wow some of you need to go pick up the laws of success like RIGHT NOW.
Anyone who tells me anything other than persistence and hard work are needed to be successful I laugh.
8 years ago I was an AFC kid who didn't go to college living at home with his grandma because his mom kicked him out the house.
I don't' say this in a bragging sense, but just to the people who say you need luck or some people are born with "it"....
8 years ago I was living with my grandma's extra room in little rock. Now I stay in Monrovia, CA in a house that I have the title to.
7 years ago I remember I had 1 pair of shoes... they were brown dress shoes with a hole in the back of one of them. I was overweight and in due time I developed a nasty and I mean nasty crack cocaine addiction becuase i hated myself. While I never was dumb, and took nothing but AP classes in high school, I never stepped foot on a college campus. while i wasn't bad looking, I was broke and was hopeless with women. I drove a 92 accord that was had gotten into a wreck and the entire front left side of my car was basically useless.
While I'm not a huge car guy, I drive exactly what I want to drive today. Not only that, my Fiancee drives what she wants to drive as well.
It got so bad for me that for a while I lived out that car, sleeping in wal mart's parking lot when my grandmom kicked me out because her boyfriend didnt' like me.
Through nothing but want to..becuase god knows I did not have any help.. I came up with the idea to start a computer company and my business partner and I after 3 years willed that company to a better life for the both of us. i sold my part of the company, got in shape, started reading books, started learning new things and becoming interested in new things. I got clean off of drugs off of nothing of want to. I didn't' want to waste my life being a drug addict. And at one point it was a 1-1500 dollar a week habit. I wasn't playing around. There are people here who don't' make that much a week, I spent that a week in drugs.
Today I own my house, I have successfully started a new business, I have a beautiful fiancee who has given me the love of my life, my son Joseph. I honestly do what I love to do for a living now, I'm in the best shape of my life (8 years ago I was a 39 inch waist... today I'm a 29-30 and I'm almost 5'10).
It goes beyong just monatary stuff. I was always a decent piano player.. this is one point I would agree to you that some things come natrually. I am probably more of a natural musician than the avg person. I have noticed that it does seem to come to me easier than the avg person and usually even the avg musician... I wanted to be able to play good jazz music. Now there isn't a jazz song, a popular one, you can't name that I can't play pretty well. that makes me feel just as good as anything else, that i set out a goal and with no music teacher, just said damnit.. I'm gonna get this ****. And I did.
I wanted to learn how to speak a foreign language. I can go to France today and fit right in.. albeit help from my fiancee who speaks fluent french.
through nothing but the want to be better and making it my chief definite aim in life to become the person that I want to become.
I am living proof... while I'm smart I'm not a genius.. I'll be the first to tell you that. while I am handsome...well i take that back I'm pretty damn handsome lol...sorry.
But you will not, under any circumstance...outwork me for something I want. And I probably will fall on my face a few times, god knows I have. But I will in due time get where I want to go. I relapsed probably 50 times trying to stay clean. at least. If I don't know it, I will surround myself with someone who does or learn it until I get it right.
I read this every morning
I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my definite chief purpose, therefore I demand of myself persistent, aggressive and continuous action towards it’s movement.
1.I realize that the dominating thoughts of my mind will eventually reproduce themselves in outward, bodily action and then gradually transform themselves into physical reality. Therefore I will concentrate my mind for thirty minutes daily on the task for thinking of the person I intent to be, by creating a mental picture of this person and then transforming that picture into reality through my actions.
2.I know that through the principle of autosuggestion, any desire I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of realizing it. Therefore I shall devote ten minutes daily to demanding of myself the development of the factors named in the seventeen lessons of the law of success course
3.I have clearly mapped out and written down a description of my definite purpose in life for the next 5 years, a price that I intent to earn and receive through strict application of the principle of efficient satisfactory service which I render in advance.
4.I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure unless it is built upon truth and justice. Therefore I will engage in no transaction that does not benefit all whom it affects. I will succeed by attracting to me the forces I wish to use and the cooperation of other people. I will induce others to service me because I wills first serve them. I will elimate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness and cynicism by developing love for all humanity, because I know that a negative attitude toward others can never bring one success. I will cause others to believe in me because I will believe in them and in myself.
Having chosen a definite chief aim as my life’s work< I know understand it to be my duty to transform this aim into reality. Therefore I will form the habit of taking some definite action each day that will carry me one step nearer the attainment of my definite chief aim.
I know that procrastination is a deadly enemy of all who would become leaders in any undertaking and I will eliminate this habit from my makeup by:
1.Doing some one definite thing each day, something that ought to be done, without anyone telling me to do it.
2.Looking around until I find at least one thing that I can do each day thatI have not been in the habit of doing, and that will be of value to others, without expectation of pay
3.Telling at least one other person each day the value of practicing this habit of doing something that ought to be done without being told to do it.
I can see that muscles of the body become strong in propitiation to the extent of which they are used. Therefore I understand that the habit of initiative also becomes fixed in proportion to the extent that it is practiced.
I realize the place to being developing the habit of initiative is in the small, commonplace things connected with my daily work. Therefore I will go at my work each day as it if we’re doing it solely for the purpose of developing this necessary habit of initiative.
[FONT="]I understand that by practicing this habit of taking the initiative in connection with my daily work I will not only be developing this habit but I will also be attracting the attention of those who will place greater value on my services
Finally I'll leave you with this
There are three types of people in life
1. the person who does what they are supposed to do without being asked
2. the person who does what they are supposed to do when they are asked
3. the person who does not do what they are supposed to do when they are asked
What type of person are you and which type do you think is the most successful?
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