Why are there so many losers?

[BackInTheGame78]

Too many people unwilling to take responsibility for their own lives and wanting to be the passenger instead of the driver.

 

[RickTheToad]

I'm not an American so that doesn't apply to me. I lived in China quite a long time and was never chased down for my opinions but I've had it done here in Canuckistan quite a few times. Cambodia is not a bad place. Myanmar is currently in crisis, I've been watching since day 1 and well before that. Just because they're having a revolution doesn't mean the women are bad, take a look:

China's a big place you know, they're not all drones walking around. The only communism there is the one they're selling American couch potatoes. If there was communism, they wouldn't have the largest middle class in the world and be vying for economic superiority but if you want to buy into the propaganda, that's on you. Luckily, I don't look at all brits as dumb snaggle toothed Harry Potters or all Americans as Roseanne Barr look alikes. I would say America right now is more communist than China. Asia might be the only place left where super straight is still a thing.

Philanthropic group founded by billionaire George Soros demands release of staff member held in Myanmar

The Open Society Foundations says allegations of financial misconduct are false. Read more at straitstimes.com.

www.straitstimes.com

How about that eh?

To each there own dude.

 

[corrector]

It would be nice to have some international zoom penpals.

 

[RickTheToad]

It would be nice to have some international zoom penpals.

Quick Bing search for you,

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[PRW63]

https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/aywqa3 Is social media the cause of all this rot?

No, but it greased the skids. It made it easier. Social Media became one of the weapons or vehicles used by the destroyers. It's hard to pinpoint the exact "cause" because every cause had something before it that caused it. As a primary cause I would point at is the Sexual Revolution of the 1960s which gave birth to feminism, and then,...sexual non-accountability for women, birth control, and abortion, all of which removed any and all restraint on Hypergamy. It all eventually led to an explosion of divorce, which led to an explosion of single mothers raising boys to be weak, coddled, sheltered, misled, and feminized. So back to social media,...social media made it easier to preach the gospel of this stuff far and wide.

Let's not forget about the public school system though. If you can mold the next generation from childhood, you then "own" the future,...you just wait for all the current people running the show to die off, and then, in moves the newly programed younger generation. We now have boys as early as kindergarten being taught by women teachers that they are toxic while the girls sitting next to them are victims that can do no wrong.

 

[RickTheToad]

Don't stick your **** in crazy. Those HOT women are not going to do your brother any favors later when he puts a ring around one of them. I'm told the most colorful snakes are usually the most deadly.

Two other holes to use dude. As long as there is enough lube on both sides of the condom, it shouldn't break. Never throw away good pus. Use it, then buh bye.

 

[RickTheToad]

No, but it greased the skids. It made it easier. Social Media became one of the weapons or vehicles used by the destroyers. It's hard to pinpoint the exact "cause" because every cause had something before it that caused it. As a primary cause I would point at is the Sexual Revolution of the 1960s which gave birth to feminism, and then,...sexual non-accountability for women, birth control, and abortion, all of which removed any and all restraint on Hypergamy. It all eventually led to an explosion of divorce, which led to an explosion of single mothers raising boys to be weak, coddled, sheltered, misled, and feminized. So back to social media,...social media made it easier to preach the gospel of this stuff far and wide.

Let's not forget about the public school system though. If you can mold the next generation from childhood, you then "own" the future,...you just wait for all the current people running the show to die off, and then, in moves the newly programed younger generation. We now have boys as early as kindergarten being taught by women teachers that they are toxic while the girls sitting next to them are victims that can do no wrong.

I do no have social media, and have not had it for over 9 years. When I was dating, it added to the illusion.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I do no have social media, and have not had it for over 9 years. When I was dating, it added to the illusion.

Easier to stay focused off of that sh1t

 

[Blacksheep]

We live on a culture that didnt value some core principles like understanding yourself, dealing with emotions and our social interactions.

Our culture today value objects, a compulsive pursue of the fantasy of success (money, sexual attraction, status, showing others how superiors we are).

So those incels and guys you call losers probably have unsolved traumas or emotional issues that made them behave that way. Even if its toxic or not... It seems like a self-defense mechanism to handle the pain or suffering they are dealing with. So not everyone can get out of darkness alone... And this creates any kind of responses.

About social media, yes... I believe it helped a lot to some issues we are experiencing nowadays.

