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Why are hot, uneducated girls harder to game?

skinnyguy

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Yes, I'm aware of this dynamic however it is unfortunate because the hot pharmacist who's well educated and good looking still can't compare against the 22 year old bottle girl with perfect rack and ass who works at a nightclub. I am the ethnic guy who spent his whole life in school and now has his sh1t together. Though you're suggesting that for my demographics, these women are likely unattainable because they're searching for something else?
How old are you my friend? I used to fantasize about the bottle service chicks too but then I went out with some of them and realized how vapid they were. They are nice to look at, but dating wise they suck and they will play so many games it will make your head spin. Occasionally I find a young hot girl who isn’t like that (I’m going out with one of them next week) but it takes time. If I were you I’d screen hard and try to meet them outside of the club setting.

You are basically the same person that I am. It’s better to focus on high interest chicks.
 

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How old are you my friend? I used to fantasize about the bottle service chicks too but then I went out with some of them and realized how vapid they were. They are nice to look at, but dating wise they suck and they will play so many games it will make your head spin. Occasionally I find a young hot girl who isn’t like that (I’m going out with one of them next week) but it takes time. If I were you I’d screen hard and try to meet them outside of the club setting.

You are basically the same person that I am. It’s better to focus on high interest chicks.
32. I was a late bloomer. Super skinny and unattractive during my HS/College years. Once I started putting on weight/lifting, I started getting more attention. After that I lived as AFC for several years, it isnt until now that Im in the Blue to Red pill transition. Hence, why I still find the bottle service chicks attractive because I never got to get with those girls in college, part of me feels unsatisfied with life until I conquer certain milestones.
 
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32. I was a late bloomer. Super skinny and unattractive during my HS/College years. Once I started putting on weight/lifting, I started getting more attention. After that I lived as AFC for several years, it isnt until now that Im in the Blue to Red pill transition. Hence, why I still find the bottle service chicks attractive because I never got to get with those girls in college, part of me feels unsatisfied with life until I conquer certain milestones.
Get on Seeking Arrangement and you could get with so many that it will get boring.

I used to pedestalize bartenders/bottle girls also, but now I have little respect for them.

Could you imagine if your life was so easy that all you had to do was show your butt to people and you could get everything you need?

Their butt = where their sh1t comes out of
 

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Alot of what you are saying is outcome dependant. It's about what you want and how you feel first. Of course with social awareness, calibration and context in mind. Telling men that "You can’t just go up to a random chick and start talking to her anymore, bitches get weird about it." is nonsense. So long as it's not out right insulting, who fvcking cares what they get about it?.?. Maybe, I'm forgetting the average SS that frequents the forum, but in that case they perhaps need more help than can be found here. Just because there may be something wrong with modern women today, doesn't mean we conform as modern men. That would equate to the blind leading the blind. I won't deny, that things are changing, but trends and norms come and go. When, things come full circle, as they will, I would think that one would want to find himself leading the pack, as he should be now, rather than playing catch up from behind.
I’m telling OP what he’s doing wrong if he wants to get laid or see improvement in his dealings with women. Not what’s important for overall self-development. What you’re talking about, especially if it IS to work with getting women, is a much higher concept than he’s able to execute or even really understand right now. Baby steps.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Get on Seeking Arrangement and you could get with so many that it will get boring.

I used to pedestalize bartenders/bottle girls also, but now I have little respect for them.

Could you imagine if your life was so easy that all you had to do was show your butt to people and you could get everything you need?

Their butt = where their sh1t comes out of
Those sugar daddy apps? Don’t you have to pay substantial for them or are you suggesting just game as usual and don’t create a long term arrangement with any one girl?
 
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Those sugar daddy apps? Don’t you have to pay substantial for them or are you suggesting just game as usual and don’t create a long term arrangement with any one girl?
Pay them one time, if they are willing.

Definitely don't do a long-term arrangement, but you can lie and tell them you will at first.
 

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You have to be a woman's type.

Brain-dead women are attracted to brain-dead men.
 

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Really, cause I was at Winghouse the other day and the only guy the girls paid attention to was a white cop when he came in for a few minutes.

Let me guess, you're black?
Richard stop it . They aren't exaggerating. It has nothing to dwL
Ok so besides guys with niche appeal, the only guys I know that do well (at or above their looks) on OLD are very ignorant looking dudes.
That must be the in fashion
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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@RichardTheFrog has achieved MahaGuru status with his more then 200 prostitutes under his belt, an expert at paying money for s€xual services.

I vouch for him.
Non stop spamming about this guy. Grow up!
 

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You have to be a woman's type.

Brain-dead women are attracted to brain-dead men.
Haha. In some ways yes. But I believe it's more complex then that flat out statement.

In every country I travelled I find all women r basically the same. They may look different, hv different customs, languages, tolerances, educational level etc but they all hv plenty in common.

For starters, they all enjoy good looking confident men regardless of his nationality or race. Even if hes not good looking, they will enjoy men who r passionate and highly effective in his passions. A man who is not a bore, a man who will provide all the emotional highs/lows that she wants and needs.
 
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Haha. In some ways yes. But I believe it's more complex then that flat out statement.

In every country I travelled I find all women r basically the same. They may look different, hv different customs, languages, tolerances, educational level etc but they all hv plenty in common.

For starters, they all enjoy good looking confident men regardless of his nationality or race. Even if hes not good looking, they will enjoy men who r passionate and highly effective in his passions. A man who is not a bore, a man who will provide all the emotional highs/lows that she wants and needs.
If all women are the same, then you should be able to f*ck every woman in the world using the same approach and the same formula.
 

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If all women are the same, then you should be able to f*ck every woman in the world using the same approach and the same formula.
Did I say they r all the same? That would be stupid.

What I said is; they hv plenty in common.
 

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Usually the smarter and more educated you are, the less socially savvy/outgoing you are. You may also be a condescending snobby little pr!ck. Hot women with options don't have time for nerds who hit gym then wanna use some rehearsed routines without confidence. They just see through the BS more.
 
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They want us to like them for all that "other stuff" that doesn't exist.

It amazes me how they can cling to the delusion that they are super valuable despite having basically nothing tangible to offer, aside from their looks if they even have them.
You think this, and yet, you are doing everything and anything, including breaking your own bones to be taller, to get validation from these girls.
 

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You think this, and yet, you are doing everything and anything, including breaking your own bones to be taller, to get validation from these girls.
He despises them, even the one's he pays for, he despises it, keeps doing it. Despises the women working lower paid jobs, inferior intelligence, nothing to offer.

Richard has mental health issues and/or mild autism.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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