L777 said:
Na, you're way off the mark - surprising cos you're a bit older and I would have thought you'd have figured it out. Read the book, you'll see what i mean.
Lol, of a 31 year old bouncer who boasts on an internet forum about hitting someone in a nightclub?
Seething.
I can't figure out what is wrong with your brain. Nothing you have assumed about me is right, also, nothing your friend Baird has assumed is right either.
This post is mostly for the other people who are reading this thread who think that anything L777 posts is/was accurate. Its not.
I'm not a bouncer. I have 2 advanced degrees. I have 8% bodyfat and bench 275 (I used to bench more). My previous corporate job involved a great deal of board meetings and conferences as a manager. When I was a professional PUBLISHED photographer, there was a never ending stream of status which came my way. Girls, money, drugs, travel, sex, the whole lot came to me without any real effort on my part. I just had to continue to be a very skilled photog and it was easy.
This is something that 98% of all men can't and won't ever experience. You could take the path of L777 and simply deny the world around you and wonder why everything sucks. Or, you could take my path and simply realize what your social station is. Its probably average, honestly. Once you have done that, only then can you begin to ascend the ranks of society. Some people started at the top, some at the bottom, most started somewhere in between.
Its foolish to think that you can read a few books and practice a few things and suddenly you are rubbing elbows with Larry Ellison and President Obama. Life doesn't work that way.
In some cases, it doesn't matter how hard you try, some things ARE out of your reach.
Some things are not.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but if you are a skinny little british nerd making fun of successful guys on some website, you probably aren't EVER going to keep a hot girl around. Something has got to change in your life or you better learn to settle for mediocrity.
That, or just commit suicide. I hear that the suicide rate in NY is inversely related to the shifts in the DJIA...
Every day I see guys who took out enormous loans to attend prestigious schools like stanford and cornell, only to find out that their jobs are scheduled for elimination and 1/3 of their life has been wasted chasing an impossible dream. They are bald, single, 35, and easily identifiable by their BMW's with fading paint that they bought upon graduation with the intent that they were going to be the next Bill Gates. They will never ascend to the top of the mountain they have set in front of them.
Life is nothing more than a random sequence of events that are completely out of your control. By definition, most people are average. There is no way to beat the numbers unless you are lucky in some way.
Lucky to be born super smart, super tall, super attractive, super wealthy, super above-average in some manner. The saddening thing about this fact is that the internet has allowed vast numbers of males who thought that they were going to be special to find that they are simply a number in a sea of males who are in exactly the same boat they are in. In the past, average guys had no access to websites which broadcasted the huge amount of averageness present in the world. Most of those guys actually, genuinely thought that they were going to be awesome when they grew up.
They failed. But, they did not have the tragic realization that most of the other guys who are like them also failed. The internet driven realization of mass failure is the real tragedy. It is incredibly difficult for someone to realize that their social station is nearly impossible to escape... unless you are one of the lucky few.
There is no clear cut answer to the question of "why." Suffice it to say, the most revealing and compelling answer is simply "life isn't fair."