 

[SirBigBell]

Me and my brothers grew up without a father. I had my father for 8 years, my youngest brother never knew him. My youngest brother is a skinny, 140'lb guy that chainsmokes and is a huge SJW and racism/LGBTQ activist. Yet he gets attention and sex from HOT girls while I, a masculine non-conformist get 5-6's. I wish things worked like how you all are making it out to be but it just doesn't where I live. My "loser" brother gets more hot ***** than I've seen.

Has it occured to you that the brother you consider a loser is pulling better quality wins with women than you because he is more open minded and has a more positive vibe than you? Sometimes what we view as strength is actually a major weakness. If a “loser” is filling his cabinet with trophies then clearly he isnt a loser. Similarly if a self-certified “alpha winner” is pulling 5-6s at best, then he needs to check his definition of a “winner”.

I sense your brother is a happy-go-lucky guy whose positive attitude and embracing personality endears him to people from all walks of life. Your so-called ‘masculine non-conformism’ is clearly doing you no favours. It may be time to restrategise. Dont continue to use the wrong mathematical formula, hoping that it miraculously will produce a correct answer. 1+1 is always = 2.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Has it occured to you that the brother you consider a loser is pulling better quality wins with women than you because he is more open minded and has a more positive vibe than you? Sometimes what we view as strength is actually a major weakness. If a “loser” is filling his cabinet with trophies then clearly he isnt a loser. Similarly if a self-certified “alpha winner” is pulling 5-6s at best, then he needs to check his definition of a “winner”.

I sense your brother is a happy-go-lucky guy whose positive attitude and embracing personality endears him to people from all walks of life. Your so-called ‘masculine non-conformism’ is clearly doing you no favours. It may be time to restrategise. Dont continue to use the wrong mathematical formula, hoping that it miraculously will produce a correct answer. 1+1 is always = 2.

This is my point actually. I hate threads like this because they seem to support what doesn’t work.

As for myself, it’s too hard to be a happy go lucky “**** me in my ass” pushover. So I’ll settle
For the 5’s

 

[Ricky]

Very interesting.

I've researched Daddy Issues quite a bit. It also seems that women from fatherless households love destroying men as part of a Daddy Revenge fantasy.

This may explain my current situation after 14 years of relative peace

 

[DonJuanjr]

Alphas are disagreeable, challenging, hard to pin down and ultimately lovable as$holes.

That's where I am struggling. I am trying to figure out how to be a charming a$shole without over calibrating into non likable d!ckhead.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I find this very hard to believe. Are you sure he's not just orbiting these women and telling you that he's fvcking them?

I'm relatively sure he is ****ing them. He smells like ***** sometimes after getting home. And even when we go out to like Denny's or something I've seen hot waitresses batting eyelashes at him while ignoring me. It's bizarre

 

[DonJuanjr]

They can sense his sexual success. Don't worry if he is using beta game, he will have a hard time eventually. Just keep working on yourself and eventually you'll be the don juan while he's crying about "I thought she was my soul mate".

 

[Ricky]

Once the BPD devaluation process is triggered you're in a tough spot. BPD's idolize you (and this can be indefinite if you play it right), then something happens where attraction falls and she starts to devalue you. This devaluation period can last for weeks, months or years....and then it's inevitably followed by the discard. The discard tends to comes out of nowhere, when you least expect it. She'll abruptly light-switch on you and it's like she never knew you. She'll likely ghost too.

I think its just pandemic related boredom coupled with years of resentment. We have a kid together, she'll have to fall back in line eventually. I can't divorce her right now.

 

[PRW63]

If you don't like or accept female nature then blame God.

Yes.
Although you have to factor in The Fall. We are not what God originally created. We are what we became after The Fall. As a result of The Fall God cursed mankind and all of creation. We are a corruption of what God created. The sexual drive needed to perpetuate the species became the force behind destructive behavor. Hypergamy meant as a survival instinct for women to protect them, becomes a goal of feminism to "unfetter" it and "maximize" against men and divide the genders.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Beta game doesn't work tho.

I don't know about that... The first girl I was with was using me as the orbiter, while the alpha was doing push pull with her. Frustrating her to no end. I would listen to her crying and bull**** about it like an orbiter does. She was using me for sex to try and make him jealous and become more interested in her(which it did). So while he was running game on her, she was using me to run game on him. So I think it can work, just too much to go through for any vagina to be worth it.

 

[Ricky]

Famous last words. It happens when you least expect it...

I get that. I am surprised by her behavior but am aware it can happen.

 

[PRW63]

I have a few artist/SJW friends who used this exact strategy and ended up getting destroyed.

Yea, just look at the trail of Hollywood SJW bodies left in the wake of Harvey W. & MeToo.