bitter phase - it's just acceptance at this point.

 

[Ambitious Player]

I don't believe that improving yourself is the only thing you can do though it is necessary. What doesn't get nearly as much attention which you mentioned in the OP is location. In the case of being Indian or Asian, it is more complicated. If you are an Indian guy with good looks, nice game, and a nice career, you still aren't going to get an attractive blonde girlfriend if you live in a city like San Francisco because men of your background have a very negative reputation there. In that case you can have the looks of a Bollywood actor and a promising career but the attractive blonde that turns head will try to actively avoid you because of your ethnic background alone and nothing else. In that situation there are just too many White girls with the mindset that all men of your race bad.

Now there obviously have to be locations in the US where a guy who happens to be of any minority group (particularly asian or indian) and has his **** together can date the kind of attractive women he wants, especially White American because IMO most of the women that place lots of importance on race are White, attractive, and American.

And I would also LOVE to talk more about this gap between White males and minorities because I don't think it is bad as some might make it out to be, especially if the minority is a Black guy. I have known cases where a Black male (especially if lighter complexion) has been able to do just as well if not better than his White friends who were attractive simply because he stuck out and was seen as more unique. You might go up to women and ask them what race they like and almost all will say White males but women also say they love nice caring guys, we know how that turns out.

I think there is a big difference between reading some OkCupid study that implies all minorities are ****ed and actually getting the experience of a guy from a minority background who has above average looks and other things that make a man attractive. Maybe that guy has realized the gap isn't even that big or there in the first place.

Now I know I have been very negative the past few days and weeks about things dealing with race but I am going after the kind of White girls who are just mean to almost every guy, young attractive college girls. I have seen these girls treat my friends who were White but not top tier like **** as well.

What I would like to know from the race threads are methods by which I can get the kind of girls I like (blonde HBBs) while being the kind of guy they might not usually go for (foreign looking) and how to put myself in the best situation to do that. But as I said earlier, that alone causes a lot of issues because people aren't comfortable seeing those kinds of girls anywhere near minorities. If I was a White guy asking how to get hot Persian girls, I would have had many helpful answers.

I feel that there is so much helpful info that gets left out because we are too PC to talk about race.

 

[skinnyguy]

In the case of being Indian or Asian, it is more complicated. If you are an Indian guy with good looks, nice game, and a nice career, you still aren't going to get an attractive blonde girlfriend if you live in a city like San Francisco because men of your background have a very negative reputation there. I

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Now there obviously have to be locations in the US where a guy who happens to be of any minority group (particularly asian or indian) and has his **** together can date the kind of attractive women he wants, especially White American because IMO most of the women that place lots of importance on race are White, attractive, and American.

Dallas.




IMHO,the guys who are not minorities cannot empathize with guys who are minorities, particularly asian and indian. they will never, ever understand what it means to be stereotyped by women. that is why they should stop judging race threads as "trolling" and listen to what we have to say because they might actually learn something about racial dynamics in the United States. to say that we are just butt hurt is ignoring the truths. if guys like noobology can admit this, I will never post about race on here AGAIN. Smoovemoves claiming that he knows "some asian guy" who gets tail does nothing for his argument.

 

[backbreaker]

It's not so much trolling as much as you're asking the same questions over and over again, hoping to get a magic pill for an answer.

People, a lot less intelligent than you, have figured this out. There is a reason there is are no black people in my family (my mom is mixed, I have some white people in my family) under the age of 45 that are out of high school on either side left in Arkansas. There's a reason they all moved to Houston, LA (me and my older cousin), ****, spain for one lol, Atlanta, Seattle, St Louis, Washington DC. There's a reason none of them moved to Mobile, Alabama or Witcha Kansas Because minoities are going to have a higher quality of live in larger metro areas with a more diverse population. You couldn't pay anyone in my family to go live back in Arkansas.


so there's your answer. move. The only reason I didn't move 2 years sooner was because of my oneitis. I had it that bad. Not 1 month after i had accepted that it never was gonna happen, did I not move to San Diego and I have not looked back.


I don't understand why you have to start 10 threads over this ****. Move. there's your answer. Get your money right, get your education so you can AFFORD to move, keep in shape, don't do anything stupid that will hamper you being able to move like getting a baby momma, then MOVE. i don't know what else to tell you.

I've spent 80% of my life living in Arkansas, I'm telling you that all this banging your head against the wall is moot. stop until you get into a real city, then re assess. Everything you think you see now isn't real.


Now that issue, racial diversity in non large populated areas, is without question something you need to be a minority to experience. A guy like Zekko, who lives in the mid west but is white, cannot possibly understand where someone like you or me is coming from, and we at the same time, do not understand how someone like him can say he loves living in the mid west. Zekko's a good guy, nothing against him, but he won't get it and your wasting your time beating your head against the wall trying to have it as easy as joe white guy making 80k living in the bible belt. not sayig you can't get laid. I got laid.. alot.. in arkansas. but it was way too hard and the quality wasn't anything to write home about in retrospect.

Just take a chill pill man. you'll get there.



****, I'll take it a step further. If you spent 30 mins and did some internal research on this forum of the miniotories on this forum you'd have your answer


Here are guys that are on this forum that I know are minorities


Warrior74 - LIves in Alabama, not getting laid lol but he has a kid and is starting a business so he won't move.
Solomon - Lives in Minnosota, getting laid, and blogging about getting laid
Backbreaker - Lives in SoCal, getting laid and married
Iceburg - Lives in I want to say Boston or somewhere up there, a big city though, and is getting laid
SkinnyGuy - not getting laid. Lives in a **** city
Ambitious Player - Not getting laid. Lives in a **** city
PairPlusRoyalFlush - LIves in a big city, has a LTR


you see a trend here lol? I'm sure if these guys including myself lived in bumfvckville, mississippi, we'be *****ing too. my entire attitude towrds women changed once i got a taste of socal.

 

[VladPatton]

Seems things aren't as black and white as they appear to be.

 

[backbreaker]

Seems things aren't as black and white as they appear to be.

I see what you did there

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Dude, why do you think black guys have it easier. In an open minded area with little thugs, I could see it. Here in the south, blacks only get the bottom of barrel white women. Asians have a much better chance at southern belles than blacks. I have never seen a black guy with a high quality white girl unless I was in New York City or miami or the girl was from up north or something. Most of the girls I've gotten weren't native southerners either.

 

[Ambitious Player]

Backbreaker: I have rarely started any threads about race recently

Yes, I am at that point right now where I know I have to move but if you re-read my post, you will know what I was getting at. Where to?

You say terrible cities, how do you know if a city is terrible right?

I do get where you are coming from though, the constant race threads have to stop and I have a habit for getting into race discussions. As I said in my previous post, I doubt this gap people keep speaking of between attractive White males and attractive males from minority backgrounds is as big as the forum itself hypes it up to be.

So instead of talking about race we can talk about cities that are just terrible for men. I know that a lot of Asian and Indian men have absolutely no shot of landing an attractive White girl in a city like San Francisco or Toronto but then again those cities suck for almost all men in general.

Dhoul:

Maybe down south Black men might have it somewhat harder but elsewhere, Black guys can definitely get top tier White girls. I have not heard of Asians and Indians getting top tier White women anywhere.

 

[Ambitious Player]

I have improved dramatically over the past year but haven't uploaded recent pics and I don't intend to because I am not comfortable with having my pics on a public forum which is full of actual trolls that may use it for whatever reason. What I can do is send you screenshots of my beautiful people account which is a site that pretty requires you to look at least decent if you want to get in.

Crime stats are highly one sided and rarely give out the entire story. A lot of crimes which are hate crimes might not be reported as such by law enforcement, especially if they are towards an Indian male.

That is the problem with your belief, you think I am laying around on my ass all day posting on forums which is far from the truth. I have actively improved myself.

What gets me is that a lot of these attractive Blondes are going for White guys because they won't be judged if they date their own race and Black guys because they have been told 1 million times by media how awesome Black people are.

I feel like I don't even have a fighting chance with these women sometimes even if I am to keep improving myself and be the best that I can be. As I said, if I was to ever meet an Indian or Brown dude who has his **** together and does amazing with these women, I would leave all forums because I would have my answer. I have yet to get my answer though and I guess posting about it helps to relieve some frustration I have over it.

I don't get the whole entitlement thing. It is not like I expect for a particular blonde to go for me but I am sure as hell curious as to why all attractive blonde women hate men of my background. Instead of trying to convince them to like me I am ACTIVELY taking another approach.

I am trying to get an idea of areas in the US where a guy who does look like me and has his **** together can get these kinds of women and his race won't be the only thing stopping him.

All these posters will say "well I know a brown guy who dated a hot blonde chick", dude go **** yourself you haven't added any good info on this thread. How was he? How did he look like? Where in the world did this major anomaly occur?

 

[Ambitious Player]

Better yet why can there not be threads on gaming attractive blonde women (for any race of guys really)? I see so many threads on how to get Asian girls, black girls, or foreign girls but none on how to get attractive blondes. Sounds suspicious doesn't it? It pretty much says that the White guys online involved with seduction are more than happy to take other races of women but the second there are talks about how to get an attractive Blonde girlfriend it erupts. Now the OP of that thread is a troll and the entire thread is getting shut down before any discussion can get going.

I can't be the only one noticing this double standard on a forum where the purpose is to help men get better with women.

 

[VikingKing]

Better yet why can there not be threads on gaming attractive blonde women (for any race of guys really)? I see so many threads on how to get Asian girls, black girls, or foreign girls but none on how to get attractive blondes. Sounds suspicious doesn't it? It pretty much says that the White guys online involved with seduction are more than happy to take other races of women but the second there are talks about how to get an attractive Blonde girlfriend it erupts. Now the OP of that thread is a troll and the entire thread is getting shut down before any discussion can get going.

I can't be the only one noticing this double standard on a forum where the purpose is to help men get better with women.

:yawn:

You game them the same way. Man I don't think women care as much about race as you think. They certainly don't care about race as much as you and skinnyminny do

 

[backbreaker]

even if you GOT you a "white girl" right now you'd flame out within a month because you have the entire damn race on a pedestal as danger put it. you'd walk on egg shells, you'd over analyze every thing. you aren't ready

blondes are vastly overrated. I prefer brunettes. they look more exotic.

 

[Mike32ct]

You won't know if she's a real blonde anyway. Women shave off their bush to hide their true hair color. Then they can color their hair blue this week, brown next week, and blonde the following week lol.

Red heads are the hottest.

Or a brunette with glasses